Ouch - tum mere pyaar ke layak nahi thi

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I know right at the start of this post that I won't be taken in the right spirit but then that's the great thing about this platform - different point of view, different aspects, different thoughts! :-)) thus I apologize at start for disagreements but guess I am the only one who didn't liked yesterday's episode - no, not just for the inhuman act by Ragini, not just for the pain Siddharth went through for his love by his love, not just for broken relationships, not just for the dying hopes but for the souls hitting dialogues!!

Yes, we all have been fan of JR's dialogue book - happy, sad, comical, romantic all as they were SOUL TOUCHING! But yesterday it hit bullseye and impacted so much!

Universal rule - three things can never be brought back: passed time, said words and a released arrow from bow.

Yes we all hate the badass no give damn heartless cold bitch Ragini Desai but the truth is she killed Roshni... She killed last hope of Siddharth for reunion, murdered igniting passion stalled for 2 years, smashed rising care & love that Siddharth had for his Roshni but what she couldn't do was cease to love Siddharth. She couldn't stop the illegal thought that their love was cursed and not charming enough for Siddharth Roshni's survival!!
I know for a fact that she beat the hell out of him so that Siddharth hates Roshni / Ragini which he did or not we don't know because lover can only die loving not let the love he dead!! But what I didn't liked or couldn't accept was - "aaj mere dil ne bhi mann liya, ki tum mere layak nahi"
Sorry guys but it crashes the soul of SidNi love story... If one feels the other is not suitable enough that is dead end! No matter what the other person do can ever erase these words! I wasn't hurt on anything else... Not on that "you were never dead to me when assumed dead but today that you are alive, you are dead to me!" Not "goodbye Bhagayashrre" but the fact that Siddharth has lost everything- his hopes, his faith and probably his love as well to even cite something so heart wrenching like "tum mere layak nahi ho!!" - it pinched me, crashed my thought of their true love story... did he really meant that?? or was the anger smashed back?

Facts:
- Ragini did all this to make Siddharth hate her = successful
- Rift between eternal lovers = successful
- Siddharth lost the battle of love, hope and now will gradually distance himself = done

Most of you think Siddharth will make Roshni/ Ragini jealous: it won't work because distance is what she wanted, she wanted him to think of Roshni / Ragini is hatred only!! Thus why will she get jealous (and honestly if CV's show this then it is demented senseless thing)

In all of this I see a little girl dying all over again - her mother died thinking Siddharth will take care of her but she won't let him thus she is alone -- all over again!!
In all this I see a hope, true love of cute little boy dying making it difficult for him to survive without sole purpose of life
In all this I see love being lost but I only pray it doesn't die... Because only ashes are left post death, nothing meaningful to live for, nothing relevant to survive for!!

Guys... Whenever you may be angry be it with your mother / dad / sibling / lover / husband or kid please... Please don't ever erupt something which you never meant or repent later. I don't know if Siddharth said this with similar agenda of what Roshni / Ragini had but for the moment it feels like ouch... Too heavy words to gulp down my throat.

We know / sense Ragini's perspective of doing all this... Now I really hope they show Siddharth's rational of such soul hitting statement - did he really meant it?? If so, I got my answer "whether this was truly a pure heart love story!?"

Brings me back to the thought...
Tere jhoothe kasme vaadon se
Tere jalte sulagte khwabon se
Teri be-raham duaaon se
Nafrat karunga main
Jab tak hai jaan, jab tak hai jaan


