Does girls go for bad guys.... - Page 3

I agree PJ it's really hard to accept these facts when you are teen but when you face real life you come to accept these facts......if someone had told these stuff to me in my teen life I would have said "whatever"!!! but then after 7 yrs of marriage, I do agree to it 😉

....a great thought indeed....but i just hav to say something bout the last line u wrote chitra.....nd i really believe this....guyz nd girls can never be friendz only....i mean to say they can be v v v close to each other but u know LOve actually comes in between....either from teh boys side or the girls side this has to happen.....love will cum between their friendship....nd dats wat i believe.....just wanna say sorry to those u didnt like this thought....but my experience says this.....

luv Raj

i agree humtum... not everyone agree with this and they dont have too, buti too think that a girl and a guy can never be friends there has to be some kind of attraction, love, liking, flirting, infactuation something more then simple girl to girl friend or boy to boy friend.

[quote=pj04]it might be exciting to live by volcano but when it erupts , it is gonna burn your entire personality and life and most probably leave you traumatised and emotionally crippled. on the other hand living by ditch water may not be fun but in years you will find ways to use that water and someday it may become indispensible and maybe even your lifeline. [/quote]

Puja, Puja, Puja! I HAD to log in and say this. You hit the proverbial nail on the head as always! Simply said, yet absolutely true and brilliant. 👏

As for me...give me the "boring" or "seedha" guy who loves me with all his heart. I'm also very boring according to my friends. We'll live our stable, boring life Happily Ever After.

Opposites attract...true...But do they last is the bigger question. (I'm sure that some of you will have answers for that too. 😆)

I feel that in real life there is a very low chance of this happening. Reel life is not comparable.

well, I married a volcano and I am damn glad I did. He is a little on the wild side, but a teddy bear at heart. 3 yrs later, we are still happy and I don't consider myself traumatized and emotionally crippled, but I guess it up to each individual to be able to handle it.

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Originally posted by: pj04

unfortunately real life truths are far from it...people rarely change(immidiete change comes with resentment and frustation)....and if they change...the process is very slow and takes year(a big proof is that initial years in a marraige are difficult but most people get comfortable in it after few years) 👏this also a very big reason why impetuous marraiges fail(specially if you are a teenager and love is the only reason) and most women end up disillusioned.

I have to agree puja on this one. In real life it takes time for a person to change. Age, maturity and circumstances play a big role in changing a person. Today I am totally different person than the way I was as a teenager.

I am settled in US and happily married to my high school sweetheart for a very long time. We are exactly the opposite including looks. When I was a teenager I was extremely short tempered, impulsive and was an egoistic person. That time my husband was very understanding. Due to family pressure we had to marry when my husband was just 23. The first few years were really tough for me with my in- laws.

But then I didnt had choice and I had to adjust with my new life. As it was a love marriage and there was no turning back. That time my husband supported me all the way. I will never forget that. So even if my husband throws tantrums and get on my nerves by asking to fetch water and do things for him its OK with me.

As you grow older you get tamed automatically. Sometimes circumstances play a huge role in changing you. I never thought I would change so much after getting married. Its as if we have switched roles. But I have accepted him with all his faults and he accepted me with all of mine.

As tina and emma said it's true that opposite attract.

Originally posted by: jprasad

well, I married a volcano and I am damn glad I did. He is a little on the wild side, but a teddy bear at heart. 3 yrs later, we are still happy and I don't consider myself traumatized and emotionally crippled, but I guess it up to each individual to be able to handle it.

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I am sorry, I couldn't resist, I hear it on the radio almost everyday!

lol JP. well, i believe that everyone is a gray character. they atleast do something bad and something good, which makes them gray. rite in between.

omg....that is a HUGE sermon!!!!

But an awesome one !!!!👏

It reminds me of a very sweet and very dear cousin of mine,who till the age of 25 looked down on anyone who married outside caste or against their parent's wishes and especially who did not choose their life partners 'carefully'........

We are bengali and an an Assamese guy,who was a family friend,a very nice guy and a very good friend too kept persuing her for ages and she of course applied her same level headed logic for refusing him......

Until she herself,out of the blue,fell in love with the most unlikeliest of men.😆 My snooty sister fell for a guy who was not really established ,came from an entirly different background than her own,was an assamese and her parents were dead against it😆

She fell into her own pit,nice and slimy. Needless to say,they did get married ,with the vociferously relunctant blessings of their respective elders.They have two beautiful kids and now they have a roaring business.

However,there are many things that need to be worked out even today and they have had some terrible downs on the personal front.The stormy marriage has not been easy. But as she says,she has the satisfaction of making the choice and living it out.........she does have a few regrets but ultimately,her love for her husband overcomes it and vice versa.....

{ Bubudi,if you ever read this,I just want to tell you that you are really a gr8 girl,a very brave girl and I love you sis....🤗}

Sorry folks,but she is very special to me and what devil drivers said fits her to T so I could not resist....😊