The sad part with them is that, so far they have not been depicted as caring parents, but rather they have been using their children as weapons in the quest of hurting each other. Parents may separate but the love for their children remain the same, that is what this EKTA MAIYA was promoting right? YEAH RIGHT!
Good for you and great your mom has raised you right! Ragini has not raised her kids as well as your mom! It is not about being raised right. It is about respecting one's parent regardless of how pissed off one is. Raising your voices and pointing out how you wished you were living with your father because your mother does not know how to maintain a marriage, was in bad taste. Nishi needs to understan that it takes two to tango and that her father did not give two hoots about all those years for her to be comparing him to Ragini. Ragini always talks about her upbringing being great, but what she failed to realise was one should not be forceful on their children. She always reminds them of the sacrifices she embarked upon, which I guess makes the children feel those sacrifices were not worth it. They fail to understand her struggle because she is so hell bent on plastering it on their faces.
Maybe she is not meant to be a working woman. Some people choose to be at home, not practical in this day and age, but it certainly is her choice. Her mother wants her to be educated and independent, wonderful thought, and if she had any sense she will do as her mother says. But perhaps she wants to be at home and perhaps she has a has a flair for being a mother and wife - who knows - it is a woman's right to choose to do that, regardless of whether or not it is in her interest or not right? Of course it is one's own choice. After all we do live in a democratic society, so I would like to think. But why Ragini bear the burden of her marriage all alone? I bet you would write, she is their mother, she has to pay for her marriage. But then I would say, if we truly believe in the concept of freedom to make the choice of marriage at such a young age, then we should be able to hand money over to our parents, to state here is my share that I would like to contribute towards the marriage. But nahi?
I dont understand why Joggy is getting such flak, he knows her for say 2 years, he has to be go against his family who he knows and loves for 20 odd years because this unstable character decided her long lost brother is now very important to her. He seemed reluctant, and torn to leave, but I'm glad he had a back bone to leave. What's with this, once you fall in love you have to do what the girl wants no matter how unreasonable and idiotic she is? As Jiggy's dad said if she had confined in them they could have handled Daadi, this was a short from the dark how do you expect them to react? would ragini have put up with it if Jignesh's brother from another mother showed up, let alone be in jail and not hear about it? Whats in it for Jiggy hanging onto this crazy bunch. I say think twice Jiggy - get out while you are ahead. These Patel-Khannas are a mess! Areee , if Jignesh's family had such an issue, they should have said no to the marriage in the first place nah?They knew of DADI's demeanor. Jignesh's character has been portrayed like a dodo. He tells Nishi he loves her, and wants to marry her, but the first sigh of trouble, he runs away. #sigh.I am not just referring to the night in question, but to previous episodes as well. Everyone knew of this Patel-Khannas' mess. They knew of RAGINI's hatred for her husband (ex) too but nope they had to milk him out and now when things get tough only one person is blamed? Jignesh leaving with his parents? Perfect as you should always opt for your family over a girl or boy. But for them to blame only Ragini, aint cool. But then again when you have Ragini chatting nonsense like, he aint my son- what else can you expect from the ones she did raise.
Who brought Neil and the siblings back to the scene? NISHI!
Who took Shilpa to the lieu from which point her accident occurred? Aarav
Yet blame Ragini only.😆
NO you are right Neil is equally to blame, but why is she getting the heat from the children? Ragini is constantly harping about how well she raised her children. But they cannot seem to find fault with the father! That's the wonderful way in which the kids were raised why is that Neil's problem? His kids for whatever reason are loyal to him and dont cross the line, it maybe because they are not free enough with him or are afraid of him, want the luxuries in life whatever!, they never cross the line, these do! They are not afraid of him. Neil does not suffocate his children with the talks about his past, he keeps himself bottled up, which makes them yearn for his love and affection. Agam knows how to speak to his father and show him the light. He does not feel the need to disrespect him and tell him he would have been better raised by his mother. Luxuries they had from a small age, they do not want it. They want love. I sincerely wish Ragini's two kids were given better character sketches. Agam has told Neil that he too never bothered with his other two kids, so why is Ragini the only one acquiring the blame(before they came to India).
I agree she can say that, in fact Jiggys dad wanted to know why they had not shared that information with them! But she is selfish and unstable and all she wants to do is get married. I WISH they had shown her character in a better light. She was one of the loved siblings in the earlier episodes. One moment she feels for her mother when Aarav is harsh and the next she is parroting Aarav's dialogues. Does she really think Neil can be a better father? He only came back because of Ragini apparent marriage. He wanted to see for himself, he never came back for Nishi.
Good questions for the CVs why did they not explore this. I suspect because the audience wants the emotional atyachar, then we all feel sorry for ragini and make her into a devi maiyya! I do not feel sorry for her though, she has brought all of this on herself by burying her emotions and pretending to be a stone in front of her children. Ragini is full of flaws, her behavior with Agam is despicable.
True if you believe you have the right and if you believe you have the familiarity! he has never been shown to interact with the kids. He has the hots for her mother, her mother does not reciprocate. But has asked him to be the fake husband mind you not a fake dad. In his role of fake husband he gets carried away and becomes fake dad, Nishi does not know he is even a fake husband, so clearly she is irritated that he is interfering. I agree that it none of his business to interfere. But since he gave money for Nishi's shaadi despite it being a loan, maybe he thought he could? ALSO, I guess he got irked at her insulting Ragini's ability to maintain a marriage. The grandmother should have interfered rather than AMAN.
Here I agree with you they are brats, but they happen to be Ragini's brats, she brought them into this world and made them into brats!
Agreed😆 Which is why I always found her idiotic talks about her upbringing being great to be quite laughable. BTW, RAGINI is getting what she deserves from Nishi and Aarav. WHY? Because she is so evil to Agam, the one son who understands her. She does it to push him away, but she still hurts him. So karma is just repaying her.
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