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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: spike

I think Mallika is just getting what she deserved for a looooong time....but i still hate jassi/jessica 😡

I agree to it that Mallika deserves punishment. What i would have done in Jassi's place was take charge of Gulmohar and then hand over the company to Mehra group of industries. Purab will take care of those people as he is good at throwing tantrums on those type of people. We both will make Mallika's life a hell 😆

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: smita24

I don't agree with you minnie. I think the kind of treatment Jassi got from Mallika was right. We too belong to Middle class family, we too have bosses. We don't give a damn to what happens in their personal life. Its their buisness. But Jassi took too much interest in Mallika's and Armaan's relationship. Her job doesnot include sending both of them to councellors but she did all that. Getting insulted from Mallika wa jassi's choice. She chose humiliation to a respected and prospective job. Its her fault, if she really wanted to get out from Armaan and Mallika's life she should not have come back to Gulmohar. Her problems would have ended there.

This is highly unpractical that the director of a company is tolerating all this nonsense. In real life she long back would have got a kick on her butt and thrown out.

Originally posted by: smita24

But as far as I know, Mallika had been insulting Jassi since the time she set foot in Gulmohar, right?

And also, yes, Jassi could have went to find another job, but that still does not justify Mallika's mean actions!

Just my thoughts..

Thats is true. But Jassi made situation worst for herself. Mallika was bad with Jassi from the first day, but that was not something new for Jassi and secondly Armaan always defended her. What did jassi do ? become the CEO of gulmohar by blackmailing the same Arman. And above all Jassi chose the humiliation she got from Mallika and dragged her family too in it. Nandu had been telling Jassi that Armaan will be forgiven for Kohinoor because he is Puru's son. You will have to bear the consequenses. But Jassi chose to take all that . So now what ?? i guess she is herself responsible for the humiliation she brought to her family.

If Mallika is proud of her being high class she has it. She has money which belongs to her. But jassi she is doing all this on other's money, others fecilities. Besharmi ki bhi had hoti hai 😡 Mallika never told Jassi to get her clothes from Laundry even though she was just a secy of Armaan. And now 😡 I HATE JESSICA.

I beg to differ with you Smita. Jassi might have had 1001 faults but being mean has never been one of them. Even today whatever she is doing with Mallika is what she deserves.

Having money and class means you have the right to be rude and cruel to others? Make jibes at other people's low class upbringing? Make fun of a person and think it is their birthright? Let's not talk of Jassi deserved that treatment or not.No one,but no one,no matter how weak,deserves that kind of a cruel biased attitude. If tomorrow I become the queen of England would mean I would get insulting with anyone not of my class? Don't forget when Jassi landed this job,she was desperate.So of course the classy Mallika found it her birthright to redicule an already flustered and desparate girl??

As for having the class and money,she did not achieve it.She was handed down on a platter which to a certain extent even she herself is responsible for loosing. She did choose Armaan over Aryan as a chairman for personal reasons,did she not? And no matter how much I love Armaan,it is evident he was not very practical and far sighted as far as business goals were concerned. Yet Mallika was least bothered with that.All she knw was,if she supported Armaan,he would marry her. And classy for me does not mean classy clothes and classic arrogance. For me any kind of meanness is low class,especially when it is an attitude.

Jessica might have had an easy time becoming a model , but the hard times and the deceit she has had to face due to her simple and timid nature requires us to cut some slack to her new self who is just learning to assert herself. People who lack self confidence often fail to react the right way when faced with cruelty. That is the difference between a person with self confidence and the lack of it. Just look at Mallika and see just what one whimsical action of a supposedly whimsical model has done to her. And you think a desparate girl like Jassi had a chance?

I think the kind of treatment Jassi got from Mallika was right. We too belong to Middle class family, we too have bosses....Getting insulted from Mallika wa jassi's choice.

