Roshni - a very realistic character!!!

I'm loving the pregnancy and miscarriage track mainly b'coz of the way they are portraying Roshni's character, they are doing it in a very realistic way..Apart from the Misha track, I have always found her realistic, but the pregnancy cum miscarriage track was pretty well handled by the writers, esp the miscarriage track..

The last 3 episodes have brilliantly portrayed the trauma of a couple when they lose their 1st child. I have seen people lamenting about the loss of their 1st kid even after several years and after having other children.. That is a wound which would always remain esp for the mother The insecurity, guilt and heartbreak about the miscarriage for the couple is shown in a very effective way in JR. Roshni's guilt that she was not able to protect her child and her insecurity that she won't be able to take care of a child ever again is the most common reaction of a women who had a miscarriage I was able to relate to Roshni's dialogues today b'coz I have heard the same sort of dialogue from more than 1 miscarried women.They keep on blaming themselves for what happened, even when everyone says otherwise.
And Roshni's apprehension that Ayesha too may leave them, is the most common fear of every parent adopting.. Both were very naturally done with bang on dialogues👏..

The reasons Roshni had for not adopting Ayesha was 100% justified.. I'm glad she shared her insecurities with Sid .. Eventhough I don't want an adoption now, it is a fact that Ayesha can help bring Roshni out of depression.. Leaving Roshni alone would only lead to her thinking and imagining things, which would make her more depressed.. She needs a distraction, which Ayesha can provide (It can be done even without adoption her).. So, I don't think what Sid is doing is completely wrong but still Roshni is more pragmatic..

I hope CVs maintain the quality by showing Roshni struggling to get out of the trauma.. It takes time and they should take it slowly but w/o dragging the track.. Roshni is carrying the burden of guilt of losing the baby, fear of not able to concieve again, the heartbreak of not able to give the happiness Sid deserved and also the guilt of shattering the dreams of 2 families😭 It takes time to heal all this and I prefer them handling the track carefully & slowly w/o showing Roshni all OK the next day and ready to adopt..

Anyway I'm happy the way things have progressed till now, esp the SidNi part. (The family part is irritating🥱) I hope they maintain it👍🏼 And Nia is doing a wonderful job in portraying Roshni's pain... It is coming out very natural..

Agrree wid u..last scene was so true..tosh feeling insecure...was 100% justified...I loved d dialogues nd rosh insecurity.. Nia has done a fan job in portraying roshni...nd I m happy wid this track...atleast we r getting sidni scene.😳 sidni SCene was so heart touchin😭

One of the reasons that i fell in love with this show is that i can relate to Roshni. Being a girl, we all tend to relate to the female character before the male! Even though this is a male oriented show, i can relate more to her than him. Coz he is an ideal/fictional person created in this show and we would never find a guy like him in reality. Like we do not find leads like Gopi bahu and all in this world.

i love flawed characters more than idealistic! roshni's pain & guilt everything looks so real & we can connect to her.

fully agree with u

Roshni is the only realistic character in the show who we can relate to from the beginning of the show. Only time she was butchered was during the Misha track but otherwise in all the tracks Roshni was sensible.

Originally posted by: skinnypal

One of the reasons that i fell in love with this show is that i can relate to Roshni. Being a girl, we all tend to relate to the female character before the male! Even though this is a male oriented show, i can relate more to her than him. Coz he is an ideal/fictional person created in this show and we would never find a guy like him in reality. Like we do not find leads like Gopi bahu and all in this world.

But here Roshni is an ordinary girl and her approach to the situations from the very beginning of the show has been realistic. Only during the Misha track they hay-wired her character or else she has been one of the most sensible characters of the indian tv. Even her way of expressing and dialogues have been kept simple in such a manner that normal people say those! I really loved her dialogues today. It was heart touching to hear her insecurities.

I too want them to go slow on Roshni's healing, but along with that they should really reduce this family overdose drama. Especially with those BD eyeing and NM smirking !! That is highly irritating !!

Roshni is very realistic and Sid is idealistic😛.. I love Roshni b'coz I can relate to her feelings & actions and love Sid b'coz I can always understand & appreciate his decisions & reasonings 😳

@bold The only difference b/w Sid and Gopi bahu is that Sid has a brain and back bone, both of which is lacking in Gopi bahu😆 (Sorry to offend Gopi bahu fans, but that's a truth😆)

Originally posted by: zoopassion

Roshni is very realistic and Sid is idealistic😛.. I love Roshni b'coz I can relate to her feelings & actions and love Sid b'coz I can always understand & appreciate his decisions & reasonings 😳

@bold The only difference b/w Sid and Gopi bahu is that Sid has a brain and back bone, both of which is lacking in Gopi bahu😆 (Sorry to offend Gopi bahu fans, but that's a truth😆)

well said Rose👏👏

I agree with u...i loving her character development 😃