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thank you for that! i just said something horrible, lemme go change it! all the armaan fans get me soo agrivated that it makes the purab fnas so mad that they say something horrible! and fight always continues! its really tempting to say something bout the other side becuz they always i mean ALWAYS make fun of purab sayign he's uncle purab or he has white hair making him look old! everyoen has different opinions, but no one simply respects it!

-mika

thanks!
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All I want to say is that JJKN is just a show, but people are treating it as if its real.

Originally posted by: mikagurl23

thank you for that! i just said something horrible, lemme go change it! all the armaan fans get me soo agrivated that it makes the purab fnas so mad that they say something horrible! and fight always continues! its really tempting to say something bout the other side becuz they always i mean ALWAYS make fun of purab sayign he's uncle purab or he has white hair making him look old! everyoen has different opinions, but no one simply respects it!

-mika

thank

u ar right.some arman fan dont have a little bit respect for purab.they always criticise purab and purab fan.that is not good.we purab fan want impartial behave from mods of this site.bcus arman fans behave is so disregardable for us i cant tolaret it any more.i am felling now i have to leave this site.i always want peace.i tried it.but it is some arman fans behave that is they like to fight with purab fans.i want peace thats it.now this is time for change their behave those arman fans who likes to fight.we all purab fan want peace.i know some arman fan who ar my best friend.they ar soooooooooooooooooooooo nice persone.so i must have to say like my those friend everyone should make them nice persone.i am not saying i am doa tulchi.but i promise i will never fight with arman fan again. even they kick me or purab or another purab fan like football i will never fight with them.from today i am a friend of arman fan.i am watting for those real nice persons friendship.i hope i will get lots of sweet nice friend from arman fan circle.love for all arman fan

Originally posted by: opola_islam

u ar right.some arman fan dont have a little bit respect for
purab.they always criticise purab and purab fan.that is not
good.we purab fan want impartial behave from mods of this
site.bcus arman fans behave is so disregardable for us i cant
tolaret it any more.i am felling now i have to leave this site.i
always want peace.i tried it.but it is some arman fans behave
that is they like to fight with purab fans.i want peace thats it.now
this is timefor change their behave those arman fans who likes
to fight.we all purab fan want peace.iknow some arman fan
who ar my best friend.they ar soooooooooooooooooooooo
nice persone.so i must have to say like mythose friend
everyone should make them nice persone.i am not saying i am
doa tulchi.but i promise i will never fight with arman fan
again. even they kick me or purab or another purab fan like
football i will never fight with them.from today i am a friend of
arman fan.i am watting for those real nice persons friendship.i
hope i will get lots of sweet nice friend from arman fan
circle.love for all arman fan

That was so sweet of you Opola.Very very sweet.Yes,you will have great friends in us.

Thanks Lakshmi for putting up the post.I am so glad to see that we are back on track. And how beautifully put princess,Ides, Anjali and Pj04 !!

mikagurl, difference of opinion is something even a mother and a son have,a father and a daughter have.As human beings,we have certain mindsets and it is not wrong to oppose a view.Getting aggravated does not solve the issue not does it make the other person see your way.However,if we have to oppose the view,we must do it in a manner which is civil and adheres to certain common etiquette.This applies to all of us,no matter what our beliefs are.Anger breeds unrest and begets more anger.You get angry when your view is opposed,I get angry when my view is opposed.Now,if we take out swords,bellow out trumpets and charge at each other's neck hollering,'how dare you say something I don't like'.................it will probably settle the matter once and for all.But what will it achieve? Precisely nothing.

Instead lets treat an opposing view as a subject of debate and lets keep our point across in the best possible manner without trying to impose our view or force the other person to consent with us.

And most importantly,lets be friends.

Who knows,in the next serial,Armaan or Apurva and Purab or Sameer will play out the best of friends ready to die for each other.At that point,we would end up looking a little foolish,don't you think?😉

You all have said it and i second it.

Well done Mods.

Cheers,

Rifhat

Originally posted by: Minnie

That was so sweet of you Opola.Very very sweet.Yes,you will have great friends in us.

Thanks Lakshmi for putting up the post.I am so glad to see that we are back on track. And how beautifully put princess,Ides, Anjali and Pj04 !!

mikagurl, difference of opinion is something even a mother and a son have,a father and a daughter have.As human beings,we have certain mindsets and it is not wrong to oppose a view.Getting aggravated does not solve the issue not does it make the other person see your way.However,if we have to oppose the view,we must do it in a manner which is civil and adheres to certain common etiquette.This applies to all of us,no matter what our beliefs are.Anger breeds unrest and begets more anger.You get angry when your view is opposed,I get angry when my view is opposed.Now,if we take out swords,bellow out trumpets and charge at each other's neck hollering,'how dare you say something I don't like'.................it will probably settle the matter once and for all.But what will it achieve? Precisely nothing.

Instead lets treat an opposing view as a subject of debate and lets keep our point across in the best possible manner without trying to impose our view or force the other person to consent with us.

And most importantly,lets be friends.

Who knows,in the next serial,Armaan or Apurva and Purab or Sameer will play out the best of friends ready to die for each other.At that point,we would end up looking a little foolish,don't you think?😉

minni u ar soooooooooooooo sweet🤗

i agree Minnie! But the thing is that different opinions are expressed just to agrivate people like"uncle purab with white hair". And wen u try to say u oppose, the others just seemly ignore or say shut up or gosh u have a big mouth or even say calm down! Un attentionally or by purpose, the etiquette your talking about does not exist in this forum! People will not agree to any rules whatsoever because peoples have different views that they show in differents way! so everyone will eventually express their feelings by getting either agrivated or angry or even silently ignore it!The best thing is to defend the case and express your feelings before the matter gets too carried away!

-mika

Mika,we need to take some of the opinions with a pinch of salt.If someone says something bad,oppose it in a calm manner,if it is too bad,report it to a moderator.

Everyone of us at times has fun and it's just a discussion so best is not to take it to the heart.

I agree that terms like 'Uncle Purab' or 'evil Armaan' can be aggravating.However if we continue pounding on it,there will never be an end to it,right? You will be surprised to know that every moderator on the forum,except for me and Princess,is a Purab fan.Anjali too at one time was a die hard Purab fan.There was also a time when 90% of the members on this forum were Purab fans.Tempers flew even then,but everyone used their discretion and objective arguments to put their points across.Armaan was called every vile name you can imagine but Armaan fans like us survived,didn't we? Had we just started screaming and shouting and started calling all sorts of names,where would that have taken us? Only to the road of exit.Beleive me,being outnumbered can be depressing.

Today I am glad that we have an equal no of Purab and Armaan fans and most of us are close friends.We only are requesting that if you want to object and defend your case ,even to a definite aggravation, do it in a logical manner, without being personal. In discussions, there are bound to be things which will not be to our liking but we must learn to take it with a pinch of salt.

Most important,be friends😊