Debate : Jassi's reaction ............

I mean somehow today I didnt like Jassi's reaction . Yes she is in love and its natural to react the way she did esp when her dream came true but still as a woman who knows that her boss and love is engaged to another person and is soon getting married to her , shouldnt she have controlled herself and tell arman in no certain terms that it was wrong what he was doing .........or to stop herself from making her feelings obvious ......

anyway i think thats why they included the Mallika scene in the end to remind her what she was getting into and where she stood in all this drama .

what abt her parents , wouldnt they be ashamed to know that their daughter was having dreams and infact desperate to get involved with her engaged boss.

I think somewhere its both negative and postive from different perspectives.

but to be honest , I didnt like Jassi's desperation to meet Arman esp when she knows that he is engaged although I also feel that her reaction was natural .

what do u think ..........

lets have a good debate abt it

I thought Jassi's reaction was natural. Why would she try to stay away from Armaan when he said ILU to her? She probably thought if Armaan loved her than he should not be with Mallika. She was not desperate to get involved with Armaan. She loved Armaan and dreaming about him was not harmful, its hard to control the feelings for the one you love. She never ever tried to come between Armaan and Mallika. And again her reaction was quite natural, it was completely understandable that she wanted to talk to Armaan 😊

Why did Armaan wan to kiss her???

Was it a part of the plan ??

or

Was it something else??? Love or Lust?


Coming to the topic. I agree with Tina. I have mixed opinion about Jassi's reaction. She is being tricked by Armaan.

BTW, this was the time I hated Armaan and couldn't figure what J saw in him.... 😛 😛

Originally posted by: laddoo598

I thought Jassi's reaction was natural. Why would she try to stay away from Armaan when he said ILU to her? She probably thought if Armaan loved her than he should not be with Mallika. She was not desperate to get involved with Armaan. She loved Armaan and dreaming about him was not harmful, its hard to control the feelings for the one you love. She never ever tried to come between Armaan and Mallika. And again her reaction was quite natural, it was completely understandable that she wanted to talk to Armaan 😊

yes her reaction was natural but then was it Morally right to expect love and to be loved and to give love to a person who is already engaged . Yes Arman is the one at fault coz he used both the women but then Jassi knows that he is engaged infact she herself was instrumental in it so was it morally right to want to love or get involved when infact she must have controlled it .

Think abt Mallika , in all this I feel she is the victim coz she doesnt have a clue abt Arman's fake love for Jassi nor does she know abt Jassi's love intentions for Arman or her feelings . She is on cloud nine to be engaged to the guy who accepted to get enaged to her and yet its shown as if we have to pity Jassi and feel sad for her when Mallika comes to collect the flowers .

I mean wasnt she as a fiancee expected to assume that the flowers were for her yet its as if Mallika is the one coming between JandA when its the opposite .

I too agree with Tina abt Jassi's reacton.. But she is now on cloud nine so she is not able to see the reality as it stands and this will be there since she is now feeling her dream abt Armaan is actully happening in reality!!!

It's a difficult one Tina. I agree, Mallika is being wronged here. And Jassi's reaction points to a basic flaw in human nature - the lure of the forbidden fruit. It is because of this flaw that best friends or brothers fall for the same girl, that extra marital affairs take place....etc. etc. So while saying that Jassi is wrong in falling for an engaged man, I can also empathise with her.

Originally posted by: hansa

It's a difficult one Tina. I agree, Mallika is being wronged here. And Jassi's reaction points to a basic flaw in human nature - the lure of the forbidden fruit. It is because of this flaw that best friends or brothers fall for the same girl, that extra marital affairs take place....etc. etc. So while saying that Jassi is wrong in falling for an engaged man, I can also empathise with her.

Handa di has put it very well.👏 There is something i'd like to add here: Mallika had come to know that Jassi was the one who had brought them together; yet , far from showing gratitude, she brushed it off as if Armaan belonged to her and would come back to her any way.😡 That's where she was horibly wrong. Armaan had ceased to be hers long ago ( if he was ever hers😕) and was with her only for the sake of Gulmohur and family. I'm not saying Armaan was right, but any woman in that position would have sensed that the guy didn't care for her. The Yana incident had proved it. When she had thrown the ring in Armaan's face, why then did she take him back? She was deluding herself: she was ignoring her own better instinct that would have told her that this man was wrong for her. And that is where i sympathise with Jassi, who did trust her own instinct. Rational thought would say he was playing with her, but she believed what her heart told her and what do you know! She was right...Armaan WAS meant for her!😳

P.S. May I add that all's fair in love? 😉 😆

Originally posted by: tina59

yes her reaction was natural but then was it Morally right to expect love and to be loved and to give love to a person who is already engaged . Yes Arman is the one at fault coz he used both the women but then Jassi knows that he is engaged infact she herself was instrumental in it so was it morally right to want to love or get involved when infact she must have controlled it .

Think abt Mallika , in all this I feel she is the victim coz she doesnt have a clue abt Arman's fake love for Jassi nor does she know abt Jassi's love intentions for Arman or her feelings . She is on cloud nine to be engaged to the guy who accepted to get enaged to her and yet its shown as if we have to pity Jassi and feel sad for her when Mallika comes to collect the flowers .

I mean wasnt she as a fiancee expected to assume that the flowers were for her yet its as if Mallika is the one coming between JandA when its the opposite .

I cannot help but agree with you here, very well said. I too think whatever is happening with Mallika in the reuns now is highly unfair. But then I guess Armaan was the one at fault in this particular situation. Jassi had never tried to come between Mallika and Armaan, it was Armaan who is playing with both the girl's emtions

Again everything changed for Jassi after Armaan said ILU, love makes you do weird things, I dont think we should blame jassi for wanting to get together with a person who is engaged when the person claims to love her

Originally posted by: blyton

P.S. May I add that all's fair in love? 😉 😆

Ditto, that kind of sums it all up😆