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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think this time neil has responsibal for neira sepration.

this time, I am with ragini.

and guys you...😲

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Posted: 10 years ago
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no way man its all ragini's fault!! how the hell can anyone tolerate her man she is so judgemental and i mean she doesnt let nachiket even speak and she is the one who doesn't trust him!! so sick of her man
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think she is completely justified in lashing out at him. He should have told her and both should have spent the night with Aarav instead of just shooing him away to some 'safe' place. Also as a mother, she is bound to feel guilty and not want to take her chance of happiness.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with you
today ragini was at fault

She always take extreme decision without things of anyone else

Agree she hurt shock but doesn't mean she go for again separation

My only question is if they were marriaged and all this would have happen then what she will do without thinking of anyone she would have gone for divorce

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Posted: 10 years ago
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As a Single Mom who has raised her son single handedly for the last 15 years I think Ragini was right today. She lost her SON and now is alone. Neil was the adult parent , he didn't necessarily have to listen to Aarav specially when he had a history with Ragini.

Many times in life we have to take our spouse in confidence and keep them informed regardless of the kids.. That's parenting.

Aarav's life was in DANGER..and Neil was an example of BAD parenting. He should have immediately called the cops and taken Ragini into confidence. Even after this if Ragini had BLAMED I would say Ragini is wrong..

But today Ragini is right...I would do the same.







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Posted: 10 years ago
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Neil was not at fault but ragini is right today. He shouldn't had to leave arav in such a critical situation alone.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dimdim.

As a Single Mom who has raised her son single handedly for the last 15 years I think Ragini was right today. She lost her SON and now is alone. Neil was the adult parent , he didn't necessarily have to listen to Aarav specially when he had a history with Ragini.

Many times in life we have to take our spouse in confidence and keep them informed regardless of the kids.. That's parenting.

Aarav's life was in DANGER..and Neil was an example of BAD parenting. He should have immediately called the cops and taken Ragini into confidence. Even after this if Ragini had BLAMED I would say Ragini is wrong..

But today Ragini is right...I would do the same.





So well written.

I had stopped watching the show - but when I did today - I could not believe myself. Why is it that Neil continues to hide things from Ragini? Even if Aarav wanted it - his responsibility was towards Ragini. She is the one who raised him and she is the one who should know what he is upto. Neil is a BAD parent and Ranbir is an example of that. Instead of solving Aarav's problem he was busy having dinner with Ragini. Ragini is Aarav's guardian and she had a right to know.

Neil has to realize that a wife is an equal partner in a relationship. He needs to start sharing things with her before he decides to plan their life ahead. The first misunderstanding happened because he did not share about Roopali with Ragini. The second misunderstanding happened because he did not tell Ragini about meeting Roopali in New york and this one happened because he did not tell about Aarav to Ragini. Why the secrecy?

Had Ragini known and had she then still blamed Neil - it would have been her fault. She had been kept in the dark for a very long time. It is not tolerable.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nachiket tries to protect Ragini from hurt and tension, he does things in good faith, but they always seem to backfire on him.
When he knew Aarav was in trouble, and Ragini came over instead of going out for dinner, both should have sat at home with Aarav and talked to him. They should have made Aarav feel safe and been with him.

Ragini knew about Aarav's love for Shilpa, but she never found the time to talk to him nicely and explain to him to get over his Shilpa obsession.

Ranbir is also very much responsible. Will N or Pam ask him why he had the gun at the station, what was the need of the gun there. Did N or Pam know that Ranbir had brought the gun with him to India.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Neil is not being a good parent. He tends to overlook Ranbir's faults.
Ragini is right.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Neil is a parent and he is responsible for Aarav. It is understandable that he wanted to help. But he should have talked to Ragini about it even if Aarav told him. At this stage, his relationship with Ragini is not strong. Neil does have a blame to share but seriously how was the whole thing going to solve even if Ragini knew about it.

Aarav was told to hide but instead he went to Shilpa the whole thing was big mess.

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