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Posted: 11 years ago
Thanks Jav for reading my 230.
Loved your detailed comments. Your perception amuses me.
"Dil humko jagakar kyu sone laga hai."👏
what a perfect line you quoted.
Anjali is shayani indeed, but i don't think she knew her brother so well. I will never wish Arnav and Khushi's married life become perfect like hers. 😆
Who doesn't want to be loved and cared. Arnav is not an exception though. when the MU was over Arnav loved to be cared by Khushi. Remember that cute breakfast in bed. Anjali was very much busy to babysit his swindler hubby. So she couldn't feel his brother's urge or wish. But in today's episode she was really great.
Loved your thought here, can't agree more.

Arnav has taken the responsibility of his family well being by every means. He wants to see their happy growing faces but when other wish and do something to cheer him and showing their utmost concern he shooed them away. Arnav never wants and expects others to return the favor he does on them especially when it is related to show their utmost care for him. He knows Khushi wouldn't listened to him and that's why he planned to stage an act of making fun of her fake care she showed previous night. He just want Khushi to stop everything, the swami act, care for him and most important the guilt. Isn't this the same that no matter how much he wants to punish her but he just can't. In the end he will bow down

Arnav Singh Raizada ke saath reh kar Khushi Kumari Gupta apni taqdeer likna seekh rahi hai. The charades are on again. If Arnav plans for a change then Khushi is their to make his plan wasted. Sh won't leave Arnav that easily.
oh yeah Khushi is valiant. she retaliated Arnav all the times and won also.
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Posted: 11 years ago
@Soni~
thanks buddy for reading.
plz don't say sorry that you couldn't read. We all are busy in our personal life. So I also don't expect everyone to read my takes all the time. That's why I stopped sending PM also, just trying to update my index regularly.
So many of your emotions made me emotional. thank you that you liked my take so much.
The holi track is my most favorite, so I tried to pour my heart in to write these episodes.
Not you only, but nobody won't be able to watch this VM, cause it's very sad that Zoha closed her channel. I don't know why. I was thinking to send her a message. It really broke my heart that the best Arshi vm maker closed her channel.😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
sohara,

😳

thanks for reading my endless 230.

loved your comments. especially about the tycoon who doesn't have the money for anything... 😆😆 really, beloved wife wears tents. the furniture is chipping... the servants are disappearing, but one great thing... the swimming pool flies around going wherever it is needed... next to di's room, above the drawing room, below the drawing room, how merrily it moves. 😳😳

the only reason i stayed on beyond holi was because of asr and khushi, barun and sanaya.. in the 4 odd months i'd seen them (i started watching regularly around diwali time), they felt embedded in me somehow. i was not able to leave when everything became strange, and am here even now. so, i do understand what you say. but my frustration remains and tends to show...

i am far less perturbed by the lack of production values and wardrobe.

they threw the story.

that is my real sadness. they became completely uncaring about the tale. and gradually, the characters built so assiduously by actors/directors/writer went.

from time to time they'd work out a fabulous asr khushi sequence... and those were always beautiful... but when you take the story away and just use a couple of actors with extraordinary chemistry to get something called trp, when you stop caring about what you want to say, when you stop fighting for your creative product, something in the core of it all suffers.

that is what happened.

as i watch now, i cannot blame a single actor or creative for wanting to leave. because unlike most other serials, ipk had a spectacular first 9 months... there was so much beauty and integrity there. and everyone worked to make it so.

anyway... water under the bridge.

i am just happy now that we got upto 398, even if sometimes i felt a real sadness.

and my mano darling, what to say, she feels so real and so difficult to love, i would not have her any other way. 😆

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: aarwen

Episode 230

From the night of soaring high in love, like Arnav, we literally slip down into reality. Panicky loud Khushi looks on while Arnav is still riled up. Did he think she played another trick which caused him to fall? Well devi maiyya has already played her master move and made him fall in love. It doesn't matter if khushi's extra oil makes him fall on the floor. An almost uncharacteristic outburst from Arnav which lasted but a second... A grimace and calming down once he realizes Khushi was in fact trying to take care of him.

