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Posted: 19 years ago
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I am very sorry to know the losses of LV and Neelam. They are really brave and I wish them very best for their future life.
As for me, I am not married but my parents keep on telling me time and again for this . I am just waiting for the right person to come into my life
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Everyone has has made very beautiful and courages comments and I don't think I need to say anymore.

Anyway, I'm married to this tall and handsome young man, who stole my heart in grade 7. But I just have to tell him that he's married to me. 😉
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hey Princess...

A similar story here. I'm also married to my 7th grade sweet heart who is my life now. :). It's been a year and half since we are married and I must say to all you girls who abhor marriage , it's a bliss to get married to some one you love. :) Good luck!

LV and Neelam,
As every one said, sorry to read about that. But you ladies are inspiration to live for many of us here. Bravo!!

All the best to both of you!

Luv,
Kiran.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: NKSUDHIR

Luv_Ranveer, I was 32 years old when my husband died in his sleep. My daughter was only 8 months old. My two sons were 6 and 4 years old. At that time, I thought, we all will die with him. I used to cry when, used to look at my kids. But then slowly, I started bending down towards God, instead of bending down towars family or friends. Now my kids are teenagers and they are very handsome and healthy. This is because, God supported me throughout my life.
I was attending the college, when my husband died. I had really really tough time for first six years. Now, I am an Certified General Accountant. I work as a Financial Controller in a private company. I have my status, my own identity and respect in the society. It is all because my Lord Krishna is always with me in my every decision of my life.
Sorry, it is a long post. But I could not resist to tell you part of my life story, thinking it may help you to be strong and face the world with courage and dignity. God bless you my friend!!!!


With Love
Neelam



Thank you Neelam for sharing this story with me. You made me feel so special. First time i felt that you can have such nice friends even after loving a man like CJ 😉 Hats off to you.Well i am trying to give a new start to my life, thanks to my family who support me always. If i suceed i'll be the happiest person in this world. But right now its career which is first on my mind.
But Thanks Neelam Di
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Posted: 19 years ago
#45
Sorry LR and Neelam for ur losses
I no its very difficult to stay away from hubbies

Well, I m married but rite now stayin away from my hubby as he is workin abroad and me here in India .....
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Posted: 19 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: luv_ranveer



Thank you Neelam for sharing this story with me. You made me feel so special. First time i felt that you can have such nice friends even after loving a man like CJ 😉 Hats off to you.Well i am trying to give a new start to my life, thanks to my family who support me always. If i suceed i'll be the happiest person in this world. But right now its career which is first on my mind.
But Thanks Neelam Di

my bravo to two very especial ladies.👏. words cannot express how i feel when i witness the strength in you.

as someone has already written, we never know how many real life stories are there in each of us and we get so emotional with fiction...

i am one of the oldies in this forum... married with a two children... one in her teens and one entering the teens...

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Thanks Luv_Ranveer for the reply. From your posts, I can feel that you are working very hard towards your career. Your Ganpatti Bappa is with you all the time. In the near future, HE will send someone to hold your hand and walk together towards your destinations. Life is never a straight line. It sometimes turns, sometimes Zig Zag, sometimes goes in curcles, but with moral support from family and friends, you will reach your destination.

I always believe in Karma. It must be mine and my kids past sins that we lost our loved ones. But Now I beg my Lord Krishna to lead me to the right direction, where I do not heart anybody. I try to do as much Sewa or volunteer work as I can and teach my kids the same.

God bless you with all the happiness in the world!!!

Jai Shri Krishna!!!
Neelam
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Posted: 19 years ago
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God only gives pain that one can handle, it may seem a lot at the time but then time heels it....I was a widow 4 years ago. I got married in 1995 but was living in Uk while my 1st husband was in Pakistan he got his visa in '98 and after 2 months here he was admitted into hospital with a heart condition (he was 27 and I was 23), on the same day I found out I was pregnant. I was working fulltime. I hate sympathy so I did not tell anyone at work and continued working. I used to go to hospital for an hour then to work and then come straight to the hospital and then leave at 10pm on the bus. that was my routine for 3 weeks and then he went into comma and I told them at work and after 5 days he passed away. I had bitter feelings towards him and my in-laws beacuse this was a child hood probelm that they didnt tell me about!! I had my baby boy after 7 months of his death and thought that I will never re-marry and spend my life raising my son.

Then after 4 years my parents took me to pakistan and set up a meeting with this guy who was 4 years younger than me, I was very cross about this but liked his thinking and his appearance when I met him. All is now history I got married to him and he came to Uk 2 weeks after me and we have been living happily ever since. He loves my son a lot and my avatar is there pics!!

Sorry this was too long.... All I want to say is that live life to the full Kia pata Kal ho na ho (filmi very filmi)
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Posted: 19 years ago
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OMG ! I Cant believe tht 2 such brave ladies have suffered such strong blows !

LR........U r very young now,and u r also right tht NOW career comes first,but dear,in the later part of ur life,a time WILL come when u will like coming home to SOMEONE,so LR,if,by any chance u find a man who u think,does deserve u,then please,dont say No to marriage either.....Life isn't a bed of Roses and u know that ! But then.........Koi toh saathi chahiye hi naa ?

I hope tht u succeed in every field of life and always emerge as the WINNER........

urs,

Prachi
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Posted: 19 years ago
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bravo luv_ranveer u come across as so cheerful in the remix forum i would have never known if hadnt wandered here
lost interest in jjkn more than a year ago
may god give u the streenght to go ahead in your life

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