Where to start?!
Her words were despite being ruthless were to much of an extent true. She delivered a few truths to natcheket that were much needed. All this while he has been continuously blaming Ragini solely for all the problems that occur in his or his children's lives however not once acknowledges his own wrongdoings.
-He blames her for Nishi's marriage solely when in reality he was the one who supported the marriage fully despite Ragini's warning that Nishi was too young to settle.
-he blames her for Aarav's condition as well when in reality it was due to his carelessness that Aarav was behind bars in the first place.
-He continued to lie through his teeth regarding Aarav's situation yet blamed Ragini for their second separation.
-He blames her for instigating RK to choose Devika over Pam when it was RK's own choice as to who he wanted to marry.
-He blames her for butchering his image in public and humiliating him through social media when in reality nivedita was behind it.
-He blames her for giving false statement to police when in reality nivedita and the policeman had altered her statement.
-Even yesterday he is continuing to blame Ragini mercilessly for accusations that she has no hand in.
Literally everything that is happening wrong, he blames it on Ragini without a second thought. He calls her a bad mother yet refuses to acknowledge his own failure as a father.
- natcheket for a lack a better word is being hypocritical and Ragini had showed him the mirror by saying what she said.
She was not wrong in any of her accusations however her last lines where she says he ruined her life might be a bit overboard yet it made sense because those were the exact same things Neil said to her at the twin's birthday party and at the farmhouse upon his second arrival to india. It's funny how this post does not acknowledge all the times Neil has said all of this to her on repeat with absolutely baseless evidence yet it holds Ragini dominantly at fault when she says it and that too with good reasons.
Ragini did not take her frustration out on Neil, she was not going to let Neil walk all over her when he himself was not even present in his children's life for years. He calls her selfish yet he has not given much of his time to his children but at least she was there. She guided them regardlessly. He has no right of all people to say that to her! Ragini reacted to what he said, Neil can't continue to push the entire heap of blame onto Ragini and remain a saint. That is ridiculous.
As for what Pam thinks about Ragini, remember she is prejudiced and biased, she will always favor her brother as she has for years without recognizing his faults. It may be blind love but regardless what she says does little to undermine or cancel out the wrongdoings of Neil and what the actions are as evidence.
As for Ragini and the fact that she couldn't handle being rejected by Aman is utterly baseless statement. Ragini did all her best to return Aman's favors and her engagement was a part of it. Aagham even claimed that ehsaan chukanekeliye rishta jorliya. Ragini valued Aman, did her best to defend him. The reason why their relationship broke was Ragini made her children her priority and she said to Aman that she was not going to marry when Nishi was in this condition and her marriage of the brink of disaster. As for her job, if you watch today's episode, dr. Aman makes it clear that professionally Ragini has never disappointed him, she is hard working and very capable to look after the hospital.
Now the fact that she told Neil he was lonely is spot on. Neil despite having everyone still remains alone by heart, unsatisfied, unable to move on, and having a clear interest in Ragini's life regardless. Have you ever thought about that? Neil is alone because he has everyone but no one to truly understand him in life, he is unhappy yet lives in denial of his mistakes. This is what Ragini said. As for your statement that Ragini is all alone, she knows that...yet she shows the mirror to Neil that he is no different! While he may pretend he has everything, she knows the truth of his state.
As for why the children love Neil more, you won't get an answer from Ragini but I will definitely answer that question. The children are persuaded easily by Neil, he supports them blindly without analyzing the situations, consequences, etc. the children do not want to be told what's right or wrong, they want a figure head who simply agrees with them and allows them to do what they wish despite it being wrong and insane.
Examples include:
Nishi's marriage where she contacts her dad, her dad knowing that she is only 18, not independent, has not finished her studies, argues blindly her case only so he can mock Ragini for controlling his children's lives.
Aarav's business, he supports him yet Ragini tells him that he has unstable temperament and will be heartbroken with if it fails yet he never understand. Even after taking responsibility of him lets Aarav loose and doesn't bother to check up on him.
Just because he supports his children does not make him a good parent. His children's love for him does not make his mistakes as a father any less.
Ragini gave her life yet her children did not want to be told, Neil gave nothing except money and free support which easily bought his children.
To answer your question, this is why the children "love" him.
Ragini is not crazy, no it is rather Neil who is living in denial.
You cannot only see Neil's side of the story, all his good deeds yet turn a blind eye towards Ragini's side. That is not how it's done. It is not only Ragini's ego but Neil's too.
As for the blame game in this condition, you did realize that Neil started it? Right? He is the one who in this time when Nishi is ill and her marriage on the verge of divorce passes the entire blame onto Ragini and her entire conversation is her defending herself and showing him the mirror. He is the one who follows her outside and starts hurling accusations at her.
Nishi is not like her mother, she does not have Ragini's values, understandings and so on. Apart from that, there is huge differences in the circumstances. Jignesh has shown some narrow minded understanding by disregarding Nishi from his business yet no one will point that out.
Anyways, the situation still remains different because Neil blamed Ragini for roopali's death (when she was innocent), he refused to tell her the truth about roopali's child or the fact that roopali had an affair with Ronnie because he didn't trust her, he let their marriage break for the sake of a friend, he never once came for years to clear the misunderstanding, when Ragini asked, he told that she wasn't a doctor and told her to go to her mother's house temporarily.
The situations are different and the creatives are only trying to show how Nishi has become the same broken person Ragini is who no longer trusts, not because Neil is right but to show that they are in a somewhat similar position.
One more thing, because she defended herself, it wasn't ego, it was self respect and dignity for not allowing people to walk all over her hurling their share of blame as well on to her. She wasn't going to take that ever.
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