Looks like someone randomly decided we need a lighter tone in today's narration and the resulting snore was simply awkward. But why belittle such an awe inspiring display of love? If Anjali needed to witness Khushiji's concern there were multitude of ways much more subtle to show it than have her fall asleep this abruptly. I notice Payal also always asked Khushi "tum thik toh ho nah?". Of course it neither has Arnav's radiant charm or Barun's impeccable style 😉 .. though it does have a lot of elder sisterly concern...

Not too far away another elder sister catches up with a worn out looking brother..His hair still greasy ..Anjali reminds chote of Khushiji staying up the whole night to look after him.. "pata hai di".. The faint stress on hai. He does not like it.. an uncharacteristic show of vulnerability.How much all this affects him! Befitting choice of word by Anjali.."Jeevansathi".. her eyes already have seen that this bond of marriage will survive a lifetime. Khushi will remain by Arnav's side to have and to hold , for better for worse, in sickness and in health . One word encompassing all that a wife and husband are to each other.. companions in the journey of life..


The child actor is not too bad.. But why was mami instigating Babli? Payash's saccharine smiles leave me with a feeling of diabetes. Although I quite like Akash and Payal but can we have less sugar piliij..

Near the poolside in their small little world .. an almost demure wife walks up behind Mr Raizada.. tender halting "Chai?" and you can almost feel something ticking in Arnav's brains.. In a deep voice masking hundreds of emotions causing hundreds of emotions "Swami nai kahogi?" ..calculated expression.."kaisa laga bina galati kiye guilty feel karna?" Unknowingly Arnav gives us a glimpse of what is in his heart. His belief that Khushi deserved all the sadness yet his inability to remain unaffected by it. The guilt eating him up from inside of causing pain. The har baar of how her tears discompose him. And in the foreground the fluid graceful movements of taking a glass of water and having his medicine. Maybe his subconscious self already realizing now he has all the more reason to take care of himself for the sake of one other.

Their hands have to touch because of all the searing untold unexplained chemistry. We hear a familiar strumming of the title song and look upon a flustered wife unsure of where all this is leading. "oh tum pareshan ho ri thi"? The last time he said this in the exact same place it was followed by some of the most breathtaking moments the show gave us. A name on someone's crimson mehendi adorned hand..and a lagi shart which spread a blazing crimson hue on a cheek and kept us all sleepless with dhak dhaks for nights to come.. Khushi can't seem to decide between hurt or anger as she points out how chalaak the man is. "chalaak" nai "shatir" .. after all I am Arnav Singh Raizada ..the pretense of nonchalance.. The hint of a smirk is the only clear sign of the pride he wears in the name he bears and all that he has made it stand for. Am trying to remember if I was convinced that he was lying the first time I watched this. I think I was as clueless as Khushi. Though unlike her I had a strong unshakable belief that even if he was tricking her he must have endured torture each second of the endless night.

When for the first time I saw Anjali peering from far was wondering what all would she end up overhearing. Would something else slip from the lips of this estranged couple ? Would the heavily guarded almost forgotten secret of the contract marriage come out in the open? Then for quite some time I thought Anjali herself would be hurt or enraged on behalf of Khushi that Arnav tricked them all. So what happened next was quite a surprise and a really heart touching one at that..

I guess whenever Anjali wears this yellow saree she is extra wise like the time she tried to explain to Khushi how her brother did not like display of love but needed it just the same. They are wrong when they say the photograph, a memory of yesteryear, is the only thing they brought with them from Sheesh Mahal. They brought something far more precious.. They brought each other.. And the love that helped both to survive. In one case a love that ensured a person would be able to keep her innocent idealistic beliefs.. And in the other case a love that ensured a person would leave no room for luck..no room for failure.. the certainty to excel.. "matlab?".. rueful and abashed chote stood in front off the all knowing gentle condescending di.. A heavy weight settling in.. constricting breath as he utters an urgent "Khushi?".. An irrefutable irrepressible eagerness to know whatever di has to say about her.. Am surprisingly touched by this beautiful depiction of what some might consider an almost mundane relationship. His sister understands him. "Ab bhi humein humare chote ki jhalak in aakhon mein nazar aati hai"..