I can't beleive I am reading this.......Anyway,as for us working and having bosses,all of us do not face the same kind of problems. It would be as useless to argue about it here as it would be to argue that there is no racism,castism,statism,sexism or exploitation in the work field. Those who don't face it,are lucky and can afford to say,we also work but such things don't happen to us. But those who do, how often do they react against it? So what do we say,that they deserve it? 😡🤢

As for those who think Mallika is the only one who is working to get her company back on the feet,think again.Correct me if I am wrong,but wasn't she the one who stole from her own company and pushed it to a definite ruin to settle a personal score with this very girl who we taking to the cleaners for giving Mallika a dose of her own cruel attitude ? mallika Seth, who sent an old woman to death bed,is gleeful over a loss of a home by an elderly couple who have already lost everything just because their daughter happened to be the girl whom her obviously reluctant fiance fell for? and is not even repentant about it??

A woman who single handedly is responsible for causing so much grief just by her mean and nasty nature,we have started favouring her just because she was asked to change a dress and fetch some clothes that too from a shop??

Sorry,but I find no reason to dislike Jessica at all or like Mallika,even a tiny winy bit.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Minnie you are good at Arguing, i won't be able to argue with you , i mean not very good at writing i have my points but won't be able to pen them down so well.

I just want to ask you one thing. How much time did you take to write this loooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnggggggggggg post. I don't have the patience to read such a long post. But jitnaa maine para. I just want to ask you one question. You might find it a bit personal (sorry for that )

What will be your attitude if your husband starts giving more importance to his secy,puts you down before her and defends her for everything you do to her, and on basis of that she starts interfering in your personal life ? You will become something more rude than Mallika , i am sure.

Definetely it has class difference, but above that i feel it is jealousy. Nothing more than that.

Edited by smita24 - 20 years ago
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Posted: 20 years ago
#24

Thanks for the compliments dear. Don't worry,it's all about interest. I love writing and hence time is all but a factor....

To answer ur ques,If I feel my husband is giving more importance to his secretary,I will bite his head off. I will tell him in no uncertain terms that I DO NOT like it. But I will not make it a mission of my life to humiliate the girl for no apparent reason. If I do,then I would consider myself a really lowly being. In fact, we have a lady friend whose parents side of the family is one of the closest family friend of my husband. That lady holds a massive candle to my hubby dear. She too is married now with kids but unfortunately still keeps holing the candle.......when we all met again after many years,she started to make his fav dishes, even bring it over to our house...and my hubby dear obviously delighted in being paid so much attention and praised her to no end......and then finally one certain day,I made it clear I don't like it. But I never even let the lady know what I thought. Slowly my hubby understood and started paying a lot of attention to me when she was around and she ultimately got the message. We continue to be great friends. I understand her pov as at one point of time she had dreamt of marrying him but my hubby dear was oblivious to her.........

See,here is the difference. Here is a person who values me and my feelings. Who clearly loves me and is ready to do anything to keep me happy. Now, if he did not value me or my opinion, I would not even think of making a home with him. I would rather set him free. I would not spend hours doing jaasoosi on him.suspecting his every move, all the time distrusting him, and when finally when my suspicions are confirmed,take my ire out on the unsuspecting girl rather than leave him in disgust. As of now,I don't see even an iota of self respect in Mallika.

Besides,I could have understood,maybe somewhat even emphathise with Mallika if her redicule of jassi started after she found out about Armaan's feelings for Jassi and vice versa. But if you remember, she started her mean attitude towards Jassi the very day she set foot in GM. In fact,after she found out,she never ever set eyes on Jassi again.😆

There is simply no excuse for bad behaviour.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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That was good one. And guess what this time i read the full thing 😆

O.k. You are lucky your husband listened to you. But what if he didn't ?? what if he and his family is taking that lady's side and telling you that you are wrong. Your frustration will defienetly shift to that lady coz you don't have any other way of doing it.

Mallika had a relationship with Armaan for 10 years, which is not less. Because of Jassi if went off on the day she was supposed to put mehandi on her hand. (Now you will say if it was not Jassi then somebody else) in that case Mallika would have damaged that person. But since that added to her year long frustration towards Jassi , she went for it.

I believe that Jessica should fight back, but can't she do it in a sinsible manner. Telling Mallika to wear Jassi type dress, whom are they laughing on ? Jassi or the non lookers on world ? just because she is beautiful now at other's expense ???

