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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: luv_ranveer



You're right..but if Ila's job is to teach her children the "right things" & Puru is her only husband, & one of her children doesn't follow her guidelines, why should she punish the other one? For the simple reason that he loves the "wrong" girl? Yes, I will always agree that Armaan should not have made that rash decision of marrying Mallika on August 5th, but that doesn't necessarily mean that he should be forced to be miserable for the rest of his life either. He himself accepts his mistake & has said that he CAN'T be with Mallika because he only loves Jassi & that would be a "nainsaafi" to Mallika. Yes, he made a mistake & he's owning up to it now. It's not like divorce is SO taboo nowadays as it used to be..especially in the so-called "high-society" that Ila prides herself on being a part of. Yes, it's a mother's right to tell her child what she thinks is best..but isn't it also a mother's job to look out for the happiness of her only son? Especially when she sees exactly how miserable he is? She's more concerned about the well-being of her social status & having a bahu from the same status than where her son's happiness lies..that doesn't sound like a mother to me..& if it is, then I know I'M not going to be that kind of mother for sure.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sidlum

I agree . But the mother has witness the humiliation her family has gone through because of the very girl who left him on marriage day . Now his son is running after the same girl who does not even care for him . Which mother would like to see tears in her son's eyes ?? after all it was her whom Armaan hugged and cried when J thing happened ??

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: luv_ranveer

I think i read in the updates or posts that Jassi is using Raghav's money to take revenge from Gulmohar !! she did the same thing with Purab too, used his money. Oh sorry i forgot you and Jassi's lawyer . 😛



That doesn't even make sense considering that thus far, she has refused help, monetary or otherwise, from anyone..be it Raghav, his family, or Nandu. She's hell-bent on doing this on her own & in every episode up to tonight's, she has stood her ground. She even went as far as to refuse Raghav in giving her a ride but then having to obey her father-in-law's request at the end. And nor did she ask for Purab's money. He gave it to her willingly & wholeheartedly. He always knew she loved Armaan & she never made him believe otherwise. He, however, left a rude note on the eve of their engagement..talk about running away. I disagree with the way she treated Purab after she & Armaan got together after the Jessica Bedi trial, but he should consider himself lucky that she forgave him for leaving a note and a bunch of pictures & having her end up coming to his house only to see a bunch of movers on their engagement night. I am Jassi's "lawyer" but I am also aware of when she's wrong. I'm Jassi's lawyer when I'm defending Mona's weight. Hell, I've been Samir's lawyer on that as well. I'm Jassi's lawyer when I'm defending her right to revenge based on what her perception of the current situation is. I'm Jassi's lawyer when I can understand certain situations she has been in because I've been there personally. I'm not Jassi's lawyer when she forgets about her family. I've never condoned her changing her identities like a pair of socks, I've never condoned her post-trial treatment of Purab, I've never condoned her blind love for Armaan..although the last one, I can understand because I've been THERE personally as well. I can be biased when it comes to just feeling for a certain character like Armaan..but even with him, when he & Raj did the whole fake love thing, as much as I loved them both, I never agreed with their actions. As much as I remember that these people are just characters..all characters are based on real people in the real world. Creators & directors don't just pull them out of thin air. And the only reason JJKN has become so interesting to me is when I see these characters & can absolutely relate them to people that I have come across in my walks of life & people that I've even BEEN myself @ some point in time.

As for PC, that's just a joke..no, I didn't agree with what he did with the faking of the ahem ahem, but then again, I wouldn't agree with ANYONE who did that. Not Jassi, not Armaan, not Nandu, not Bebe.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: buff

sid...you didnt mention anything abt the preview for monday.ila is telling mollie that armaan is miserable bcoz he thinks that he has done naainsaaphi to jassi.he only wants jasi to forgive him.....now that's like a good mother.i know i'm grtting toooooooooooooooooo optimistic but what if mollie goes and tells jassi that she was behind the court case so that jassi will forgive armaan???if otherwise why should they show ils doing the talking to mollie???