Have a great day folks.. Bye
Edited by vidya11 - 9 years ago

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Damn awesome post..
Even I had such a oich feeling..
Damn..I was like siddarth noo..
But this dialogue wil be proved wrong by Roshni s soon..
Thats y this Dialogue has been used
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think it was a very correct dialogue by him. As the character Roshni doesn't deserve a guy like Siddharth. He had loved her with his heart and soul , given up everything for her , fought with his own mom for her , fought with death for her and in return she gave him pain. The pain he felt while the beating by the policemen wasn't even much compared to how much mental pain he took hearing her words. She doesn't deserve him for now and that's what he stated. For me roshni needs to show her love now ,not by crying or asking for a mere sorry in the solitude of her car. She needs to prove to him that she was worthy of his love but about Siddharth making her jealous ,I doubt. I think he would just go there to fulfill the promise he made to his sasumom , he would show her he's happy as he thinks she is with Neil and let her move on! Coz deep down they both still love each other and I'm sorry but Sid's love is so much more stronger than hers. He can sacrifice or give up anything for her happiness , even she herself! Thus I feel he was completely justified in saying she doesn't deserve him as whatever he has done for her no one does that much for another person ever! Also that was his anger speaking , just like Roshni has spoken ill things in anger. Obviously we all know deep down he still loves her unconditionally.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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no vidhya baby sid didnt meant those wrds and I am sure he just spoken those things bcoz he was extremely broken by love of his life...by saying those wrds its kills him inside he loves her to the core...no matter wat roshni did he loves her however the mistake she did...I know those dialogues are so heavy and painful. ..even I couldn't take those wrds...he is hurted beyond his limit...u should think sid is a happy go lucky guy even if he upset by the behavior of her in the past he always there fr her...her actions and wrds made him vulnerable he couldn't take tat...I am cvs should show him suffer Bcoz of the wrd he uttered to his love..this is my opinion babe. ..Sry if I blabbering alot. ..but must say bang on post...yes epi and dialogues r so painful fr me too..this just the beginning of their luv stry again. ..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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VJ bolne se rishtey toothne lagey to sidni ka relationship jab ka tutha 😉
Sid anger was not on roshni but on himself that he couldn't save their love he wasn't successful so that's y he said now I think u didn't deserve me but he don't knw even rosh thought e same that she doesnt deserve Sid so this time roshni won in convincing Sid

Sid looked different and confident with glint of nottiness too so today epi we shall knw abt Sid 😉

Vj mayya as always gud to read u r pov different thoughts are always cool to read


Btw stry update😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Fab post vidhya 🤗
Agree with you dear 😳 words once said can't be taken back but ths time Sid s totally fed up with Roshni... He s tired of running behind her 😭 he s hurt immensely & going through the pain. But now it's roshni 's turn to prove herself how she s a worthy wife or girl for the crazy lover Sid Khurana😛😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hope she proves him wrong in this season... we all wanted to see more love from her side in previous season though...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: prathe

VJ bolne se rishtey toothne lagey to sidni ka relationship jab ka tutha 😉

Sid anger was not on roshni but on himself that he couldn't save their love he wasn't successful so that's y he said now I think u didn't deserve me but he don't knw even rosh thought e same that she doesnt deserve Sid so this time roshni won in convincing Sid

Sid looked different and confident with glint of nottiness too so today epi we shall knw abt Sid 😉

Vj mayya as always gud to read u r pov different thoughts are always cool to read


Btw stry update😛

bold: i agree...she did convince him that😆
Vidya - Sid being crazy lover who never bothered what roshni says or does like faking her death etc., had said that she didnt deserve his love means ,it shows that he had enough of this n he is completely broken ...Sid is also hurt to say such words but he is not in a state ...its time for roshni to win back sid😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I would like to think that he really meant that. And from his eyes, his face, his voice - it is evident he meant that. A man who never gives up, FINALLY gives up. She made him give up. He accepts his defeat. And though those words were harsh it was the bitter truth. He loved her too much that it destroyed himself, what did he get in return? A lover who would give up on their "love" in one instance if something bad happened?
Think like this Vidya that Roshni will prove it to him that she loves him like he loves her in this season.. the distance, the strangeness unfamiliarity attitude from his side, the lil jealousy, the goodness in him - the only thing that she couldn't break of his... will slowly creep in her mind that she lost the most precious thing of her life.

Just because both gave up on their love doesn't mean that they won't reconcile... DISTANCE brings everything closer than it was before! 😉
Edited by skinnypal - 9 years ago

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