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Posted: 20 years ago
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frankly i don't care bout bothe of them... i agree w/u that mailka deserv.. it.. if i were jessi i would be bit the f%$k out of malika,but hey it just me. Only thing i like bout malika is her dressing style.. wow she has some fashion senc.. oh ya i also like jessica's style(sometime)

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: Minnie

I beg to differ with you Smita. Jassi might have had 1001 faults but being mean has never been one of them. Even today whatever she is doing with Mallika is what she deserves.

Having money and class means you have the right to be rude and cruel to others? Make jibes at other people's low class upbringing? Make fun of a person and think it is their birthright? Let's not talk of Jassi deserved that treatment or not.No one,but no one,no matter how weak,deserves that kind of a cruel biased attitude. If tomorrow I become the queen of England would mean I would get insulting with anyone not of my class? Don't forget when Jassi landed this job,she was desperate.So of course the classy Mallika found it her birthright to redicule an already flustered and desparate girl??

As for having the class and money,she did not achieve it.She was handed down on a platter which to a certain extent even she herself is responsible for loosing. She did choose Armaan over Aryan as a chairman for personal reasons,did she not? And no matter how much I love Armaan,it is evident he was not very practical and far sighted as far as business goals were concerned. Yet Mallika was least bothered with that.All she knw was,if she supported Armaan,he would marry her. And classy for me does not mean classy clothes and classic arrogance. For me any kind of meanness is low class,especially when it is an attitude.

Jessica might have had an easy time becoming a model , but the hard times and the deceit she has had to face due to her simple and timid nature requires us to cut some slack to her new self who is just learning to assert herself. People who lack self confidence often fail to react the right way when faced with cruelty. That is the difference between a person with self confidence and the lack of it. Just look at Mallika and see just what one whimsical action of a supposedly whimsical model has done to her. And you think a desparate girl like Jassi had a chance?

I think the kind of treatment Jassi got from Mallika was right. We too belong to Middle class family, we too have bosses....Getting insulted from Mallika wa jassi's choice.

I can't beleive I am reading this.......Anyway,as for us working and having bosses,all of us do not face the same kind of problems. It would be as useless to argue about it here as it would be to argue that there is no racism,castism,statism,sexism or exploitation in the work field. Those who don't face it,are lucky and can afford to say,we also work but such things don't happen to us. But those who do, how often do they react against it? So what do we say,that they deserve it? 😡🤢

As for those who think Mallika is the only one who is working to get her company back on the feet,think again.Correct me if I am wrong,but wasn't she the one who stole from her own company and pushed it to a definite ruin to settle a personal score with this very girl who we taking to the cleaners for giving Mallika a dose of her own cruel attitude ? mallika Seth, who sent an old woman to death bed,is gleeful over a loss of a home by an elderly couple who have already lost everything just because their daughter happened to be the girl whom her obviously reluctant fiance fell for? and is not even repentant about it??

A woman who single handedly is responsible for causing so much grief just by her mean and nasty nature,we have started favouring her just because she was asked to change a dress and fetch some clothes that too from a shop??

Sorry,but I find no reason to dislike Jessica at all or like Mallika,even a tiny winy bit.

Oh my God Minnie I agree with you to the core!!!!!!!!

Let me tell you i was reading some of these posts on how people think Jessica is worng and how they feel bad for Malika and my first thought was...."are we in the twilight zone"?????😕

Malika not deserving Jessica's behavior towards her is as bazzar as Michael Jackson being head of the children welfare department and Bin Landen being the world ambassador.

In any case. I'm not here to debate on how Jessica chooses to take her revenge and it it's is valid for her to change her identity or not. Those are seperate issues.

The point at hand is the fact that Malika is deserving of what Jessica is doing to her. That is the truth!!!

It was Jessica that had the decency to at never talk back to Malika in any bad way or form. Malika bluntly insulted her to her face about her appearance but she never said one thing about her. Malika never recongnized Jassi's capabilites, but would treat her like she was nothing more than somone responsible for making coffee during a board meeting.

Could you imagine how that must feel? Jassi is emotionally scared by what Malika did and said to her.

Jassi endures all that but still nothing. Until one fine day this b*&^% insults her family members on TV. Forget how she's caused so much trouble for Jassi, but to do that to her family.

I love my family so much that yes I do anything to get reveng from who every was responsible. I consider myself to be a great person at heart and when I hunt someone I have no problem saying sorry and accepting my mistake. But i'm not Mahatma Gandhi or Mother Teresa and sit back watch this unjustice happen to my family. You mess with my family you mess with me ....period!

