Post Divorce: Sidni: Why all bashing for Sid?

eyes84 thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#1
Why People in this forum blames and Bash only Sid after Divorce:
Sid's trusted Kritika when she took the case back and forgiven DD for shooting RV, and Sid told Kritika that he will do anything for her in return. He didn't thought that She will back-stabbed him. Sid was trapped badly by Simran and Kritika, he does't have any other choice but to Sign in the divorce paper, otherwise roshni's family would have been on road. Then too he has not lost hopes because some how Roshni started trusting Sid to some extent. Although Sid was bound by his promise and may be that he don't want his family to be shattered he remained quite, then to he want to give all the happiness to Roshni. I must say that Roshni's trust on Sid is still not intact otherwise she would have accepted Sid much earlier rather than accepting him at the end of the 3 months. She took the initiative of accepting him only after knowing the truth of the mms from RV and when Sid has done so much for her, like Saving her from yashni scandal, Samiara Kidnapping and DD's case. Even after Sid saved roshni from yashni scandal she ask Sid that whether he will be there to help and save her after divorce. How mean and selfish that was from her side? It is as if she needs him as a guard and has never given him anything in return. I have a feeling that Roshni still don't completely trust Sid as she keep asking him about the divorce truth rather than taking initiative by herself after even given hints by Sid that he has done it for family.

Sid for being close friend with Misha just for one or two days where he kept telling Roshni that he just wants to know whether roshni feels jealous and still love him or not. When in reality Roshni as his wife remains with Yash for 6 months and what happens between them was a mystery to Sid but the difference was that Sid then too trusted Roshni while Roshni doesn't still trusted Sid that's why she become so jealous and become angry on him. Why Roshni thinks that she should have all his attention when he has so many things to do like handling his family, her family, office and even her and always keep bashing him and even insulting and scolding him all the time and never appreciating him. He is doing so much for her and her family and always was remaining close to her but what he gets in return is insults and accusation from that arrogant and conceited lady DD as well as nani. I have feeling that DD because of her ego problem she will never accept Sid when she will find out that he has divorced her daughter in return for her property. When a person does so much for others then isn't it the responsibility of others that they should also understand him.

When Sid scolds Roshni for adding mango to the milkshake, don't you guys think that the fault also lies with roshni where she has been so careless and immature that she let someone come and put mango in the drink she prepared. While Sid was also not wrong in scolding her and that was just an instant response, when his best friend was nearly about to die. I feel that was not at all harsh, he was being sensible that she should not be that careless or immature that it can cost someones life, and as a person she is always like that. From Sid POV he was right, where he have no one else to blame for.

Created

Last reply

Replies

7

Views

3.1k

Users

8

Likes

33

Frequent Posters

Harmony10 thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#2
We were not bashing Sid when he divorced Roshni because we knew under what circumstances he had to take the step. That proves how much Sid loves Roshni and for her happiness he can sacrifice his. Roshni also matured and understands that Sid too has his reason for divorcing her because otherwise he too would have never took the step. She kept asking him because he promised DD that he would not show his face to them but in order to unite their family he took all the insults. In anger Roshni asked him the question because if they have no relationship now then why he is always with her even after divorce and anyone in her place would ask. So Sid gave their relationship a name which was friendship.

The only time when we were mad at Sid when he was doing OTT with his friend Misha like carrying her in his back. He knew that she was mad and angry but without going behind her; he dropped Misha in her room. Even his friend understood that she was hurt. So that was not the Sid we knew because Sid's immense love for Roshni was the main point of JR. But out of sudden when his friend entered his life he started to ignore her, its common for people to react that way but he was OTT. But now we are happy because our SidNi are back and so is our Sid because he told his mom that he will do anything to get his love back. And that's the Sid we always knew; who would die for Roshni.
rosesidni thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#3
First of all, I appreciate your post b'coz u have justified ur POV in favour of Sid, so sensibily and frankly👍🏼 But many here have a different POV in favour of Roshni, it doesn't mean either is wrong, its just conflict of opinion😊
The thing is Sid was bashed post divorce mainly b'coz he was hiding the reason behind divorce to Roshni😕 Everyone know under what circumstances, Sid divorced her but some feel (even me) that he could have informed it to Roshni. But I won't blame it entirely on Sid b'coz he don't want to break his promise to his mother.

