Reasons... - Page 2

Originally posted by: rosesidni

Welcome to the forum dear.. Good to see many silent members making posts for and against Roshni😛

Anyway, what u said is perfectly fine and I agree to a great extent.. But the isuue is it is purely a Roshni POV😕 It don't consider anyone else..

Here majority doesn't have an issue with what Roshni said to Sid on funeral, it was very wrong of her but considering her shock state almost all are ready to forgive including Sid. Now, my problem is with Roshni blaming her love or their love for so long,( for me its same as blaming Sid).. I agree Roshni had suffered much, but what about Sid?😕 He have suffered equally or more just b'coz of his falling in love with Roshni.. still he has never blamed her or their relation.. What I can't digest in this entire fiasco is Roshni was not able to get over her emotion and think about Sid atleast once in these 2 yrs😕 For me that is SELFISHNESS.. DD was the same.. DD always thought about ONLY her ego, her hurt and her emotions.. never did she thought about what the other person will feel or what hell he is going through.. Same is with Roshni, she cared only about her emotions all these years & was punishing Sid for something he didn't do.. That is not love for me.. Roshni's love for Sid was so belittled by this🥱

We can always justify a character giving circumstance as excuses.. There are many who justified DD and Simran's psychoness too.. But in a pure love story like SidNi, these reasons won't be enough for people to like Roshni again.. Writers need to come up with something substantial to show Roshni loved or cared about Sid in these 2yr

Originally posted by: can_pak

First off thank you!

Second I agree. We can't blame our circumstances for everything and it can't be denied that Sid's suffered immensely.

I just saw today's episode and I felt awful for him. I don't think Roshini is shock anymore. I think she's convinced herself that love is the cause of all problems and that their love story was wrong. It hasn't stopped her from loving him but she's no longer acting on her emotions and instead is running away from them. As we've seen she remembers him but she reigns in her emotions. It's not right by any means but every person reacts differently.

Sid's always been far more emotionally mature then Roshini. He has a positive personality so he reacts differently. Roshini is emotionally immature. She doesn't understand emotions like he does. That doesn't mean she doesn't love him because she does but no love is perfect. She's not perfect by any means and is flawed.

In real life people make stupid decisions because they think they're right. She did too and I think she's just trying to protect herself from being hurt again. She doesn't realize though how much her decisions have hurt Sid though.

I think this Ragini Desai avatar is like a defence wall to keep everyone at an emotional distance but the problem is you can't close yourself off to emotions completely. They will eventually come out.

Also I'm not taking her side, I'm just analyzing her character because right not its more complex than Sid's. The thing is that people are flawed. They make stupid decisions and hurt one another. Often one more than the other but it doesn't change the feelings involved. Their love doesn't change in intensity from either side. It's how they react to it is what's different and that makes sense since their different people. Roshini hasn't been living a happy life. She's hurting to. She's lost both parents, is away from her family and she walked away from the love of her life. That's painful and far harder to do than we can imagine. Sid's pain is more apparent and invokes more emotion because he thinks that she's dead. And it sounds worse to be honest. Making someone think you're dead is awful. There is no justifying that but I don't know I feel like there was more to her going away then we know. It could just be the CV's haven't thought in such depth and for the sake of twisting the story are leaving gaping loopholes in her character and making it look bad.

Haha sorry. I guess I got carried away ...again😆

Originally posted by: can_pak

First off thank you!

Second I agree. We can't blame our circumstances for everything and it can't be denied that Sid's suffered immensely.

I just saw today's episode and I felt awful for him. I don't think Roshini is shock anymore. I think she's convinced herself that love is the cause of all problems and that their love story was wrong. It hasn't stopped her from loving him but she's no longer acting on her emotions and instead is running away from them. As we've seen she remembers him but she reigns in her emotions. It's not right by any means but every person reacts differently.

Sid's always been far more emotionally mature then Roshini. He has a positive personality so he reacts differently. Roshini is emotionally immature. She doesn't understand emotions like he does. That doesn't mean she doesn't love him because she does but no love is perfect. She's not perfect by any means and is flawed.

In real life people make stupid decisions because they think they're right. She did too and I think she's just trying to protect herself from being hurt again. She doesn't realize though how much her decisions have hurt Sid though.

I think this Ragini Desai avatar is like a defence wall to keep everyone at an emotional distance but the problem is you can't close yourself off to emotions completely. They will eventually come out.

Also I'm not taking her side, I'm just analyzing her character because right not its more complex than Sid's. The thing is that people are flawed. They make stupid decisions and hurt one another. Often one more than the other but it doesn't change the feelings involved. Their love doesn't change in intensity from either side. It's how they react to it is what's different and that makes sense since their different people. Roshini hasn't been living a happy life. She's hurting to. She's lost both parents, is away from her family and she walked away from the love of her life. That's painful and far harder to do than we can imagine. Sid's pain is more apparent and invokes more emotion because he thinks that she's dead. And it sounds worse to be honest. Making someone think you're dead is awful. There is no justifying that but I don't know I feel like there was more to her going away then we know. It could just be the CV's haven't thought in such depth and for the sake of twisting the story are leaving gaping loopholes in her character and making it look bad.

Haha sorry. I guess I got carried away ...again😆

Originally posted by: prathe

Very well written👏 canny😛 I will call u canny hope u don't mind😛