This woman was responsible for her grandmother having a heart attack. And people are worried about how come she wasn't thinking straight to walk back into GM and fight Malika face to face. Why should she care about GM?

Now, the reason why I'm taking this debate to so seriously is because I can actually put myself in Jassi's position and try and understadn the rage she must be feeling towards the people who have done this to her family. What right did Malika have to do such a thing???

Jassi never ever claimed to be a saint, when you push somoeone to edge like that ofcousrse they're going to want to get revenge.

If I was Jassi, and someone did that my family, God seriously help you. I loved my very much. The relationship that Jassi has with her father is so precious, when he cries she cries. I would never ever forgive Malika for walking up to him and talking shit like that and insulting him. The only differrence between me and Jessica is that at least Jessica is not doing anything to Malik that will scar her emotionally, she's just bringing her down to earth.

And what exactally has Jassi done to Malika that is so bad? Pick up her drycleaning, make her work a little, had her skip her meals......Oh my God...Jassi is too much.

Let's just say in my opinion, Jassi should do a lot more to that *&^%$^&& 😡!!!!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: Minnie

I beg to differ with you Smita. Jassi might have had 1001 faults but being mean has never been one of them. Even today whatever she is doing with Mallika is what she deserves.

Having money and class means you have the right to be rude and cruel to others? Make jibes at other people's low class upbringing? Make fun of a person and think it is their birthright? Let's not talk of Jassi deserved that treatment or not.No one,but no one,no matter how weak,deserves that kind of a cruel biased attitude. If tomorrow I become the queen of England would mean I would get insulting with anyone not of my class? Don't forget when Jassi landed this job,she was desperate.So of course the classy Mallika found it her birthright to redicule an already flustered and desparate girl??

As for having the class and money,she did not achieve it.She was handed down on a platter which to a certain extent even she herself is responsible for loosing. She did choose Armaan over Aryan as a chairman for personal reasons,did she not? And no matter how much I love Armaan,it is evident he was not very practical and far sighted as far as business goals were concerned. Yet Mallika was least bothered with that.All she knw was,if she supported Armaan,he would marry her. And classy for me does not mean classy clothes and classic arrogance. For me any kind of meanness is low class,especially when it is an attitude.

Jessica might have had an easy time becoming a model , but the hard times and the deceit she has had to face due to her simple and timid nature requires us to cut some slack to her new self who is just learning to assert herself. People who lack self confidence often fail to react the right way when faced with cruelty. That is the difference between a person with self confidence and the lack of it. Just look at Mallika and see just what one whimsical action of a supposedly whimsical model has done to her. And you think a desparate girl like Jassi had a chance?

I think the kind of treatment Jassi got from Mallika was right. We too belong to Middle class family, we too have bosses....Getting insulted from Mallika wa jassi's choice.

I can't beleive I am reading this.......Anyway,as for us working and having bosses,all of us do not face the same kind of problems. It would be as useless to argue about it here as it would be to argue that there is no racism,castism,statism,sexism or exploitation in the work field. Those who don't face it,are lucky and can afford to say,we also work but such things don't happen to us. But those who do, how often do they react against it? So what do we say,that they deserve it? 😡🤢

As for those who think Mallika is the only one who is working to get her company back on the feet,think again.Correct me if I am wrong,but wasn't she the one who stole from her own company and pushed it to a definite ruin to settle a personal score with this very girl who we taking to the cleaners for giving Mallika a dose of her own cruel attitude ? mallika Seth, who sent an old woman to death bed,is gleeful over a loss of a home by an elderly couple who have already lost everything just because their daughter happened to be the girl whom her obviously reluctant fiance fell for? and is not even repentant about it??

A woman who single handedly is responsible for causing so much grief just by her mean and nasty nature,we have started favouring her just because she was asked to change a dress and fetch some clothes that too from a shop??

Sorry,but I find no reason to dislike Jessica at all or like Mallika,even a tiny winy bit.

Oh my God Minnie I agree with you to the core!!!!!!!!