Now, comparing Sid and Roshni is not the solution. Sid is a more evolved person, he wouldn't doubt Roshni even if he sees her in a compromising position with Yash🥱. But Roshni is naive, its only natural that she felt insecure and jealous on seeing Sid's closeness with Misha

And its true that in mango incident Roshni should have been more careful and whatever Sid said was sensible. But he was wrong in thinking Roshni did it deliberately😕

Last, many here bash Sid not b'coz they hate him but b'coz he has set high standards for him and we expect him to be perfect and when flaws is shown, people get disappointed. That's all no ill feelings😛
skinnypal thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 10 years ago
#4
I really like some of ur points in favour of sid.. but that doesnt mean to show sid is not wrong u gotta say roshni still does not trust him :P

The entire 3 months wala track was to show how roshni realizes her mistake and gains back her trust on him. Regarding her pursuing Sid, it DID NOT happen after watching the MMs video during the kidnapping track. she realized her mistakes the day he stood up for her when everyone saw her in a bad position with yash. it happened right after she read the letters that he had written for her, but before she could woo him rv track and then sam fiasco occured.

Anyway for the mango incident i understood that it was sid's instant reaction, but be was a person who BLINDLY supported roshni no matter what even when she never tried to justify herself so when she was telling him that she did not put the mangoes how could he think that she could stoop to such low level of killing someone just out of jealousy??

And why wont she get jealous seeing him so close with misha when they are divorced now?? put yourself in her position n think.. u donno d reason why ur husband divorced u... gave the relationship a facade of friendship.. and then deliberately tryin to make u jealous?

lol.. anyway i like both sidni n both has flaws... so i dont like it wen one is shown above the other hence the comment ;)
each ones to their opinion :)
Edited by skinnypal - 10 years ago
YD.AH thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Trailblazer Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 10 years ago
#5
sid was bashed only after misha came
and he was hovering around misha mostly
but no one had any doubt on his faith or commitment
Deepikarocks thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#6
You seem to be a fan of khurrana family including simran kritika ( read your comments in some other post ) . Anyway I personally cannot digest how can anyone like a double faced character like simran . Also sid wasnt bashed but critisized . As fas as I have seen this forum they are all majorly sid or sidni fans infact . So the accusation isnt true at all . Roshni was equally critised during bangkok track if your weren't here . Plus you do not have to put roshni down to highlight sid . That makes everything you said biased . The fact is both the leads have flaws as per tracks and situations but remains intact is that fact they are noble souls with noble intentions who are right 90% of times in their actions too . They respect each others family even if they get insulted in return ( it has happened with both roshni and sid ) and lastly they madly love each other .

Just like skinnypal said love them as sidni. If you go into who is right more and who is wrong specially when it comes to sidni for whom we watch the show you wont be able to enjoy it . Its a show everything happens for drama at the end .
-SweetGirl- thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 10 years ago
#7
You looks FAN of Siddarth fair enough Lol but I completely DISAGREE when you say

" She took the initiative of accepting him only after knowing the truth of the mms from RV" I really feel you have not followed JR properly ? Correct me if I'm wrong..Roshni had complete break down when Sid defended her in Yash fiasco..That night conversation in their room- heart to heart of Sid and Roshni summed up it all..That girl did surrender to his ' goodness ' and genuine love even if the truth was not clear to her..She said clearly- I want to stay with you I can not bear this distance - REMEMBER still her doubts of MMS was not cleared !! She said you was always responsible for my happiness ..

Well , It was much later RV did reveal to her it was under plan and much before that She did accept Sid in her life even before Nani gave her to those letters

Being a complete feminine I do not think It was easy for any woman to trust a man after getting such MMS where he said he used her.. It did shake her trust but that was about her ..It did made her feel she was used and that made her react..

