Put yourself in Jassi's shoes...

I placed myself in Jassi's shoes. How would I have reacted? How would I
give a positive message to the woman of today? What power do I have as
a woman that I can utilize and be a role model to other women?. To be
the the best that I can be so that no one ever questions my intentions.

Armaan comes up to me and says Jassi, wah, wah, wah…cry, cry, cry…

Obviously, I would be really upset, but my inner voice says let's talk, "…
what happened? Let's talk about it. This is quite upsetting. Armaan we
have been through thick and thin. We are about to start a life together,
but if you are going to doubt me then perhaps we shouldn't get married. I
would never do anything to hurt you or make you mistrust and I would
expect the same from you. What would make you think of such a terrible
thing? I am sorry I didn't want CJ to sleep in the cold room downstairs.
He was helping me to get home and I didn't want to seem inconsiderate
so I invited him in my room. I can't believe that you would think such a
thing.

My husband put himself in Armaan's shoes and says he would have
replied to me that "I saw CJ getting up from on top of you, what was all
that? Then he comes and tells me...hey sorry buddy, things happen…
your jassi she really loves you. We had a one stand...it won't happen
again."

Then I would have asked Armaan, "Why would CJ say such a thing?
Armaan would say, "Good question, why would he say such a thing?" Both
of us would have questioned his intentions? We would have sought him
out to question him. Chances are he wouldn't know what to say…

I would go onto say, "I don't know why he would do such a thing. Look
Armaan, I love you and I believe in us. However, I also have to maintain
my self-respect and self esteem. Right now, I am really disappointed in
your reaction. Trust is very important to me and I hope that you trust me
always. I want to be the best I can be as a wife, daughter, mother, sister.
Can you help me or do you choose to not trust me?

Armaan would say to me, "Honey, I apologize…it didn't look right. I was
caught completely off guard and these thoughts have been driving me
crazy. I should not have spoken to you the way I did. It was not right...I
am still growing and I need your help to be a better man. I love you more
than life itself and I can't ever bear the thought of you with another man.
I know you would never hurt me. You are someone I look up to and
respect. You are my world and you revolve around me."

Ok, at this point my husband and I agree that we would have both felt
better and we would have learned something from this situation. For
Jassi, it is a feel good, give the world a positive message that hey you
can't mess around with me. For Armaan, the message he gives to men is
that don't judge the book by the cover.

Getting back into jprasad's shoes. Please someone I beg you if I am
wrong then tell me. I don't believe in trust, but I am making a point to
emphasize it, because isn't this the reason Jassi ran away, because of
Armaan's mistrust? More importantly than that, I believe that
communication is the key to success in any relationship…personal or
professional. This was so easily solvable, why is our intelligence being
insulted? Armaan and Jassi did the total opposite things of what was
considered normal. Therefore they are both to blame.

I could NOT have said it better myself. They are absolutely both equally to blame. It's fine for people to take one side or another, but I think those of you who read JP's post can see that in the end, they are both to blame. CJ took advantage of the fact that Jassi & Armaan never communicate. In terms of the show, SONY, Tony, & Deeya really need to realize that the audience that they cater to from Monday-Thursday are AS intelligent, if not MORE intelligent, than their (& our) beloved character of Jasmeet Walia. We're not stupid to believe these twists & turns that are taken on JJKN and accept them as a form of reality. I am sorry, but NO normal person in today's society, middle class or otherwise, thinks that was has been going on on JJKN is ANY version of reality. It's just an insult to our brain power, our faithfulness to the show, & our love for the characters. 🤢

Siddhi
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I don't think Jassi's shoes will fit my little feet. It will be like a two year old putting his feet on his Mama's shoes.

Dear JP,

I read ur msg.. and I completely agree with u but know what even if you wear Jassi's shoes.. U r not gonna think or behave like that retard... 😛

that's why u come up with reasonable answers..

but as we know T and D so well now.. I don't think even after reading your analysis they would understand a thing...

and since I m not in any mood to find faults in Armaan..
I support him..

If ppl are proud of supporting creatures like CJ and Malika, Angel.. then I think I have no regrates in supporting Armaan even when he is wrong.. cause I loved him for being HUMAN and not being GOD.

JP that was very well said and i didnt feel u were wrong but on a personal note im surprised that u said u dont believe in trust.as u say, communication is the imp tool for a successful relationship but good communication brings trust with it in the long run. u expect ur partner to believe in you well enough to listen to u-that for me is trust.

though what a-j did, some people might have done, we dont expect a much cried up couple to behave so senselessly.it wudve been tolerable even if jassi or armaan had cancelled the wedding saying they werent convinced of each others words but here they didnt even talk properly.

putting myself in jassi s shoes, however hurt i might ve been about armaan s mistrust in me..i wudve never cancelled the wedding or run away.my only thought wudve been about all the preparations my family has done and i wud never put them in embarrassing position if i cud help it.go ahead with the wedding, then talk, take time to sort things out and if things dont work out, then ...whatever.

Originally posted by: Katishna

i agree apoorva-preet

thank u dear...

Wow Jprasad. It was beautiful.
Worst to worst . Jassi should have dumped Armaan in shaadi ka mandap. But she decided to run away as usual and put her parents in trouble as she did when she ran away to Mauritius.

If I was in Jassi's shoes it would be very different story by now. I don't take any B S anyways, and for Armaan seeing me with CJ questioning me in a way I don't understand I would say hey, look here no matter how much I love you, you need to clarify your actions towards me. Running away from mandap no way no how I would have taken care of the problem because #1 I don't like to beat around the bush I would have said, I wanted this marriage it's going to happen at any cost because I know I am right, and I will signify that to my spouse. As for my parents if I am there, there is no way any one can insult them specially time after time. Do remember I would have taken care of the problem in advance not the day of marriage, I mean as soon as Armaan came to talk to me. There is no time like present. Pleassssssse I know no one can treat me like that if I was Jassi.

I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH EACH AND EVERY WORD OF YOURS JP

BYE,

ANJANA

JPPPpppppppppppppppp.......*lash faints* you making me too hypoglycaemic these days.....