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Posted: 19 years ago
#91

Woah!! look at the number of pages

my two cents on your discussion about love, I am not sure who I would be agreeing w/ but:

Although I personally believe I have to actually know the person by meeting him, it is quite possible and does happen that you love the person even if you dont meet him. Wasnt there some movie on how a guy was deeply in love w/ Sushmita Sen even though he didnt know her?😳

I am googling more stuff out...will post it later tonight😳

-khair

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I have to agree with what Buffie is trying to say here. I think most of us are confusing infatuation with love. You cannot possibly say that you love a person, unless you have lived with that person and know him inside out.

I used to think that I was in love with my hubby when i was in college - my day was incomplete if I didn't see him. He was always on my mind. I did all the crazy things that girls who are "in love" do at that age... 😳 I used to even wait every night dot at 10.00 p.m. by our hostel window, just so that i could catch a glimpse of him - he used to go past our hostel on his bike at that time 😆 I used to haunt our college even during the weekend, just so that i might bump into him in the library or the canteen! 😳

But it was only after we got married did my rose-tinted glasses fall off and I saw the real him. His weaknesses now stared me in the face. Our marriage, like most marriages saw lots of ups and downs; we both hurt each other in the process. And then i found myself thinking - if given a second chance, would I still marry this guy? Would I still want to grow old with him? And I found myself saying yes. And then it dawned on me that what i felt for him NOW was love: what i felt for him before marriage was infatuation.

Hence the love that we feel for actors or cricketers or characters - whether it be in a book or a movie or a soap can be described as admiration, adulation, infatuation, NOT love. Love can only happen for a person who you have lived with, whom you know inside out. This is not to say that the feelings that you have for Armaan are in any way less. It's just that love is not the right word for it. Sometimes adulation and infatuation can be more profound and intense than love 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
#93
i guess not everyone's life is long enough for love then
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Posted: 19 years ago
#94
I liked him in JJKN. B'coz I have not seen any of his movies only part of Pardes.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Love... I don't think I'm ready to understand the meaning of that word yet... to do so would be to bring me back to earth.... i'm happy to soar among the stars right now, thanks!
I do love armaan suri... just like i love many other fictional characters... Fantasizing is fun and all... but one must remind one's self that all of this is only a dream... that can be blown away by a stray breeze at any second.

Er... my excuse for writing a bunch of randomness:
it's one in the morning and i am EXHAUSTED... -_-
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~Taheera~



Fantasizing is fun and all... but one must remind one's self that all of this is only a dream... that can be blown away by a stray breeze at any second.


YES...that's very important.....one must finally realize that everything is just a dream,something so delicate that it can be diluted anytime.....and giving too much importance to our dreams that we start and end our day with it is ridiculous!...Dreams can be of many sorts...i dream of setting up my own firm 10 years down the lane😛.....that's my dream, i do dream about it alot😳, but i'm definitely not always in the dream world.....I'm not saying that dreaming is wrong or its useless......but one must realize that its yet just a dream, a figment of a person's imagination and something which is NOT TRUE......

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Posted: 19 years ago
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As we all know love is very complicated, it comes with lots of asserts of its own. As I have said before that I dont like Armaan I love him but this love is not the same as you fall in love. Its I love Armaan not that I am in love with him.
The only way to fall in love with someone is to be with that person. Feel and share things with him or her.
You have to share emotional bond with that person to be in love. Yeah its true you can even fall in love with your spouse in arrange marriages, and it is also true you could be married to your spouse for years and years and never fall in love with them but you love them.

Remember these words "I LOVE AND I AM IN LOVE"
Now regardless Armaan is my bomb-shell-babe, and I love him. There should be no doubt that if someone is saying something bad about him that I am not going to come and defend him because I love him 😳

Sharila Di
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hansa dii, Sharila dii, and Tiki 👍🏼

I agree w/ all three of you. 😳

the love that we feel for Armaan or Apoorva is a totally different kind than the one we feel when we fall in love w/ some1 who we can meet and talk to rather than just adore on TV. 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_kp

Hansa dii, Sharila dii, and Tiki 👍🏼

I agree w/ all three of you. 😳

the love that we feel for Armaan or Apoorva is a totally different kind than the one we feel when we fall in love w/ some1 who we can meet and talk to rather than just adore on TV. 😊

yes...and the love we harbour for armaan is profound fervent fondness, and not the spousal kind of love....there are many kinds of love.....fatherly love, motherly love, sisterly love, spousal love, and ardent fondnesss which we call love.....there is a difference......i can be ardently fond of a person whom I dont know, but i cannot be in LOVE with him

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Posted: 19 years ago

i Think we all are getting confused here... 😆

Buffie when i say i love armaan it doesnt mean we getting married or i even expect him to come mgically to me and come and fall in love with me..
Just they you love something..like you love some books some movies some songs.. same way i love the character Armaan! 😛
and i love apu as a actor would mean i admire him a lot!!! 😳

i think you are taking the word way too literally....

Edited by a4j4ever - 19 years ago

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