Of Fandoms and Hypersensitivity

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RenuHooda

@Hrithiksmile

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#61

Agree with your points of view fights n Bashing mein kya rakha hai Enjoy Sarunwork

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barsana

@barsana

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Posted: 9 years ago

#62

a very sensible post,Ria

we r here to enjoy ipkknd-ej...so lets make the most of it

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PSharada

@PSharada

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 9 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: kannansangee

Di I am no way saying that u mocked or meant to mock any one.
I am just saying that somewhere the post is about barun and its ok to have such opinions .
But when topic is different and we as fans deviate from it especially in favour of our favourites while ignore another person it does hurt the ignored person.
I know all of us at the end of the day mean well .be it for barun, sanaya or sarun.
And since this is a neutral ground and not a post even asking abt saruns acting I think u telling abt
Barun hurts three forth of the people here .
Half sarun fans and one forth of sanaya fans .
And if we sarun fans don't intrude we in process are encouraging fan wars .
Bcz others groups will feel they are singled out.
I am intruding so as I can stop this somewhere from becoming bs vs si ..
That's is the only aim behind this post .
And hugs for understanding all of us.

Okay let me go back to what was in the post and why my answer so effected some people - who didn't even bother to read and like the first post but were there to like posts that attacked me.

Kyun Dard hain itna tere post main Ria - behen ? What to do ?

Went through the main post - Ria talked about Fandom hypersensitivity which we all saw from 2012. For that I agreed and said that too much water has flown down the bridge.

Then Ria talked about IPK Jashn being a shoddy product as it was put through in less than a day and the whole thing was shot without proper script. This too I totally agreed on and said that jashn was done to milk the IPK fandom one more time. This was the same thing I have written on Archana's post. And Ria being my friend I took the liberty to mention that even though I didn't like the Jashn in the beginning I have loved it because it gave a glimpse of Barun in it and I said that because Ria knows about me being a Barun fan. So where and when did - Putting down Sanaya or Mocking her has happened ? People who didn't even bother to read and like the first post were there to attack me. Isn't this the exact meaning of HyperSensitivity ?

And yes the last para was my wish of not seeing Sanaya - Barun together and that too was not to put down Sanaya. I don't understand why everything has to be taken into a twisted context and that is why I was so good off IF. Uff kya headache.

This is a neutral post and as long as one member is not putting the other explicitly down which I didn't do I don't know why the other fandom should get so offended. Anyway my intention was not to start fights neither to put down anyone that is why I have explained myself. If someone gets hurt because of their assumptions that my words have inherent meanings then I am not to be blamed. It is high time people stop attacking members because of their posts - Have been through 2012 where esteemed members sat in CCs and mocked and bullied fellow members. Oh yes I do remember it and that was the reason I was so away from this whole crap and I want to stay away forever from it.

Sorry Ria if you feel this post is too much - I will edit it out.

Edited by psarada - 9 years ago

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Cherylann

@tvpal007

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

#64

Riaji🤗

The fame of this thread has reached sat samundar paar😉

I had to come out of my Tapasya to hug you for this absolutely sensitive piece of work.

And I may or may not have read Droolji's Chhote's Chhote post and it may or may not have made my delicate SS sensibilities blush☺️

I have managed to watch a couple of the Jashan thingies on the Garam Tara .

For me it was like a bit of welcome rain to the parched desert..I'm still floating on cloud nine😃

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cineraria

@cineraria

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: MsDroolKanthan

Foreplay bro?

Drool behen, I love you damn it! 🤣

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cineraria

@cineraria

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: tvpal007
Riaji🤗
The fame of this thread has reached sat samundar paar😉
I had to come out of my Tapasya to hug you for this absolutely sensitive piece of work.
And I may or may not have read Droolji's Chhote's Chhote post and it may or may not have made my delicate SS sensibilities blush☺️

I have managed to watch a couple of the Jashan thingies on the Garam Tara .
For me it was like a bit of welcome rain to the parched desert..I'm still floating on cloud nine😃

Cherry behen 🤗 Oh my cherry behen, I feel like we are back on old BA. And this makes me do a happy dance.

Bwahahaha I had no idea a simple request to just stay positive and happy could unleash this much on the thread. The many peculiarities of IPK forum. 😆

Pliss di, nobody misses Drool ji's Chhote's Chotte especially a glorious SS like you. ☺️ ☺️

I surprised myself by watching all the 8 capsules on Garam Tara. Dimaag kept scoffing, dil kept grinning from ear to ear. Some I even watched twice or thrice. And something is always better than nothing.

Thank you, thank you. Aap aye bahaar ayi. 😉

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Cherylann

@tvpal007

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: cineraria

Cherry behen 🤗 Oh my cherry behen, I feel like we are back on old BA. And this makes me do a happy dance.

Bwahahaha I had no idea a simple request to just stay positive and happy could unleash this much on the thread. The many peculiarities of IPK forum. 😆

Pliss di, nobody misses Drool ji's Chhote's Chotte especially a glorious SS like you. ☺️ ☺️

I surprised myself by watching all the 8 capsules on Garam Tara. Dimaag kept scoffing, dil kept grinning from ear to ear. Some I even watched twice or thrice. And something is always better than nothing.

Thank you, thank you. Aap aye bahaar ayi. 😉

If there was a kissy emo, I would like to use it now☺️

How I miss this place and all of you❤️

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cineraria

@cineraria

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: psarada

Kyun Dard hain itna tere post main Ria - behen ? What to do ?

😆

@Kannansangi behen it was never Sarada di's intention to put anyone down. We all know and agree that IPK was team work and nobody can take away anything from Sanaya's or Barun's efforts.

They both put their heart into it.

But it's also a fact that 3 years ago Barun was blamed for the show's closure and though the ticker that claimed he left the show for movies hadn't really bothered me, but it feels great to have Anil Jha from Star Plus admit that he had left due to health reasons. Also there were many speculations on how the working relations between the actor and the channel had gone sour, so after three years it's nice to see that nothing of that sort had happened, that they are all happy in their spaces and worked together again. Sarda di's intention was just to state her pleasure at the state of affairs and not put down any one.

Hope we all are good here now. See we really don't want misunderstandings and another round of arguments as that nullifies the purpose of this thread. We are here to stay positive and try to move on from bitter things. 😃

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rulama

@rulama

Sparkler

+ 8

Posted: 9 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: cineraria

Cherry behen 🤗 Oh my cherry behen, I feel like we are back on old BA. And this makes me do a happy dance.

Bwahahaha I had no idea a simple request to just stay positive and happy could unleash this much on the thread. The many peculiarities of IPK forum. 😆

Pliss di, nobody misses Drool ji's Chhote's Chotte especially a glorious SS like you. ☺️ ☺️

I surprised myself by watching all the 8 capsules on Garam Tara. Dimaag kept scoffing, dil kept grinning from ear to ear. Some I even watched twice or thrice. And something is always better than nothing.

Thank you, thank you. Aap aye bahaar ayi. 😉