A fourteen year orphaned adolescent could be this thoughtful and dependable. No surprises that the man we see today is this perceptive and selfless. A man who carries all burdens single handedly with such a high sense of morality in his unique way that he was in deep remorse when he did something unjust. Who forces himself to learn to say sorry and mean it. Not just with Khushi but he also apologized to Payal for breaking her wedding and to buaji and amma for unintentionally hurting them. A man capable of facing the truth head on. Be it the decision to tell di about Shyam's treachery or come clean with Lavanya once he realized how unfair he had been about their relationship. A man feared for his anger in office but also revered for his ability. Loyal to a mami whom everyone takes for granted. Kindhearted to a little stranger who wanted pigeons to fly to be reassured that her world would be all right. A man who had confidence to engage in astonishing gentle yet drop dead teasing courting, but also a boy too new and scared to bare his soul to the one he loved still brave enough to take the leap of faith. Ok am definitely digressing now..

We get treated to a soothing shot of a brother and his sister looking into the mirror.. do they see their past? or can they visualize their future? .. A chagrined self conscious feeling of exposure seems to catch Arnav offgaurd .. On my first watch my mouth formed a Khushi style "haw he was lying?" followed by "yeaaa he said all this to make her feel better".. The sometimes bewildered, often clumsy, spirited when needed and bewitching always was the Khushi who gave him sukoon. Arnav was willing to lie so that his feisty fully of life Khushi came back. Incoherent to his own self and too scared to admit again all that is within his heart he is still ready to damn himself to spare her the guilt. And what cannot hide in the mystic recesses of those eyes or in his slightly awestruck look has been caught by his di. The complicated introvert stands enthralled by the discovery of all that he sees in Arnav's reflection and I gaze on captivated by Barun Sobti's performance..

For some crazy reason I get reminded of these lines from a comic book turned movie, Dark Knight .. "Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So, we'll hunt him, because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian. A watchful protector. A Dark Knight.".. Aranav Singh Raizada does not need acceptance or gratitude. He will silently bear everything and go to any lengths to protect the ones he loves. And somewhere while watching the last scene a realization has hit me that being good , as the term seems to imply, is highly overrated. You don't require to mouth promises, follow customs, like kids, be kind to everyone around you, agree to conventions or even embrace religion to be a good person or an exemplary icon of love .. it sounds like an understatement but all you need is a good decent heart.. and on this rewatch I am learning this invaluable lesson of life from a 27 year old fictional character Arnav Singh Raizada. At this point actually hurts to call him or for that matter any of them a figment of someone's imagination. In only 20 mins they manage to become more real than a lot of the real people that take up the rest of the 1420 minutes of my day..

Finally Shyam's face in the foreground and sinister music in the background leaves us with an unsettling feeling.. except that we know none of all this that Shyam did was ever significant enough to matter or actually ever made any sense at all..

Aarwen,
I am spell bound... amazed.. speechless.. floored...
Those underlined are some of the BEST lines I have read for this man... and I read many.. some exclusive ASR writers who wouldn't pen anything but for this man...
I am completely blown away by the simplicity yet the profundity of your writing.. without being flowery you hit the chord to such a perfection that I am still reeling... Sorry for this profuse flattery.. May be I am just glad to have come across you.. your writings.. another one who perceives this man the way writers intended him to be...
I have nothing more to say about the episode.. Even I was super confused when I watched.. of his intentions... but on that pool side, my heart thoroughly went to Khushi, who just wouldn't understand.. has no clue.. this man is indeed complex.. she perhaps can not fathom neither the depths... nor his uncanny ways to mask his love.
It was indeed pleasing to see Anjali.. some anchor when these two are perhaps wandering in hurt and pain..
Loved it AArwen.. thanks and keep writing..
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: indi52

episode 230




it is possible to know someone forever and still not know them really.