I know buffie, I didn't want to comment on that until I see the whole scene on Monday..you know how these previews are.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: luv_ranveer



Yes, the mother witnesses humiliation & it was hard. It would be on anyone. But STILL, I stand firm in the notion that if that's what makes my child happy, I will try to help him, not hinder him. She was out to get Jassi from day one & I know you know that. This was WAYYY before any leaving @ the mandap. And Jassi does care for Armaan, LR, you know that as well as any of us. You don't have to like her or Armaan, but the bottom line is that she still loves the man. A deep love like that doesn't transform into hate or just vanish overnight. And of course Armaan is going to hug & cry to Ila when the whole Jassi thing happened..after all, a mother is a mother. To any child. Even if my mom was the biggest b***h in the world (Which, thank the Lord, she's not!), if I was hurting so deeply, which I have, she would absolutely still be the FIRST person I would run to. A mother can have no replacement & I'm sure majority would agree with me on that..boy or girl.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: buff

when did armaan hug ila??????????????and yup youre right lr....jassi is the villain......i can justify all her actions even this new badla but i will never support her when it came to running away from the marriage........

there was no vishwas...allright but that didnt mean that she had to run away like a coward....she gave everyonr the impression that she eloped with lr's hubby( cj). jassi should realize and beg he mum n dad and armaan's mum n dad and armaan for forgiveness...



See, that's my point. I agree with that. Jassi shouldn't have run away from the mandap & I think she SHOULD ask the parents for forgiveness in humiliating them. What I do not agree with however is blind defense of CJ, who, with absolutely NO clear perception of any situation, just set out & ruined SO many people's lives. Jassi was not RESPONSIBLE for Purab's death. Stress, hurt, & heartbreak do not cause brain tumors. And it was also stated that the brain tumor was an ongoing condition that Purab had that no one but he & his doctor were aware of. To purposely SET UP a situation where someone's fiancee is to walk in on you two after you've DRUGGED the girl, then taunt the groom @ his own bachelor party KNOWING what he saw & which buttons to push, & then send a letter to the groom on his wedding day saying that the man's fiancee has run away with him instead, is DESPICABLE & I will NEVER think otherwise.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: buff

nope lr....she refused the oberoi's help....she didnt use shiv pratap obberoi's name when she went in for the loan.........purab helped her out but then she never told him that she 'll marry him or that she wasnt in luv with armaan......she repeatedly kept telling purab that she was faking the name( jessica ) for her family...and not for armaan...she got to know that armaan was truly in luv with her and that's why she gave in at times....and dont forget she treated armaan really badly before accepting the gm offer....armaan was on his knees at thee restro pleading.....

I am not talking about what she felt. Just that she is shameless enough to humiliate a person before 50 journalist and then go to the same person's place for shelter and not bother to say sorry too. I am sure if Purab had parents he would not have died like that . May be thats why Ira is behaving like that coz she does not want Armaan to die like Purab

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Posted: 19 years ago
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thanx for the commentary Sid

Really loved it each and every part of it
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: buff

purab was the biggest villain till date...cj is better man...purab knew that he had the brain tumor and he must have been aware of it...yet he wanted to marry jassi thus making her a vidhwa in a few months...now isnt that wicked of him...........and as far as i know, its not like you detect brain tumor today and die the day after......,it takes quite sometime.....

and another flaw....purab sent pc to save jassi from armaan ...why did pc end up ruining her life..the whole idea is soooo ridiculous......on the engagement day, i remember cj telling angel that armaan doesnt deserve jassi....to which angel said that armaan is a complete changed man......and how did cj change his view overnight...the next day he was trying to impress billoo so that he can destroy jassi......

Thank god Purab has flaws. Then how come you guys considered him a Saint ??? about the brain tumour. That was T & D's script to finish off Purab's role. About destroying life. Jassi knew that she would never be able to forget Armaan and will not be able to control herself when she sees into Armaan's eyes. Then why did she agree to the marriage ?? may be like Armaan she too thinks that marriage is a joke !!! after somedays she would also ask for a Divorce from Purab coz she loves Armaan !!!

About CJ and show off. Buddy Arman has done enough of all this to hide his dirty self. Specially when Jassi was about to join Hansmukhi's company.

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