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poetic

@poetic

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

take care Shakti. You get well once and then start writing. And don't worry about the WU. Somebody could always write.

Once you are back, we will go back to bashing the CVs, my pet peeves.

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roneeta

@ronitfan

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Romanticfreak
Hi awesome topic ...well there are so many strong reasons here and I personally have seen people whose. Still love but situations fail them to stay together...

But yes we suggest them to moveo on...but do u think its easy with kids in hand????

Am not taking of western culture here but am sure they too value alot...

By the way haven't watched episode yet am unwell dearies am supposed to be giving WU but family strictly is asking me not to sit n watch but couldn't refrain from peeping in and writing here...

Love u all

Shakti

Take care Shakti..

hope a great episode awaits you and all of us tomorrow😊

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Sam

@RonitPallaviNR

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

I think the main reason is that they never had a proper closure. I feel like every person out there who has moved on has had a proper closure. Both were madly in love, had 4 kids in the time of family planning ans no one was willing to accept that they r wrong. Its GRUDGE dude

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roneeta

@ronitfan

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: RonitPallaviNR
I think the main reason is that they never had a proper closure. I feel like every person out there who has moved on has had a proper closure. Both were madly in love, had 4 kids in the time of family planning ans no one was willing to accept that they r wrong. Its GRUDGE dude

Wohi to .. neither was left convinced of anything!

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Shina

@nsheena

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: poetic
Thanks for the post.
In real life, we would definitely move on in life, ceteris paribus

And if its a friend involved, we would also advice the friend to move on.

All this makes me think. Am sure when Neil and Ragini separated, they might have also not thought about the possibility of not moving on in life. maybe at that point, there main concerns were about the kids. Of course, they would have met other potential partners along the way, especially Neil, given that Pam is enthusiastic about getting his brother settled once again.

Now what held them back from taking any steps.

It would have had made more sense IMHO, if Nivedita was somebody from US - somebody with whom the Khannas have been socialising for long. Doesn't cut ice with me, when I think of the Nagin waiting for Neil for so many years. Also if she is out for revenge, she would have taken some steps interim, and not waited for 15 years. Had she been planning for so long? Then it has to be an airtight plot, which I am already hating.

The key to the suppressed and unrequited love maybe lay in the past, when we come to know the exact reasons for the split. What made them go on separate ways?

Hi :)

Yea, Nivedita seems like a misfit here. Her part may have been more effective in the love story had she been in the picture for longer than now. I mean, if this guy hasnt moved on in 15 years, why would he now? lol. The story writers can be so naive at times. Either that or they expect us to not consider this woman a threat. In either case, she is quite irrelevant na 😆

True, we cant figure out much until we get to know the exact reason. It is very much possible that they both have and think of diff reasons for their split😆 People in love can be quite stupid at times🥱

I can so understand your frustration girl! which is why ive promised myself not to get very involved in this show. :(

Originally posted by: Ms.S.K.
great topic.
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in my opinion the reason they have not moved on is they were and are in love but each party thinks other is to be blamed for their break up.
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could be circumstances (might be MU or delibrate plan by Pam?? or someone else) made them break up but they are not aware of it and blaming each other.

Hello!!

That is a highly likely thing to have happened Misunderstanding, half truths and ego seem to be the cause of break up. Even if pam was the root cause, I'd still be miffed at the couple for being so weak to fall for it and not fighting for the relationship. Its not just about them. They ve broken the entire family. Irrepairable damages😕

Originally posted by: poetic

A lot of factors would have caused such a huge impact that led to the divorce.

Otherwise, parents with 4 kids will not consider divorce as the first option. Am pretty sure both are equally at fault for the present situation.

What they term as hatred is their love for each other actually. It's just that they don't see the inevitable in front of them, and are busy digging trenches all around them.

Makes me wonder if love is synonymous with happiness after all Its hurting them to hurt each other. All because of stupid ego😡

Originally posted by: rabzonedge
Good topic yes if this happens in real life ppl ll move on but in this show we hav to wait n watch

Hii :)

True that. Have to wait 😕

Originally posted by: ronitfan
Hi!
Welcome to the forum.. great post..
Usually, you would move on .. as other people too have mentioned but I think there are some kind of people who find it extremely difficult to do. I think the key thing here was that they did not actively pine for each other or hope to get together when they were away - I doubt they thought of each other all that much as well..

But somewhere in their mind, they had closed that chapter of marriage and togetherness because they were so scarred of their experience together.. it is only when they came face to face that their feelings came to the fore .. that is because they did not adequately resolve the issues when they separated.. which I think is a perfectly valid way of thinking about their relationship.. they just needed a trigger..

Helloo!

They ve met each other after ages. I suppose that should be a trigger strong enough to rekindle fire.😛 They need to look past their selves to resolve issues. These ppl arent even thinking of their kids Humongousself righteous feelings in both

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Shina

@nsheena

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: ronitfan

Ohhh😆😆

Hahaha😆

Originally posted by: Romanticfreak
Hi awesome topic ...well there are so many strong reasons here and I personally have seen people whose. Still love but situations fail them to stay together...

But yes we suggest them to moveo on...but do u think its easy with kids in hand????

Any new partner in life expects to have their own bilogical offspring... But dp u think physical bonding and emotional thickness will re build it??? At least ur soul will reject coz soul body brains knowns there are two blood shared offsprings pf urs in other part of the work...one day they might come to u and if they question u moved on... What will the parent say??? If Ragini is wdow without kids justified of moving on...after giving 4 or 5 kids to a man moving on or dreaming of Tleast another man coming close is ruled out...not only from Ragini persay even from Neil s persay they cant move on... Separation always happens between hubby wifey but not between mother father...coz their genes gets blended mingled that's why couples can feel each others presence...

Am not taking of western culture here but am sure they too value alot...

By the way haven't watched episode yet am unwell dearies am supposed to be giving WU but family strictly is asking me not to sit n watch but couldn't refrain from peeping in and writing here...

Love u all

Shakti

Hi!! :)

True. Having kids does make things more complicated and impossible to completely move on. Blessing to the cupid that wants to get the couple back

Take care. Hope you get well soon dear😊