INDIII ! Smooch smooch slobber slobber... How I love your writing... The depths and valleys ... Everything I need to understand , I get from you... I'm a very superficial thinker.. And I swear I wouldn't get the nuances of this show if it wasn't for you and your team of fabulous writers.
My initial feeling was that ASR didn't want khushi to get credit ( similar to the Kara/ medicine that brought his voice back after the Bali honeymoon) for him getting better. Also he wanted to get back at her for the swami trick she had played. That's why he said " aren't you gonna call me swami?" But didi showed him that his apparent meanness ( towards khushi) had a subconscious backdrop/reasoning. His subconscious will never let khushi feel guilty, same way it didn't let didi feel guilty. He doesn't recognize how his subconscious ( or his heart) rules his brain ... Sigh ... Do you think I even think about any of these in depth when I rewatch these episodes? ... No way... All I think about is that ..THAT mirror image is how Barun Sobti sees himself. Cause what you see in the mirror is how you see yourself ( I mean just the image) ... All others see a different image ( a reverse one) ... Do u get my drift Indiji? I am stuck on the revelation that that's what Barun sees in the morning and I get butterflies at that thought... I'm telling you I've lost it completely! His absence is making things harder for my senile insane brain!

That little girl to me is GUL (with inadequate understanding of children) She experiments with kids of different psychs ... Whether it's this weird kid (with Freudian pencil chewing sexual theories) or Arav ( the strange lil man) ...Cause she actually doesn't know pregnancy & kids and the whole nine yards. That's why Anjali's pregnancy was so bizarre ( no showing, eternal length etc etc) ... Gul is a genius ... but she is beaten by life's experience ... She followed the marketing theory that people will buy anything if there is a kid or a dog ( a pet ) in it. Laxmi worked but the kids didnt...

Gotta run but will be back to read more of my fav writer , Indrani robbins!

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Posted: 11 years ago




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Episode 229

All Night Long

Celine dion's song came to my head..."I drove all night to come to you it's that alright..

Nothing erases the feeling in between me and you

She is waiting for him and he is for her and both want to be in each other embrace, if she can't resist touching and caressing his hair and getting to the point in frustration where she is crossing all limits and he is crossing all barriers today even his own health to just show her and make her feel the "chot" the hurt he's been suffering from and the very next moment he is giving in all the guards and rests in her palm , in her embrace which she is snatching and easing it for him at the same time."LET ME DO IT"


[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3wnJNguOmAM[/YOUTUBE]

She has waited all night long for him to come home so she can feed him dinner and then she too will eat. Even Naniji has called him and told him Khushi is waiting for him before she eats. Frustratingly he says that he has lots of work and Khushi should eat without him. Naniji tells him that it is out of affection that Khushi is waiting for him and he again tells her that he will be late with work and Khushi should eat. Nani hangs up the phone aggravated at her grandson's attitude and tells Khushi it is okay for her to eat. But Khushi refuses she will wait for her husband. The discussion at the dinner table ihad been about the new and improved "husband" Arnav. The family members told Anjali that she had missed Arnav wearing Khushi's red shirt.


He is a changed man.

Hmmm, is he?

Khushi's idea has backfired. He is not falling for any of it. She says it is her stomach that cares and not him. She pines for the flavor of the food, lifting the covers and smelling the wonderful aroma of the delicious food. Maybe if she has just a little...

Yum...yum...yum.

By the time he comes home she has eaten all the food. What the?


He comes in and he is tired, hungry and wants nothing to do with her drama. He looks all the food has been eaten. She says, as she burps guiltily, that she will make him fresh HOT food and she goes off to the kitchen. He says for her to wait he will order the food. Aww, perhaps he is thinking no need to put her through all this trouble? And then he realizes no one will deliver at this hour.

He is sitting waiting, feels a little funny, gets up and goes to change. When he comes back to the table all freshened up and in his night wear his head starts to spin and he becomes foggy. I am sure he is diaphoretic too. Pouring himself a glass of water he calls for Khushi.

She brings out the fresh, hot food and says wait she must taste if it's perfect for him. She wants to aggravate this man!

By the time she is ready to serve him he is out cold.


Hypoglycemia has taken over!

Khushi freaks out rubbing his hands and calling his name loud enough that the entire Raizada family comes to the rescue.

Mami goes into her drama Khushi is trying to kill Arnav. Nani shushes her.

They sprinkle water on his face, he asks for his medicine. Medicine? Sometimes I dislike when the nurse comes out in me...give the man some sugar fast!!! Thank the heavens Khushi remembered! You take the medicine before the meal, when you are awake, and put something in your stomach.


