Are you not fed up of forced marriages? - Page 3

Originally posted by: harmanjot

Absolutely ur rameez. This forced marriage concept is too old & repeated in many movies ,where heroine falls for second hero after marriage.

But in case of vividha though she is forcefully marriedo to ravish but that does'nt mean she falls for ravish, her love with atharav is pure & eternal. It is possible that ravish loves vividha but after knowing the truth he may help her to reunite with atharav.

But seriously I'm fed up with this marriage concept. Makers are making fun of marriage institution.

Yes Ravish may fall for her, who wouldn't? But Vividha is soulfully married to Atharv - Her love is her devotion

Originally posted by: llMinHoll

This marriage can not and I repeat can not last. What's it based on.. Some pr**k of a father and a delusional (read stupid) mother decided to lay a foundation and build a happy marriage on it for their kids KHUSHI (really) who is exactly happy here other than Khalash.. WHY WHY WHY! Why would he succeed; why would anyone even consider letting him succeed. Why should he have the pleasure of ruining anyones life! Why does a man's ego win? Why should Vividah compromise? Why does Ravish have to sacrifice his wishes to fulfill the last wish of his father (?) Why are we even watching this crap?! -_-

Are we even discussing the same show?! It all seems like something completely different. All these spoilers; Vividahs rude behaviour; Ravish's being the best husband! What the heck?! Typical or what! Soon Vividah will realise the goodness of Ravish and co. And then what?! Is she going to start soften up towards them. It's all totally wrong. She should take Ravish into confidence; he seems samjhdar enough and hunt for Atharv! Khalash needs shooting in the head! Ravish could do the honors! End this track there! And start afresh with the two families confrontation. There's so potential and so much to explore. Ye kiya le ke beth gaye hn CVs. Disappointed!

Haha love your post!

The thing is, here Vividha doesn't hate Ravish. She's indifferent to him and she's a very nice person at heart so even if she does soften towards him as a human and possibly a friend then fine! Why not? But love? Nahhh! You don't go round falling in love with just anyone because they're really nice. Please...for once let's be different!

Originally posted by: divy1

Love or arranged marriages they colud all have divorces. If it's a love marriage doesn't mean later in their life they have some circumstances that they could end up divorcing. Vivdha was foreced into marriage but instaed from being rude to Ravish she could told him even after marriage. What is his fault

He's not at fault but it one day she's witnessed a lot. she's found out her dad is an absolute A-hole, her love has been left with life threatening injuries. Do you expect her to be in a rational state of mind as of now?

Originally posted by: KK84

Remember in Saraswatichandra they showed that Kumud divorced Pramaad and went back to SC so I have hope. Tho the issue is this one is likely to be a nice guy. Please don't do a HDDCS. I don't want Atharv saying we will meet in next Janam BS. Please CVs!

Hey, nice to see you here! Yes they did, though it was quite abruptly shown (I think the new PH cut the Pramad track short stupidly). If anyone does want to see HDDCS tracks, I can give you a list of at least 20 serials - watch it there! JNDSD needs to be different!

Originally posted by: monu_tan

The whole concept of forced marriage is disgusting and brutual because it objectifies women. Specially in case of vividha where she was preparing for her marriage with atharva and suddenly she is shown her place by her own dad and bro. The fact that u dont respect the will of a woman and you betray her in every possible way to have your own way. What was vividha to her parents? A tool to fulfill their selfish desires? Was she even considered a human when on the gun point she was married off to an unknown? While kailash could flount every societal rule to treat his daughter like a cattle and hand over to someone else in a tray, he expected vividha to follow societal rules. Did the girl he just abused mentally physicslly had no emotions or a free will to know how to lead her life, was she an lifeless object to him that could be moulded as per his wish and whims?

And when people think a woman who is married by force should remain a cattle all her life, then there is nothing more demeaning than that. Its equivalent to say that you can hack a goat's head as it would be placed on a golden tray and there is no way the goat would have gold.

I have nothing to add to that, so well said 👏 👏

Originally posted by: baubles

Absolutely fed up! Like how may times will you show us the same stuff over and over again? And even in the case of forced marriages, eventually half the times I've seen the partners ending the relationship in reality.

And this, not because they aren't good people at heart but because they are just not meant to be!

A million people in the world are wonderful, you can't fall in love with them all right? There has to be that one person who is meant to be a part of your life..I don't get why this is so difficult to execute onscreen.

Similarly, Ravish, Vividha and Atharv are all great people..but Atharv and Vividha are meant to be cos that's how strong and deep their love is! And that won't in anyway bring down Ravish's character..the respect for him will only increase.

There's a reason why we get invested in these love stories - the idea of one true love. What were those past 130 episodes? What were those 7 vachans? Surely they come in to PLAY NOW! otherwise what was the point wasting time over each promise?

Salam Reemz ..i hope u remember me ??? how r u sis .🤗... so we do have similar taste😛😛i accidentally saw it first time and that also the episode when hero got beaten on his wedding day ... i cried as if someone from my family was dying 😭😭... however after the episode I ended up checking previous epis n u know me😆 ...got hooked on the passionate and honest love story ..atharv acted as i once wanted Ranveer to do so ... Rv ended up being waste of time ...but this atharv character is very very well written ...previous epis were custom made for me ... i love the couple ... love the beautiful story n they were so exclusive to each other that any third party even temporary is a big big No for me 2 ... i watch kuch rang pyar k asie b ... n that story is going beautiful 2... i don't know about previous shows of this production house do they treat fans as Ekta camp or can we expect better things from them ?... i am watching gul ishaqbaaz too ..but will run if they destroy that show before i get too hooked like MATH

Originally posted by: SanaSarwar

Salam Reemz ..i hope u remember me ??? how r u sis .🤗... so we do have similar taste😛😛i accidentally saw it first time and that also the episode when hero got beaten on his wedding day ... i cried as if someone from my family was dying 😭😭... however after the episode I ended up checking previous epis n u know me😆 ..<font color="#ff0000">.got hooked on the passionate and honest love story</font> ..atharv acted as i once wantedRanveer to do so ... Rv ended up being waste of time ...but this atharv character is very very well written ...previous epis were costume made for me ... <font color="#ff0000">i love the couple ... love the beautiful story n they were so exclusive to each other that anythirdparty eventemporaryis a</font><font size="4"> big big No</font><font color="#ff0000"> for me 2 ..</font>. i watch kuch rang pyar k asie b ... n that story isgoingbeautiful 2... i don't knowaboutprevious shows of this production house do they treat fans as Ekta camp or can we expect better things from them ?... i am watching gul ishaqbaaz too ..but will run if they destroy that show before i get too hooked like MATH

Do I remember you? Do you know how big a smile I got after seeing your name appear in my post? I'm so happy to see you here 🤗 and I'm really glad you've got hooked too! Yes that scene was heartbreaking to the core - really difficult to watch :( Aren't Vitharv just beautiful? Their love story has been nothing short of epic so far. You're right, Atharv is very well written - far better than any Ekta hero! I like to believe they have something different planned for Vitharv - their love can't go to waste. There's too much of it. I think they'll come back even stronger!

Please keep posting here though :)

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Do I remember you? Do you know how big a smile I got after seeing your name appear in my post? I'm so happy to see you here 🤗 and I'm really glad you've got hooked too! Yes that scene was heartbreaking to the core - really difficult to watch :( Aren't Vitharv just beautiful? Their love story has been nothing short of epic so far. You're right, Atharv is very well written - far better than any Ekta hero! I like to believe they have something different planned for Vitharv - their love can't go to waste. There's too much of it. I think they'll come back even stronger!

Please keep posting here though :)