Exact Reason for NeiRa Divorce..Much Confusion..

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Posted: 10 years ago
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The relationship of the lead characters in the wonderful show Itna Karo Na Mujhe Pyaar is too Complicated.
Problem 1 - SUHANI
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What is known till now is Suhani is the reason for Neil-Ragini's divorce .. and the big question is Who exactly is Suhani ? From what it appears till now is - She is definitely Neil's daughter (as pointed out by Pam and many others many a times) and Neil's care for Suhani only confirms it .. So it may turn out to be that Neil is indeed the father of Suhani with another woman, supposed to be Roopali (Neil's long time GF). Now Suhani being younger to Ranbir confirms that Neil indeed had extra-marital affairs.
Problem 2 - LOVE
So it was obvious for Ragini to part ways with Neil after Suhani was born and it's natural on her part to have a bitter feeling for her as she was the reason for their divorce . Now the bigger question is -- So did Neil really have the intention to cheat Ragini ?
From what it appears is - Neil still loves Ragini very much and so does Ragini. Both have not been to move forward in their lives. If Neil really had an intention to cheat her .. Why would he not prefer to move forward in life with any other girl ? and his admitting to RK that if Ragini still had feelings for him, he would definitely love to start a new life with Ragini yet again. Why is he so disturbed and possessive when he sees Dr Aman helping/consoling Ragini ? So the inference what it appears is .. Somehow Neil was implicated in a complicated case in which maybe he was not guilty after all. In the show, when Neil had proposed Nivedita, he was drunk and had had a bitter fight with Ragini earlier in the day.. So maybe such a similar thing might have happened with Roopali . Without intentions he was somehow lured into doing something inappropriate. Post this maybe Ragini never allowed him to explain his side of the case (as seen before Ragini is considered a woman who gives judgement even without listening to both sides ). Also there is this angle of someone dying due to Ragini (most probably it's Roopali) so after all this an angry Neil might have considered it not important to give her an explanation and so both of them decided to part ways ..

Maybe this is the case.. also post Roopali's death , Suhani became a liability for Neil and so ...

Now let's come to Ragini ..
From what it all appears, she is still madly in love with Neil and cannot tolerate any other woman with him. And so does Neil .. If she really wished to part ways with him,then why is it that she still can't stop loving him ? So maybe somewhere she also has some part to play in the divorce ..
Now Nivedita's character in the story is a tricky one .. Maybe afterall, she wants to avenge her sister's death by marrying Neil and destroying his life.. But her attitude to Suhani is not justified ..

So what do you guys have to say on your part of the STORY ? Why did the couple who at a time were so much in love ..and even now so much in love had to divorce ?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Good analysis, BM
I am sure the CVs themselves have not analysed this deep. 😆

BTW, I don't see Ragini as someone who gives her judgement without listening to sides. If she had been that rigid, she would not have allowed a lot of things to happen.

She does build up her walls, but maybe that's her defense mechanism.

There is of course some third party involved in this entire scheme of things, and NR feel prey to the circumstances. Their anger and bitterness at that point of time did not allow them to sort out the differences and hence they continued their lives, hating each other. Because they couldn't forget each other for even a second of their lives.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I mean .. Maybe the circumstances were such (or maybe was 'made' to be such) that Neil did not get a fair chance to explain himself and neither was Ragini in a state to accept his explanations .. You see people take the most drastic decisions only when they are in a sub-conscious state of mind .. A decision which they repent later for having taken without thinking of it properly .. Maybe a extreme un-favourable situation was created and both of them in a state of anger ,without thinking anuthing about the present,past & future took the ultimate decision to Divorce ,even without thinking how it would affect their young children .. who needed both their parents ..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It has to be something big definitely, because the separation involved their children as well, as you pointed out.
If S is indeed Rupali and somebody else's kid and the kid needed a name after the death of R, under normal circumstances, I guess NR could together take the decision and adopt her into their family.

So is it that N believes that S is his kid as well, while in reality the truth is something else?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If suhani is Neil's daughter then i'm sure he would have been drugged cz his character till now doesn't seem to be if someone who can cheat his wife especially the one he loves so much.
As its an ekta show i'm sure their won't be something out of the box the reason would be what she has already seen in her dramas..

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yup maybe .. Just like after a bitter fight with Ragini and thinking about her & Dr Aman together .. He got too drunk and proposed Nivi in his sub-conscious state, not realising what he is doing, even though he did'nt want to do it ... So maybe a similar incident might have happened and Rupali,taking advantage of such a situation, lured Neil into doing something which he was not supposed to do ..
But this won't give the story a good look ... I hope NB is talented enough to pull out something really interesting and not make it the same old Ekta story.. Something like Neil was not at all involved..not guilty..only misunderstandings .. etc .. Let's Hope for the best 😉

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