They bring him to bed; it looks like his sister has fed him by hand. Everyone leaves husband and wife; Khushi will take care of him, her guilt meter is way too high and she will stay up and watch him all night long! Anjali tries to pacify her letting her know it wasn't her fault but Khushi's guilt has taken over. She feels terrible. She closes their door.

Arnav tries to get out of bed and Khushi runs to him. She will get anything he wants. She places her hand on his shoulder and the stubborn man slides it off.

How much pain should this girl bear for you, Mr. Arnav Singh Raizada?

They banter back and forth how he will sleep on the sofa; she refuses to let him by blackmailing him with telling Di.

Ahhh, the power of the almighty Di! His heart is not dead. She has got him there. He obeys.


He leans back in the bed and tries to not let her help him but she insists the lioness is protecting her mate! He has to give in. Oh, how I would love just a peek inside his mind right now.

So very vulnerable.

So very tired.

So very tired of playing the game.


But he will never let her know...he will never be defeated!!!

All night long she paces back and forth.


She is back and forth in his life, restless, confused, out of office, back to home, came near to him so close that couldn't resist losing her heart and he trashed her feelings, she wanted to move on but again he brought her back and made a bond with her in Mandir , his sister brought her back to RM and on and on and on, She never had a peace.

All night long she watches over him.


All this time she is watching him over and over , he is her prince in one minute and the very second he is Rakshus but she still keeping her faith in him

All night long she does not give in to sleep making sure her husband is okay.

She is giving every second of her life to get to his heart,to wake him up to make love to him the way any girl wants from her prince , her partner, HIS LOVE.

All night long her heartstrings have been plucked and pulled.

All this time her heart is aching and beating only for HIM , a person who can string her heart like no one , even Devi Maiya showed her that.Her heat is attached with him and only him in love and sorrow.

All night long she has wrung her hands with worry.


She is frustrated as "wrung hands " not cupping or rubbing...She has no idea and had no clue and here for his health


Cynthia, Love this whole scenario and that's how I see it.


She pulls over the sofa right next to his bedside and sits like his guardian angel, getting up if he moves, fixing his head position and his covers.


He may need her at any moment. So she sits on that sofa waiting with worry...sitting, sitting, watching, watching, until finally she nods off.



They both wake at the very same moment. That happens to John and me. He opens his eyes and I know. It is a strong connection between husband and wife, soul mates.

We just feel their essence.

It's not only hubby and wifey , it is also among your loved ones , I have this with my kids.


He tries to move and she jumps up. Just a minute she says. She will get the water he wants. He tells her a bit nastily he will get it, he doesn't need her help. Deep down, Arnav you long for it! She tells him not to drink lying down and sure enough he chokes. Didn't she tell him to be careful? She asks him to look up and places her hand under his chin and he looks up into the face of his angel and is lost for the longest Rabba Vey moment.


She finally realizes and abruptly lets go of his face while still in the moment and then gets off from leaning on the bed. They are both in an uncomfortable, restless moment then and she asks if he would like some more water. This seems to break the spell. She helps him to lay back down with some resistance from him but he finally gives in allowing his wife to take care of him.


She covers him with his blanket and places his hands on his chest.

He goes back to sleep as she worries for him again all night long.


Morning has broken and his eyes open up to hazel eyes boring into him questioning if he is okay? He startles and sits up like a rocket.

She fires a zillion questions about his health at him and if she can do anything for him. He jumps out of bed maybe to get away from this pagal wife of his or is it that all this caring scares the living day lights out of him? As he gets up he slips on some oil on the floor and falls flat on his back.

Khushi is aghast.

All night long she was worried and had taken great care of him

but now...





