Right time to put things on hold.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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So the cat is almost out of the bag...so perhaps all talks of wedding should be put on hold until Neha, Akku and Aman's respective feelings are fully understood. But more importantly - Aman, who hardly ever lets his feelings known. Judging from the precap, ghar ke bade will get to know of Neha's pain...so what better time than now to confront the elephant in the room.

Ever since Akku and Aman's rishta has been disclosed, there's been a sense of awkwardness in the air. Something just doesn't feel right. So maybe it is a blessing in disguise if everyone including Akku, are to find out the truth.

We all know what Neha feels. Aman holds a very important place in her heart and I would say she loves him. Those tears are a testament to it. I don't know if Akku loves Aman, but she is willing to marry him because she wants to. The only person left is Aman. And in this context he is the most important, but difficult one to read.

Aman is reserved, doesn't talk too much and likes to guard his feelings. I think it's a combination of both his nature and the environment of his upbringing. His Dadi has pretty much suffocated the family due to her harsh and unreasonable ways. So it's going to be diffcult to understand what Aman actually wants. But bottom line is - is he going to be happy with Akku as a life partner?

As a viewer, I have not got the indication that Aman harbours any romantic feelings for Akku. It's almost as though he is simply going through the motions. On the other hand I see a very strange but pure connection between him and Neha. He does not look at Akku the way he looks at Neha. And as they say, aankhein bhi hoti hain dil ki zubaan :)

So maybe it's time for the adults to put things on hold before things are taken any further. Some difficult but serious questions need to be asked. Not just for Neha, but for all parties involved.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hmmm... You make some really good points. And you're right Aman's feelings have yet to be expressed to anyone so we don't really know what he feels (or rather what he thinks he feels).

It would be great if that's the way this show went though. Put the wedding on hold and give the people getting married time to understand their feelings. I don't think any of them are really sure about this wedding. Akku and Aman both feel awkward about their awkwardness if that makes sense. When put in a room to talk, neither said a word until Neha started talking and even then it was Aman talking with Neha, and Akku never participated in the conversation at all.
And I don't think Aman knows that he has feelings for Neha (which he clearly does, as we saw him watch Neha doing her morning exercises with that only-for-her smile on his face). So based on the promo, it seems that maybe Akku will give Aman a chance to back out and he might not take it, so maybe the elders will think that Aman doesn't think of Neha in that way either? And because of that the wedding plans will continue on as Aman and Neha get closer until Aman does realize his feelings?

I don't know I'm guessing this is where we're headed. But this show has surprised me a lot so far so maybe this show is headed in a completely different direction 😆 ❤️



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with you

The truth will be revealed soon hope the alliance breaks

Dida told the truth to Neha parents, Suraj told Akku too hope she understands.

Aman loves Neha for sure

Evil Dadiji and the maid are just too much I cant stand them
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anam Ali

Agree with you


The truth will be revealed soon hope the alliance breaks

Dida told the truth to Neha parents, Suraj told Akku too hope she understands.

Aman loves Neha for sure

Evil Dadiji and the maid are just too much I cant stand them


Hopefully everything happens as you say 👍🏼
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: PyaarDostiHai

Hmmm... You make some really good points. And you're right Aman's feelings have yet to be expressed to anyone so we don't really know what he feels (or rather what he thinks he feels).

It would be great if that's the way this show went though. Put the wedding on hold and give the people getting married time to understand their feelings. I don't think any of them are really sure about this wedding. Akku and Aman both feel awkward about their awkwardness if that makes sense. When put in a room to talk, neither said a word until Neha started talking and even then it was Aman talking with Neha, and Akku never participated in the conversation at all.
And I don't think Aman knows that he has feelings for Neha (which he clearly does, as we saw him watch Neha doing her morning exercises with that only-for-her smile on his face). So based on the promo, it seems that maybe Akku will give Aman a chance to back out and he might not take it, so maybe the elders will think that Aman doesn't think of Neha in that way either? And because of that the wedding plans will continue on as Aman and Neha get closer until Aman does realize his feelings?

I don't know I'm guessing this is where we're headed. But this show has surprised me a lot so far so maybe this show is headed in a completely different direction 😆 ❤️




I just caught up with the promo. As u mentioned, Akku seems to be giving Aman a chance to back out from the marriage. Will Aman take it? I think he's too scared of Dadi 😆 jokes aside, I think he's just scared of opening up and digging deep into his heart.

@bold: I think that's what will happen. Most likely scenario is that the shaadi preps will go ahead but during it all, Aman will gradually become acquainted with his feelings for Neha.

This show has been surprising indeed :) who knows...maybe the complete opp of what we think
shall happen! But looking forward to it.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anam Ali

Agree with you


The truth will be revealed soon hope the alliance breaks

Dida told the truth to Neha parents, Suraj told Akku too hope she understands.

Aman loves Neha for sure

Evil Dadiji and the maid are just too much I cant stand them



Hi Anam. Zinnia here...not sure if u remember me from the Veera forum... :)

I don't like Dadi's behaviour either. She is very heartless with a sharp tongue. Even the maid is a pain in the neck. But I guess every serial needs a villain!

Jo bhi hoga, ultimately Aman and Neha's paths shall become one.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This is kinda off topic,

But does Aman's mom not like Neha? And if they don't like her why do they like Akku? It's not like Neha is mentally unstable or anything...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...SankaDevi...

This is kinda off topic,

But does Aman's mom not like Neha? And if they don't like her why do they like Akku? It's not like Neha is mentally unstable or anything...



Good questions :)

I'm not too sure about this myself and was thinking along the same lines. Aman's Dadi definitely hates Neha but with his mother I think she is neutral. She doesn't seem to hate Neha but seems to like Akku a lot. Why - don't know. Maybe it's what Neha went through but even then...as u said it's not like she is mentally unstable.

Hopefully things will become a lot more clearer with time :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Wanderer.



Good questions :)

I'm not too sure about this myself and was thinking along the same lines. Aman's Dadi definitely hates Neha but with his mother I think she is neutral. She doesn't seem to hate Neha but seems to like Akku a lot. Why - don't know. Maybe it's what Neha went through but even then...as u said it's not like she is mentally unstable.

Hopefully things will become a lot more clearer with time :)

oh okay. This show is great, hopefully they'll make it more clear in the coming episodes! I also believe Neha should go back to school or college, whatever she missed during those years of her coma episode. I think it's better to have the wedding on hold and make Neha mentally prepared for her and Aman's relationship. :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Wanderer.



I just caught up with the promo. As u mentioned, Akku seems to be giving Aman a chance to back out from the marriage. Will Aman take it? I think he's too scared of Dadi 😆 jokes aside, I think he's just scared of opening up and digging deep into his heart.

@bold: I think that's what will happen. Most likely scenario is that the shaadi preps will go ahead but during it all, Aman will gradually become acquainted with his feelings for Neha.

This show has been surprising indeed :) who knows...maybe the complete opp of what we think
shall happen! But looking forward to it.


Ahhh I accidently closed out of my reply and I lost it all 😭 Okay let me try again.

Dadi is rather scary yaar. Bechara ke dard pe kyu has rahi ho But I think honestly that his Dadi and mother are going to be a major factor in why he won't try to break the marriage right now. Plus as you said he's afraid of opening up (I would be too if my mother constantly stopped me from feeling things or doing things, like with Karthik... He doesn't do the right things, sure, but she's constantly yelling at him and she probably did the same with Aman. Only difference is that Aman actually obeyed her.)

I can't figure out how the show will go forward. On one hand i want to say that Aman wil def not back out but I've been wrong before... Let's see what happens 😊




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