You know I might go too long to defend Roshni cause unlike you I'm actually FAN of her more But saying that I totally adore #SidNi too..I have major problem when creatives try to put Sid as such flawless person cause he too is no less and glad they're reviving such script lately...He said him self that he is going to be 'good' husband now as Roshni once said in that 3 month track that She has learnt the meaning of family and sasural..If Roshni according to you is not justified than Sid according to me was too flawed many a time..still that is how Its supposed to be..Which they both accepted eventually and that has brought Siddarth and Roshni come more closer ...They were just attracted and kind of fairy tale love phase - when they got married but the circumstances have matured them matured their love made them more open and firm toward their relationship...Roshni is flawed for sure she shall be cause this is How she's supposed to be..Even Sid confirms that many a time that his love Roshni is too naive to be manipulated but thing is girl has grown up a lot after trial and error of marriage and this bond..Do you think It was 'NOT trusting ' that she still defended Sid that day after she came back from Khurana house after divorce ? DD was accusing Sid for ditching her and she told Do not speak bad about him [ Sid gone missing post divorce episode ] That was extent of FAITH for me that she had on Siddarth..

Alas I m too much😆Let me remember Its not war Sid VS Roshni Its always #SidNi..I just felt necessary to clear few of instance pointed against Roshni.. Khair..But putting Sid high do not deem Roshni ..not other way round..and I must thank Writers for writing such script for us when a Girl has not submissive to accept everything just because that man loved her..She had brain ego intelligent and above golden heart to still look beyond ..
Edited by -SweetGirl- - 10 years ago
pree8714 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#8

Originally posted by: -SweetGirl-

You looks FAN of Siddarth fair enough Lol but I completely DISAGREE when you say

" She took the initiative of accepting him only after knowing the truth of the mms from RV" I really feel you have not followed JR properly ? Correct me if I'm wrong..Roshni had complete break down when Sid defended her in Yash fiasco..That night conversation in their room- heart to heart of Sid and Roshni summed up it all..That girl did surrender to his ' goodness ' and genuine love even if the truth was not clear to her..She said clearly- I want to stay with you I can not bear this distance - REMEMBER still her doubts of MMS was not cleared !! She said you was always responsible for my happiness ..

Well , It was much later RV did reveal to her it was under plan and much before that She did accept Sid in her life even before Nani gave her to those letters

Being a complete feminine I do not think It was easy for any woman to trust a man after getting such MMS where he said he used her.. It did shake her trust but that was about her ..It did made her feel she was used and that made her react..

You know I might go too long to defend Roshni cause unlike you I'm actually FAN of her more But saying that I totally adore #SidNi too..I have major problem when creatives try to put Sid as such flawless person cause he too is no less and glad they're reviving such script lately...He said him self that he is going to be 'good' husband now as Roshni once said in that 3 month track that She has learnt the meaning of family and sasural..If Roshni according to you is not justified than Sid according to me was too flawed many a time..still that is how Its supposed to be..Which they both accepted eventually and that has brought Siddarth and Roshni come more closer ...They were just attracted and kind of fairy tale love phase - when they got married but the circumstances have matured them matured their love made them more open and firm toward their relationship...Roshni is flawed for sure she shall be cause this is How she's supposed to be..Even Sid confirms that many a time that his love Roshni is too naive to be manipulated but thing is girl has grown up a lot after trial and error of marriage and this bond..Do you think It was 'NOT trusting ' that she still defended Sid that day after she came back from Khurana house after divorce ? DD was accusing Sid for ditching her and she told Do not speak bad about him [ Sid gone missing post divorce episode ] That was extent of FAITH for me that she had on Siddarth..

Alas I m too much😆Let me remember Its not war Sid VS Roshni Its always #SidNi..I just felt necessary to clear few of instance pointed against Roshni.. Khair..But putting Sid high do not deem Roshni ..not other way round..and I must thank Writers for writing such script for us when a Girl has not submissive to accept everything just because that man loved her..She had brain ego intelligent and above golden heart to still look beyond ..

@Bold hetu for this line I want to salute you well a girl is not meant to take everything jus because she a women and we watch this show for sidni well as everyone said sid was criticized and not bashed jus like when roshni did mistakes we did point it out i agree sid did a lot for roshni and now they both hav emerged as strong couple and m glad CVs did point it out sid too has flaws so please take it as it comes no one sid hater here 😆

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".