Originally posted by: Deepa_iyer
First look at the points given below:
1) Purab helped her in the makeover and to get into Gulmohar. He even cleared her name in that fake ad scandal. But..does she ever remember him these days?? NEVER..
Poor Purab..see what he got for all that he gave her....
My sister used to say St P can never be poor! He is the proud Maalik of a 400cr company that magically thrives in spite of its owner abusing it by spending most of his time voluntarily playing chauffeur and Godfather to poor, rare and unfortunate collectibles like Jassi!
He is a d*** masochist and a hypocrite! That's the truth! And highly thick skinned. Like Ashu said nobody can use you unless you want to! If you are suggesting that marriage or love is the wage of philanthropy, I hugely disagree.
Oh well! I am sick and tired of going over the same points again and again. The character no longer exists (thank heavens!). So, I see no point in wasting my time and energy in discussing a character who is no longer a part of the show.
2) Nandu...has always helped her in all her official matters as well as in encouraging her in her most down moments as well as in going after Armaan. But these days..she never talks of her friendship with him and is full of Armaan and nothing else.
There is a difference between friend and lover. And what do you expect J to do? Sit him on her lap and sing him a lullaby?
They have always stood by each other and if Nandu today is employed, it is because of J. When A made her the maalkin of K, she immediately employed him. Even now, she has employed him at GM, consults him in all important matters and Nandu and J share a true friendship. Nandu expects nothing in return unlike some who pretend to be the saints that they are not!
3) Billu is right...ever since she met Armaan she has had no time for her father or family members...only when she is crying...upset after some fight with Armaan..she cries and goes running to her family members...
what can you mean by that? She is still very much in love with her family and stil showers her love and affection on them. For their sake, she is even ready to rethink her relationship with the love of her life. She saw that Bebe's wish was fulfilled. She is fiercely protective of her family's happiness and safety.
After marriage, a girl has to change her priorities. Pati Parmeshwar now takes first precedence. Her family comes first. This is natural and universal. But this doesn't mean that the girl is neglecting her old family. They are support system and will always remain so. How can you expect the girl to still remain the same old ggirl? I have seen my cousins rattlingaway to their would-be-hubby's over the phone and leaving behind huge bills as a token of their love! J's only giving reign to what may be called as one of those feminine foolhardiness!
4) Gang...No time for gang...all businesslike she is these days...She no longer eats with them in canteen etc. While no doubt,afte engagement to Armaan she may eat with him..once in a while she shud also eat with her gang friends who supported her so much in the past when she was still Miss Chashmish.
This is not fair. Ever since, she returned to India after that blasted make-over, she has had not even a moment of peace and quiet. The Amritsar trip was perhaps the only solace. Since then, the poor girl has ha dto afce the worst ordeal of her life. She has won the love of her life but has she been actually able to savour it, bask in it? I am sure once everything is fine, we will see that our J is still the same. She is not one bit conceited or become 'high and mighty'.
And I think it is natural that newly weds like to spend as much time as possible with their love?
5) Nandini Maam...no sign of the lady.
That's not J's fault! I assure you she doesn't specialize in disappearing charms! Blame T n D n G and perhaps Neens for that.
6) Raj...even his friendship with Armaan has suffered becoz of Jassi. I sympathise with Raj..he is now useless to Armaan. He is correct about leaving Gulmohar becoz of Jassi. Poor Raj....
I am afraid this is being narrow-minded! How can you blame J for the break-up between AR? I think R ought to understand that a wife or girlfriend is a different experience. Friendship and love are two different issues. He has to understand that their relationship needs some adjustments.
I do sympathize with R for his lack of understanding. AJ have gone through and endured the pains and torture of a lifetime. They deserve this happiness, bliss and some time for each other. This doesn't mean that A or J are neglecting R. I am sure when R gets married, he will understand.
And even if A is neglecting R, why should J be blamed for this? She didn't bind A to her forcefully, did she?
It is so funny that in this age where men and women are supposed to enjoy equality, a woman is still the Bakra no matter what happens. Even if an Earthquake occurs, people would be sure to blame a woman for that!
I agree that sometimes J has shown a 360 degree turn from her character, thanks to T n D n G but they may be brushed aside as eccentricities that all humans are subjective to, now and then. That too a woman who has had to undergo so much...she is naturally confused and sacred too. That is a different story alltogether!
MY VERDICT: J is 'NOT GUILTY' of any crime except love! And what a love!!!!
(Assuming that she didn't bite the forbidden fruit!)
J, YOU ROCK! Proud of you.
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J: Armaan sir, did we do it?
A: Hon JASSI, it doesn't matter. We can always count on the viewers suffering from partial amnesia!
ARMAAN SURI ROCKS! ARMAAN JASSI FOREVER!