Let me tell you i was reading some of these posts on how people think Jessica are wrong and how they feel bad for Malika and my first thought was...."are we in the twilight zone"?????

Malika not deserving Jessica's behavior towards her is as bazaar as Michael Jackson being head of the children welfare department and Bin Landen being the world ambassador.

In any case, I'm not here to debate on how Jessica chooses to take her revenge and it it's valid for her to change her identity or not. Those are separate issues.

The point at hand is the fact that Malika is deserving of what Jessica is doing to her. That is the truth!!!

It was Jessica that had the decency to at never talk back to Malika in any bad way or form. Malika bluntly insulted her to her face about her appearance but she never said one thing about her. Malika never recognized Jassi's capabilities, but would treat her like she was nothing more than someone responsible for making coffee during a board meeting.

Could you imagine how that must feel? Jassi is emotionally scared by what Malika did and said to her.

Jassi endures all that but still nothing. Until one fine day this b*&^% insults her family members on TV. Forget how she's caused so much trouble for Jassi, but to do that to her family.

I love my family so much that yes I do anything to get revenge from who ever were responsible. I consider myself to be a great person at heart and when I hunt someone I have no problem saying sorry and accepting my mistake. But I'm not Mahatma Gandhi or Mother Teresa and sit back watch this injustice happen to my family. You mess with my family you mess with me ....period!

This woman was responsible for her grandmother having a heart attack. And people are worried about how come she wasn't thinking straight to walk back into GM and fight Malice face to face. Why should she care about GM?

Now, the reason why I'm taking this debate to so seriously is because I can actually put myself in Jassi's position and try and understand the rage she must be feeling towards the people who have done this to her family. What right did Malika have to do such a thing???

Jassi never ever claimed to be a saint, when you push someone to edge like that ofcousrse they're going to want to get revenge.

If I was Jassi, and someone did that my family, God seriously help you. I loved my very much. The relationship that Jassi has with her father is so precious, when he cries she cries. I would never ever forgive Malika for walking up to him and talking shit like that and insulting him. The only difference between me and Jessica is that at least Jessica is not doing anything to Malik that will scar her emotionally, she's just bringing her down to earth.

And what exactly has Jassi done to Malika that is so bad? Pick up her dry-cleaning, make her work a little, had her skip her meals......Oh my God...Jassi is too much.

Let's just say in my opinion, Jassi should do a lot more to that *&^%$^&& !!!!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: smita24

I agree to it that Mallika deserves punishment. What i would have done in Jassi's place was take charge of Gulmohar and then hand over the company to Mehra group of industries. Purab will take care of those people as he is good at throwing tantrums on those type of people. We both will make Mallika's life a hell 😆

Good one, but there's jut one problem in your way of thinking......Jessica is true to Armaan, she is not as cheap as Malika to take revenge on everyone else. This is between Jessi and Malika, why would she drag all of Armaan's family and hand out GM to Purab. That's insane.

This is the difference between Jassi and Malika....that's somehting Malika would do, not Jassi.

I get that you very dissapointed that Jassi is not with Purba, so your taking it out on Jassi.

Just my thoughts.....

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: lilhenna

Two wrongs do not make a right. If you slap me, doesn't mean that I have to slap you. An eye for an eye is arcahic.

No doubt Mallika was awful to Jassi, but as I mentioned, Jassi was having a "thing" with her financee. What? Was Mallika supposed to adore her? Even if one argues that Mallika didn't know, Jassi was still the person taking up most of her fiancee's time. That has to trigger some warnings and jealousy.

Revenge is terrible, and is not befitting on Jassi.

I'm not saying that she shouldn't run Mallika through hoops. I'm just say that she shouldn't enjoy it. Don't know if that makes sense. If she enjoys it, that would indicate that who Jassi is from the inside has changed. That to me is sad.

I think Jassi having confidence and flare is great, I just don't want this to turn into a typical Indian saga about hate and vindictiveness.

That's great.... "an eye for an eye will make the whole world blind" I totally agree with you......

But is Jassi even doing anything like that? I don't think so.

If she was actually doing that, then she would be insulting Malika's family, disrepsecting them, trying to get Malika in jail, and ofcourse insulting her about her looks.

Sorry Jassi only asked Malika to do some work.

So sad na....what is this world coming to.

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