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Posted: 9 years ago
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Suman : "you learnt this from me to compromise with life, you know I did not wish to make you
compromise in life. "

Isn't it funny that Suman compromised all her life , whether by choice or not she compromised ... She is afraid that ravish too might have seen her doing that and thought it was okay ... Children do learn from parents ...

But she DIDNOT want that for ravish ... She never wants her son to compromise ...

But isn't it even. Funny that , its actually expected for vv to bend backwards for everyone , its expected of vv to compromise and compromise and from today I also had the feeling that suman also expected that from vv ...

Even with knowing , everything she has been through she expects the male to never compromise but the female to do so ...


Are the cvs telling us something or am I over thinking ...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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It was obvious that she expected a compromise when she asked Vividha "How can she still love Atharv, even after marriage?".
I don't understand Suman, she does not want Ravish to compromise but is it ok for her if her son is a compromise for someone?
So if her son is not getting the love she wanted him to get is she okay with a compromise instead?
I know she asked Vividha why she married Ravish if she was in love with Atharv but she was in no mood to listen to the answers was she?
So she is still going on about how Sujatha snatched her husband, even after knowing that Sujatha is the first wife? And the icing on the cake was when she said Atharv is now snatching away Ravish's happiness? Like how? I don't get her logic at all!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Suman showed her true colors by blaming Sujata! Forget VV, Suman does not owe VV anything, but the way she started referring to Sujata as the woman who stole her happiness, like really?She was the thorn just like Ravish is now the thorn! Sujata always suffered as the outsider through no fault of hers, and look at Suman's guts!😆 #KuchBhi! After marriage, the heart does not turn to stone Mrs Suman, it continues to love.


Like Vivi said today, she would rather end the suffering and move away so Suman can carry on. Vivi is not here to compromise, she is here to live her life with the love of her life. Move along.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think its more related to Suman's love for his kids and Vv ofc is not her child, so she gives a damn to Vvs feelings. If it was aditi in place of Vv i am 110% sure this Suman would stand by her and understand her situation.
Seriously the V clan is absurd, here they are comparing a attempted honor killing and forced marriage with their breakfast table grief.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: FortunaMajor

It was obvious that she expected a compromise when she asked Vividha "How can she still love Atharv, even after marriage?".


if I where vv I would ask how did RK , still love another woman after getting married...

I don't understand Suman, she does not want Ravish to compromise but is it ok for her if her son is a compromise for someone?


She can't see beyond her own pain ...

So if her son is not getting the love she wanted him to get is she okay with a compromise instead?
I know she asked Vividha why she married Ravish if she was in love with Atharv but she was in no mood to listen to the answers was she?
So she is still going on about how Sujatha snatched her husband, even after knowing that Sujatha is the first wife? And the icing on the cake was when she said Atharv is now snatching away Ravish's happiness? Like how? I don't get her logic at all!

its selective hearing she only uses , parts that wrk for her , and forgets about the rest of the facts , seeing beyond her pain, is unknown to her ... Here was I thinking the rK thing is dead and buried but suman , is still after a dead man who didn't love nor respect her ...




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _innocent_

Suman showed her true colors by blaming Sujata! Forget VV, Suman does not owe VV anything, but the way she started referring to Sujata as the woman who stole her happiness, like really?She was the thorn just like Ravish is now the thorn! Sujata always suffered as the outsider through no fault of hers, and look at Suman's guts!😆#KuchBhi! After marriage, the heart does not turn to stone Mrs Suman, it continues to love

I feel her punching bag is sujata , and blaming her is her(suman) go to when suman doesn't have anything to say ... I feel every time she talks , I just remember the saying "people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones "

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Like Vivi said today, she would rather end the suffering and move away so Suman can carry on. Vivi is not here to compromise, she is here to live her life with the love of her life. Move along.

I love that , vv didn't even give suman a chance to make her compromise

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: monu_tan

I think its more related to Suman's love for his kids and Vv ofc is not her child, so she gives a damn to Vvs feelings. If it was aditi in place of Vv i am 110% sure this Suman would stand by her and understand her situation.

Seriously the V clan is absurd, here they are comparing a attempted honor killing and forced marriage with their breakfast table grief.



Suman can't see beyond her pain and that other people too are people who have hearts ...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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It is clearly gender inequality, Suman expects compromise from Vividha but not Ravish. I have no idea whether this portrayal is intentional or not, but I really applaud them showing the genuine situation of society where a woman is blamed for a failing marriage, asked to compromise and make sacrifices but nothing asked from the man, it shows reality while most other shows have the entire world revolving around their female leads, who can do no wrong and the leads wish should be everyone's command.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Although Suman might seem a bit unfair regarding wanting Vividha to compromise rather than her son, Unlike typical gender equality stories in other shows, it's not without good reason this time.

She's always constantly been haunted by the memories of her past and love-less marriage with RK, which is the biggest factor here. She didn't do anything wrong. As always it comes back to RK and his misdeeds.

Her past is something that has scarred her permenantly and will remain with her for the rest of her life, so it's understandable why she wouldn't want her son to go through the same suffering and pain, she has even expressed this concern/fear in the past a few times.

Just looking at things from both sides that's all.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ST4RP1U5

Although Suman might seem a bit unfair regarding wanting Vividha to compromise rather than her son, Unlike typical gender equality stories in other shows, it's not without good reason this time.

She's always constantly been haunted by the memories of her past and love-less marriage with RK, which is the biggest factor here. She didn't do anything wrong. As always it comes back to RK and his misdeeds.

Her past is something that has scarred her permenantly and will remain with her for the rest of her life, so it's understandable why she wouldn't want her son to go through the same suffering and pain, she has even expressed this concern/fear in the past a few times.

Just looking at things from both sides that's all.





Exactly , but as a person who knows what compromising can do ... Why expect ANYONE to compromise at all ... And again to suman the males are gods that's why she expected the compromising from vv just like she the female compromised for rk..

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