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Pam well done! Well played! *slow clap* 👏 I don't have words to compliment you on what you have managed to achieve.
All these years you have been looking down on Ragini, calling her middle class, cunning and what not. You took immense pride in the fact that you bought up 3 of your brother's kids. But look what "your"son did at his own sister's engagement, he insulted the woman who gave birth to him. This speaks volumes about your awesome upbringing. I understand Ranbir is mad at his mother because he thinks she abandoned him, but you really think your victory lies in the fact that he insulted his mother? No! It only shows how insecure and narrow minded you are and how poorly you have bought him up. Your real victory as a mother would have been Ranbir ignoring Ragini and giving her a cold shoulder. But instead he shouts at a woman who is at least 18-19 years older than him and you allowed him to.
Ragini who is a a middle class woman has managed to bring up both her kids pretty well. It doesn't do well to compare but from where I see, Pam darling you have failed and failed miserably. Instead of bringing up a strong man, you bought up an angry, venom spitting, temperamental boy who thinks insulting people is the way to display your dislike of them. If you were truly a mother, you would have been the first one to smack him and teach him how to respect people(forget the fact that Ragini is his mother). In comparison to this I feel like applauding Ragini for the way Nishi and Aarav are today. Please do remember that it is because of Ragini's upbringing that Nishi is such a sensitive and loving person. It is because of Nishi and that you even got a chance to rub it into Ragini's face because if she hadn't got the ball rolling you wouldn't have been India.
One day this beloved ladla son of yours would come to know what really happened between his parents. For your sake I hope that you were not involved in their separation. One day he will understand that his mother is a good person and that would be the day he would leave just as quickly as he insulted his mother. That day would repent that it was because of your upbringing Ranbir forgot to be sensitive. Plot as much as you want, stoke as much fire as you would like but truth and love always find a way to come out.
P.S. Your name should be specially instated on the "wall of shame" for mothers, with a footnote mentioning what mothers should NOT be doing to their children.
P.S. Neil I am disappointed in you as well! You hate Ragini which I accept but you are allowing "your" son to insult a woman? Not good. Hope tomorrow you at least scold him for shouting at someone who is elder to him.
All these years you have been looking down on Ragini, calling her middle class, cunning and what not. You took immense pride in the fact that you bought up 3 of your brother's kids. But look what "your"son did at his own sister's engagement, he insulted the woman who gave birth to him. This speaks volumes about your awesome upbringing. I understand Ranbir is mad at his mother because he thinks she abandoned him, but you really think your victory lies in the fact that he insulted his mother? No! It only shows how insecure and narrow minded you are and how poorly you have bought him up. Your real victory as a mother would have been Ranbir ignoring Ragini and giving her a cold shoulder. But instead he shouts at a woman who is at least 18-19 years older than him and you allowed him to.
Ragini who is a a middle class woman has managed to bring up both her kids pretty well. It doesn't do well to compare but from where I see, Pam darling you have failed and failed miserably. Instead of bringing up a strong man, you bought up an angry, venom spitting, temperamental boy who thinks insulting people is the way to display your dislike of them. If you were truly a mother, you would have been the first one to smack him and teach him how to respect people(forget the fact that Ragini is his mother). In comparison to this I feel like applauding Ragini for the way Nishi and Aarav are today. Please do remember that it is because of Ragini's upbringing that Nishi is such a sensitive and loving person. It is because of Nishi and that you even got a chance to rub it into Ragini's face because if she hadn't got the ball rolling you wouldn't have been India.
One day this beloved ladla son of yours would come to know what really happened between his parents. For your sake I hope that you were not involved in their separation. One day he will understand that his mother is a good person and that would be the day he would leave just as quickly as he insulted his mother. That day would repent that it was because of your upbringing Ranbir forgot to be sensitive. Plot as much as you want, stoke as much fire as you would like but truth and love always find a way to come out.
P.S. Your name should be specially instated on the "wall of shame" for mothers, with a footnote mentioning what mothers should NOT be doing to their children.
P.S. Neil I am disappointed in you as well! You hate Ragini which I accept but you are allowing "your" son to insult a woman? Not good. Hope tomorrow you at least scold him for shouting at someone who is elder to him.
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