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Posted: 10 years ago
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Assuming the video which we saw,VB will advice her to move on in life and forget Nachiket,which Ragini herself claimes she wants to do that,i dont see it happening in the show in future.Keeping the story aside,just the way she was fighting with him in yesterdays episode,its pretty clear whats going inside her as soon as she sees Nachiket.Whatever they do,they both still feel they can do anything and they have 100 rights to do that.Be it fight,talk rubbish,utter nonsense whatever,You do it all this with only that person with whom you have feelings.

.Whenever she is with that L most of the time but she is reserved as if she is in her own world,,even if she smiles,its a forced one where as when they met post leap at hospital,that smile was genuine.

She may try her best to move on with L,but she dont have any feelings for L.

So,my POV is that todays scene is going to make no sense for the future ofcourse unless Nb ends her marriying L.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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In my humble opinion .. Ragini should better marry Aman .. and leave all the children with Nachiket .. He can take better care of them .. Post leap .. am seeing less of Ragini as a Mother .. more as Mrs Malhotra ..



P.S : Aarav does'nt exist for anyone .. Everyone is on a holiday trip ..

How can his mother get engaged .. family on a trip .. when their Son is in custpdy ?
Edited by BlueMoon8 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i do not think at any stance has she behaved like mrs.malhotra...it was more of aman behaving like mr.patel...yes this engagement has been a disaster and a beating of ragini's character but her role has the mother still exists...she is really trying maybe not always right but she is trying

and please do not say neil is a better father...he is not...the way he has handled nishi right now ..it looks more like riling up ragini...how could he be such a jerk to make plans with nishi whom he officially disowned and not bother to inform ragini...wherer is aarav in this good father's stance of things...his responsibility starts with helping aarav not planning this picnic for nishi...and yes both the parents seem to care two hoots about aarav...none is bothered to try and help him out but to ensure nishi smiles they ar eoff for picnic..and nishi is the worst sibling and daughter one can hope for...thankless,selfish and so self absorbed...i really do not se eher patching up with jignesh

ragini has made her own set of mistakes but that does not absolve nachiket from his at all...hence am hating this NB ka partiality towards one character and ensuring a single mother comes looking out as a villain...

and pavan..VB was just there for one shot and i doubt that scene has any value to the track at all...yes ragini may try to move on but i do not see that happening ...neither is it possible for nachiket...his whole resolve to not bother about aman ragini just fell yesterday...he just could not keep a i care a damn act with her..he cannot...

they may fight ,pretend to hate ,but still the emotions between them are so strong that there is no place for a third person ever...aman should have kept out from their fight ...ragini clearly said she wanted to speak to neil alone ..did not ask aman to tag along ...so he got what he deserved...
Edited by sun29 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very true Pavan ... VB is not going to make anything good out of her presence at the show and rather she will feed Ragini with Ulti advice of moving on ... Which will definitely have no impact in future as I beleive and wish that when Ragini comes out from that rest room she will see Nachiket out as first thing 😃 only if NB don't happen to her once again 😆

And SUN totally agree to you on this... You just gave words to my mind ... And I really hate NB 😡 for bringing this shame and misery to single mother really can't understand what she wants to prove out of all this ...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sun29



i do not think at any stance has she behaved like mrs.malhotra...it was more of aman behaving like mr.patel...yes this engagement has been a disaster and a beating of ragini's character but her role has the mother still exists...she is really trying maybe not always right but she is trying

and please do not say neil is a better father...he is not...the way he has handled nishi right now ..it looks more like riling up ragini...how could he be such a jerk to make plans with nishi whom he officially disowned and not bother to inform ragini...wherer is aarav in this good father's stance of things...his responsibility starts with helping aarav not planning this picnic for nishi...and yes both the parents seem to care two hoots about aarav...none is bothered to try and help him out but to ensure nishi smiles they ar eoff for picnic..and nishi is the worst sibling and daughter one can hope for...thankless,selfish and so self absorbed...i really do not se eher patching up with jignesh

ragini has made her own set of mistakes but that does not absolve nachiket from his at all...hence am hating this NB ka partiality towards one character and ensuring a single mother comes looking out as a villain...

and pavan..VB was just there for one shot and i doubt that scene has any value to the track at all...yes ragini may try to move on but i do not see that happening ...neither is it possible for nachiket...his whole resolve to not bother about aman ragini just fell yesterday...he just could not keep a i care a damn act with her..he cannot...

they may fight ,pretend to hate ,but still the emotions between them are so strong that there is no place for a third person ever...aman should have kept out from their fight ...ragini clearly said she wanted to speak to neil alone ..did not ask aman to tag along ...so he got what he deserved...


But she doesn't show her displeasure either ... Engagement was a disaster .. I cannot accept your argument of righteousness of Ragini .. Here .. Nachiket was just taking Nishi with him .. for a change (for SOME time) .. so that she recovers from her trauma being in a altogether new environment .. and he was NOT taking her permanently .. So doesn't a Father has this much RIGHT to take his daughter for a ride ? Ragini over-reacted .. Is she did not want him at the first place .. Why did she call him ? She could very well held to her ego and let Nishi suffer .. It was Nishi who had not informed her mother .. not Nachiket .. So here I give it to Nachiket ..

