A secret - Page 5

Originally posted by: kash4life

mods clsoe the topic

but the topic starter has never sed aything bad about barkha

disha 60 being blamed is not right so i apologize to you on behalf of the ppl who are being mean

but babe seriosuly i kno you dont like karan etc but pls dont be sooo out there about it cos like you are a fan of your sis we are fans of karan and we dont wan to hear bad tyhings about him

if you wan tus to respect ur sis u got to respect our loved one two it is a two way system

please

Well so what u want me to do? Write the views about karan which I dont agree to? Look dear I'm posting my views on him as others do, there r many others who give negative views about karan so why to target only me??

If u have objection that I'm doing so being Barkha's cousin so frm now onwards dont take me as her cousin ok. Just take me as any other member whose views can be both positive and negative. Its true that when there is any useless talk about di, I object it and I'll always do it, if not as a sis then as a wellwisher! Besides I was never intrested in writing my views against karan (though I feel) even then I tried to ignore it. But when I read old topics talking all sorts of rubbish about di, so I too decided to post my views. When some members can post personal comments against di even if they dont know her so why should I remain quiet when I know everything? And again I'm saying it that I gave my views on my own grounds, it was upto you to believe me or not! Still I tried to stick strictly to my views till the time I saw other members caming up with comments to bash di personally!

Originally posted by: Lord-Mangeshwar

Hey people 😊

Before I say anything else, let me clarify one thing -

I do not know whether Disha60 is Barkha ji's cousin or not, and nor do I think I can ever find out either... because it's tough to prove anything. My following comments are simply generilistic ones about I-F and what I feel is the best way of going about doing things 😊

In my time at I-F, even I've come across cases where people say things with the intent of misleading others into believing something that is untrue... but bringing the issue out into the open forum probably is not the way to solve (or get to the the bottom of) the issue - if anything, it will just lead to heated arguments, and hurt feelings.

Maybe there are some misunderstandings that can be cleared up via PM instead... and failing that, consider handing the issue over to the mods, and let their team try and figure out what the casereally is (that is if it is possible to figure things out).

I'm sure that the topic starter believes that everyone has been cheated, and so he or she has tried to bring things out into the open... however, unless moderators give permission to do so, I'm sure that this act would be classed as a breech of forum rules.

Also, Disha60 should be given a chance to see if she can back up what she is saying - she says that she was not using that ID during the times of the posts that have been highlighted... and so IP checks can be done to confirm whether or not it really was someone else using that ID, and not her.

Whether Disha60's explanation sounds plausible or not, I think we should at least give what she is saying a chance until such IP checks are done. Whilst her claims may be proven false, there is also a chance that the IP checks show that it was indeed someone else... in which case we'd owe Disha60 an apology.

Whatever the case may be, until there is some sort of answer, let's try and keep peace here in the forums 😊

I'm sorry if anything I've said angers anyone in any way... I'm just hoping that we can all just have a good time and continue to enjoy the JDJ3 😊

God bless.

No offences meant to you n sorry if I sound rude here but I dont need any chance neighter I'm asking for it. I'm what I'm and I dont think that I should ask chance to prove this to everybody!! As I Clearly said, believe me if you want to and dont if u dont want to, I dont care!!! Dont understand whats wrong with the members here. I never asked anybody to believe me its their personal wish that how they want to move.

Besides as I mentioned the person who gave me this ID was member of IF and is good friend of mine now. If it was me who was using this ID from beginning then I wuld start posting my views against Karan the day this ID was created. Ofcourse noone is so fool that she'll jump from not knowing about karan to directly claiming tat she knows him! But you can go for an IP cheak and various other cheaks for your satisfaction, it not at all bothers me.

Mods I want you to look into this matter and take action against this topic starter and I also want that an IP cheak should be done of the person who created this ID (-ATP-) just before making this post. Cheak whether this member already has any account coz I highly doubt it!!

@ Lord-Mangeshwar-At first place I'm not making any claims. I said this was my friends ID so it is, the one who wants to believe can believe and others can do what they want to.

If you think that ATP's concern is not baseless then ok I dont have any prob with ur thoughts. I just wanna say that before bringing this topic to an open public forum -ATP- should first confirm that he has a Base to all his claims. I'm sorry to say but -ATP-, who made this post dont even have a single proof for what he said but I have 1000's of proofs to show that Barkha is my cousin. But will not reveal them coz I dont feel that I should go around proving this to everyone that she is my cousin. Believe if u want and dont if u dont want thats what my funda is, everyone in this forum who is close to me knows this and thats enough for me. IOne thing is sure that ATP is not new to IF, he has also posted a similar topic in DMG forum n thats again very mean, wonder where he ran away after starting this topi but Mr. ATP atleast be sure about what you are posting!

Originally posted by: Lord-Mangeshwar

Disha60, once again I'm reiterating that I am NOT saying that you're lying...

You say you have proof, and so I'll trust your word for it. If it gets to the point where higher mods ask for the proof, then it will be them whoproof should bepresented to... and if that happens, then case closed, kisa khattam!

I just hope that you understand that when you claim to be a relative of a celeb, it's not abnormal for people to initially look at things synically and question the validity ofit - trust me, I've seen posts where members have claimed to have had relatives working at a big production house, where it clearly was not true! 😆

And so we do get rogue members as well as honest members... and most of the times, it's not easy to tell which is which. As you say, someone else had that user ID before you... and so that does definitely complicate things and make them less clear. And so it's stuff like that which made me say that the concern was not baseless.

And let me clarify this, I said that the concern was not baseless - I didn't say that the guy's accusations are true.

In the Bandini forum, a memberjoinedand claimed to beone of the Bandini cast members, but there really wasn't any way of knowing for sure whether it was really him or not... and so I asked Ronit Roy to confirm whether the member was who he said he was. It turned out that it was him 😊 However, simply because of the number of fakes we get here, sometimes we do get suspicious... but as in the example I've given, we do have many honest members also. Unless the GMs say otherwise, I'll trust that you're honest also 👍🏼

But I will 100% agree with you on one thing - ATP should have definitely confirmed things totally (probably with the help of GMs, or via PMs to yourself) before doing somethinglike this. Furthermore, I would say that this post should NOThave been made in the first place because the rules don't allow this! This really is an issue for the higher mods to consider, and not the open forum...

That is all I wish to say 😊

Take care and God bless.

Hmm its really sad that some people make such false claims. But then as I said believe if u want and dont if u dont want, it doesnt makes any differance to me unless these type of topics get created in public. Just want to mention that ATP did pm me regarding this 'secret' topic and the reply wch I gave him is do whatever you want but if u fail to prove yourself then you'll have to pay for it. But I think that person disappeared sometime after making this topic. Well, this says it all.