armaan - Page 11

yes, casually saying that i love apu wouldnt perhaps make a difference....but saying that i love apu and only apu, and i will always love him sounds funny

yes, the word love can be used in many contexts...i love pizzas and i love my mother dont mean the same......but the context in which priya and anu use it implies that they LOVE apu the way a wife would love her husband.....

love is a something of a misnomer here....there is a difference ..what most of you'll harbour here in infatuation, admiration for armaan, fervent adulation.....jassi loved nandu, she loved armaan...there's a difference in the two 'loves'...the point is, piyu and anu tell that they love apu the way jassi loved armaan...that's preposterous!!!

ab hindi mein, pasand,paar ishq mohabbat


#1)pasand meaning you like something...mujhe armaan pasand hai

#2)pyaar is the lighter less ardent version..mein apni behen se bahut pyaar karti hoon.


#3)ishq is more stronger than pyar, but not as ardent and vehement as mohabbat


#4)mohabbat is the ultimate

sadly

(this might be wrong as I'm not very good at hindi but happened to see the disastrous aftab shivdasani, suniel sheety, kirti reddy, isha kopikkar,arjun ramphal starrer pyaar ishq aur mohabbat😆 but there is a difference right...hindi connoisseurs please enlighten me 😳 )

when they say they love apu a lot it means no body can replace him as their favourite hero.. 😛

Originally posted by: a4j4ever

when they say they love apu a lot it means no body can replace him as their favourite hero.. 😛

no sharmi.....this is what anu wrote

Originally posted by: Apurva

thanks for those lovely advice buffie and promise i didnt mind yaar.Par mujhe lagta nahi yeh advice mere kuch kaam ayenge.Coz I loved apurva from day one of pardes, I loved him in Dhund, I loved him in kasoor, I loved him in pyaar diwana hota hai, i loved him in Krodh, I loved him in pyaar koi khel nahi and not to forget JASSI JAISSI KOI NAHI.

U might think that THIS GIRL IS A GONE CASE OR ITS JUST A TEENAGE CRUSH but i call it love. I cant prevent myself from loving him, i adore everything abt him, for me APURVA AGNIHOTRI IS FLAWLESS, HE IS A GEM OF A PERSON and my list goes on........

even if u continue arguing still then my opinion wont change. I love him the way he is and will continue loving him. Even after 50 or 60 yrs if i survive then ask me the same question DO U LOVE APURVA my answer will be YES.

she says its not a crush, its love.....liking apu as an actor would be an admiration, not love.....i really like aamir as an actor, i admire him..but i say its a crush, NOT LOVE😃

and anu, pardes released in 1997 on the eve of the 50th year of indepencence...you and me were 9 years old then...we were KIDS and a kid cannot possibly LOVE.....yes, a kid can be a fan of an actor, like I was a very big fan of goofy, i loved( meaning admired and immensely liked) goofy...i collected every possible sticker, label, book,poster, skirt, watch,tee, stuffed toy, toys etc which had goofy.......i carefully safeguarded it untill my sister destrouyed my entire damn collection when she was 2 years old😭

a 9 year old child cannot love/hharbour a crush....its admiration at the most...but at the age of 15, when jjkn started,one can very well harbour a crush...but at 9????IMPLAUSIBLE!!!!!!!!

what anu does is idolise..a different kind of love. 😛

if she idolizes him, she would do all that he does...idolize means to admire and respect someone very much, often too much.......i dont think she respects apu, she's says she's in love with him.....admiration is not LOVE 😛 ...I admire The president of India, i dont love him 😆 ..I idolize him, i dont love him.....

yeah..i give it to you there...atleast you accept it that your suffer from mild schizophrenia 😉 (your own words 😉 ..convoluted by me..sorry)

Originally posted by: priyaaa

muahaha..but okay..so is it possible to live your life without loving? 😕 i mean, say you know that your life won't be much longer..would you try to love? 😕 would it be possible? 😕

dare not tell me that--------------😡.........not even for name sake please...😡........i would die a hundred deaths 😭

See, hypotheticaly lets say a girl called Ms.X is going to die soon, she would perhaps fantasize....she would perhaps want to live every moment of her remaining life to the fullest, and would want to live the most intimate desires of her heart......they might either derive the pleasure either actively or passively....Suppose X is going to die soon...she wants to visit the Alps......if her legs support her, and if she has the finances, she would head to the Alps...a ka deriving her pleasure in the active way...but if she is not well, she would perhaps watch the Alps on TV....a ka the passive way.....one can draw the same analogy to all the wishes........

so yes,living the fantasies is one thing, falling in love is another.....I havent experienced it, but i believe that falling in love is an out of the world experience, and it takes time....the instant attraction that one feels is a crush/infatuation/puppy love..........the puppy love can burgeon into the real grave love when one gets to know more and more about the person,after talking to him/her, and knowing inside out the minus points and the plus points.....the adulation can either take root to finally become love, or it might end just there..but for the former to happen, we must know the person......this entire misunderstandings(i.e. confusing ourselves between a crush and love) stem due to our juvenile gullible nature....we are just 15 and 18 respectively..and I think we have to see more of the world.....and even at 30, if you piyu tell me that you still LOVE apurva, then i'll eat my hat😉😆😆

Love is arguably the most enigmatic feeling.....I'm citing the example of my own grandparents....my grandmom always had the hots for my grandfather😃, but he was indifferent towards her..he used to like her but he had a crush on his neighbour😃...a deeppppppppppp crush😃.....they went on clandestine dates and all that in the 1940's😃..but then they parted as the girl wanted to marry too early.....then my grandfather was married to my grandmom,my grandmom was in the seventh heaven.......my grandfather wasnt exactly in LOVE, but he liked my grandmom,he was acquainted to her for many years, she was a nice girl, a good family etcetera etcetera and thus he agreed to marry.... but he confesses that had circumstances been conducive, he would have married his neighbour then.....after 50 odd years of mrriage, now if i ask my grandfather, he says that he wouldnt have been any more happier if he had married anyone else....and now he tells me that he cannot say that he loved his neighbour,as that was just a crush.....he says that it takes time...it took him almost 3 years to fall in love with my grandmother......and he also says that a person can LOVE only one person....he yet has a crush on his nubile neighbour, when he reminiscences, he says that "Oh!She was so pretty"😳😆..but he doesnt love her...LOVE has nothing to do with looks.....that makes it one of the most enigmatic experiences😃

we often labour under the delusion that a crush is love...aishah was in the same boat...OMG, how much we argued about this😆...she JUST WASNT WILLING to accept that hers is a crush....but eventually she did......