Ragini did not handle that sensitive issue properly .. Though Nishi too had her part in the crime .. Ragini should have tried more .. Aman was useless even here .. and what right Ragini has to lecture Nishi and Jignesh about successful marriage ?

Nachiket is absolutely not absolved of his CRIME .. In Aarav's case .. neither Ragini cares (even if Nachiket left .. and Aman was by her side .. she could very well appeal in a higher court .. etc..) nor Nachiket .. Atleast Nachiket has changed himself .. and started taking much interest in his kids' life .. He is devoting a lot of time for them .. and best thing is he .. gives them some space and freedom .. For Ragini .. whatever she thinks is right .. is the LAW .. No further arguments .. WHY ?

Q.E.D == Both Ragini and Nachiket are pathetic parents ..

Hence Proved 😉
Edited by BlueMoon8 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It is Only and Only Nachiket who can stir the feelings inside Ragini and vice versa. Those feelings can be of hate or love or anything inbetween. R can laugh, smile and cry all with only N.

When she is with Aman she cant smile or laugh but she cant even cry. She is just a dead when it comes to Aman.

So R may try to move on with L, cause that is what she feels is the right thing to do as with N she sees nothing but hurt for herself.




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Posted: 10 years ago
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yes they both are pathetic parents without a doubt about it

and at no point have i said that ragini is righteous..she is not...there has been times when you really want to pull your hair out because of her...and yes she too is not bothered about aarav

but sorry nachiket trying should have started with helping out aarav...not disowning them in public...making salads and flirting for tutor does not count for it...has he even bothered to question ranbir...so him standing on perch and pointing a finger at ragini is a joke...

and if ragini would have spoken to agham and he decided to visit his mother and ragini much later lets neil know after all plans are made...you think neil is going to smile and let him go ...he will create a ruckus and scene worst that ragini did...

without even talking to ragini he made promises with nishi someone who was no one to him till a day before...no he does not have that right??being a father is much more than that...how can the dhildren respect their mother when neil has none ...and no wonder nishi and aarav both use neil as the weapon against thier mother..coz they know he will go behind her back and support them however disastrous the mess is ...and late rthey can collectively blame ragini for all the unhappiness in their life...

i simply detest NB for this writing of hers...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: d3c3nt

It is Only and Only Nachiket who can stir the feelings inside Ragini and vice versa. Those feelings can be of hate or love or anything inbetween. R can laugh, smile and cry all with only N.

When she is with Aman she cant smile or laugh but she cant even cry. She is just a dead when it comes to Aman.

So R may try to move on with L, cause that is what she feels is the right thing to do as with N she sees nothing but hurt for herself.





exactly...she starts actually living with neil around ..other wise she is so dead just breathing without any hope or wish...yes she is using aman as her defence trying hard to move on as we can see how aman has stood by her supported her..she is to weighed down by his obligations to her and her family to repeatedly say no to him..and now that she has committed she really wants to be fair to him...it is her guilt playing hard...she has resigned to the fac tthat she has no future with nachiket and that nachiket hates her a lot...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Totally agree with you guys.
I am not liking Ragini for what she has done - that engagement at this time was not needed.

Bu the gyaan that N keeps on giving about being a Super Parent is all BS.
Yes, he wanted to provide Nishi with a break - that's a good thought. But isn't it necessary for him to speak to Jiggy once, now that Nishi is married? True, JN have had a fight - but as a parent, the aim should be to try and resolve it if at all.
Imagine when NR were together in those 4 years, they must have had tiffs, some serious ones. What if Thepla Ben wanted to send R away to anywhere durign her visit to her Mom, without informing N?

How are these people even thinking of building trsut into the relations?

N could have spoken to J.
He should have spoken to R, cos R is here responsible for Nishi, just like he is for Ranbir, Aagham and Suhaani. He couldn't tolerate R asking Ranbir about the gun, there is no way he will tolerate R as the Mother planning anything like this with his share of the kids.

And N did mess up with Aarav, unintentionally. That should have been a learning curve for him. But well ...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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These two have always treated their children more like shares than children they created together.

Anyways they took a call to divide them n past and further both had a deal once if either was proved wrong the other would keep one of his/her child? (Agham would stay if Ragini was wrong else Arav goes with him track 🤢)

So I feel with all the ego and 'i am the best parent' competition going on, they should try one more stupidity, exchange their set of children and live with them and their share of problems. If they don't want to be villains let the kids decide which parent they want to live with.

And when they live with the 'other' set of children will they realize how they have failed individually as parents in bringing up the children and that it can be rectified only together.

Maybe they can always shuffle between them. WHY be rigid?

Divorced couples have joint custody of children for what? So that their differences don't hamper the lives of children.

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