Cynthia I loved your take , 👏

just love , love it.Thnx My comments are in between.❤️



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hey sabi,

good to see you... and i am relieved that you continue to lose your mind over asr, as i need company for the rest of my life.

and dear deep thinker, you may be absolutely right, he meant to get at her and do some score settling but di it was, the wise and watchful, who took him to the mirror and told him what he had actually achieved with that game of his.

tell you how i saw it... since asr was a man of few words and many impossible to forget expressions, we read his face teehee. when she comes with the tea and stands behind him, and there's that little pause as his eyes register her presence, then he thinks something with a fairly serious air, no anger, no little lopsided smile, a hint of dard in it... and puts the paper down, gets up suddenly and swings into this swagger and natak, there was this air of purpose about him. however, there was no sense of out to win, more like out to fix.

so when i finally figured out that this was all indeed a natak, i thought ok, he did this to make her feel better, because not only was he perturbed by her state through the night, di had informed him how awful his wife was feeling and she was now making adrak ki chai. oh boy. then came voice most forlorn from behind him and he said, what the, must do something about this. especially since he had recalled exactly how caring his wife had been.

but he had no idea why he did it, almost instinctively that too... he just couldn't bear to see her like that and did what he felt he had to. it was di who made him see why exactly.

that mirror shot, lovely explanation. i love the asymmetrical lips showing up so brazenly on the flat surface. unmasks him, seems to me. in fact that difference between how we see him and how he looks in the mirror, fascinating, another work of kismet in ipk perhaps.

pehchaan was obviously the thing in this episode. who knows or doesn't know whom. hello subconscious, meet me super conscious 😆.


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Posted: 11 years ago
Here is the link for 230😊
Metamorphosis
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Originally posted by: ArshiHamesha


DISCLAIMER:DON'T COPY MY WORKS AND CONCEPTS WITHOUT GIVING ME CREDIT

YOU HAVE SEEN MY HUMBLE SIDE. TRUST ME YOU WON'T LIKE THE OTHER...

Arshi's Index

EPISODE 230

Metamorphosis...


Titliya ,Sanka Devi, Parmehwari and all, Buaji gave these names to Khushi but if you ponder upon,all of these are associated with transformation ,a metamorphosis process .Butterfly , different crazy layers for survival and Parmeshwari as Parvati ,Devi Maiya with tiger next to it to control the transformation of nature for bringing new colors everyday by opening layers upon layers.All these are bringing changes in Arnav's layered nature and today's epi is showing that.Today's epi is my King's episode whose shrewd and killer attitude along with his varying emotions showed the real meaning of this story to me.Barun is simply maginificent...

what a thoughtful interpretation! 👏

"Kuch rishte ajeeb bandhan main bandhe hote hai"...[Some relations have a strange bond] ...Khushi will understand the pull of this later but he is realizing it today. Trust Binding accords need the link of trust but these walls are shaking with Arnav's fall.His trust on Khushi is shaking his feet to move forward.As I mentioned in 228,Shyam's words " "Khushiji, iss golmol ke chakkar ko todiye, aur apne khayalon ko alag ki jiye aur phir sochiye"? are applying on him and this whole episode showing his confused, conflicted, and quizzical side at each step in between his heart and mind..He knows for sure Khushi's concerns and cares were so genuine but he is getting entangled in his own web of painted pictures of her which is making him flummoxed and ambiguous ever than before.He has patches of bandage which can't cover his whole wound.Khushi took care of his office matters regarding with "Sethis"...,his throat ,and covered him from Nani and Anjali.This much info he is processing when his heart shows him her innocent and caring side that she can't even think to commit anything against his sister but his mind directs him otherwise because he has seen Khushi and Shyam together after Heer Ranjha which triggered his heart to pin her down.That toned down by her silence and absence and his heart calmed down with her glimpse after two days.Now he knows her concerns but he is equating em with her "swami avatar" but his heart beats for her true and genuine care..Excellent nuances and acting of Barun made me spell bounded and helped me decoding his war within a lot in this epi.

loved the way you described his turbulence and quandary.

1-Triquetra ,which always remains in between Arnav-Khushi and Anjali because three of these are bonded together tightly and Anjali is the epicenter who always keeps this accord together in all weathers.

2-But there is another temporary Triquetra Arnav-Khushi-Shyam [outsider] because here Khushi is the epicenter but according to Arnav's brain he is the center because he is fighting with two of them Khushi and Shyam because they want to ruin his Di's life together.Arnav is tackling Shyam in his way till Shaym's next move but his judgments against Khushi are proving wrong.All of his shrewdness is making him damn confused and putting his intelligent aside in understanding Khushi's innocence .

as much as he wanted to deny the terrace scene a new MU occured between them to stretch the MU. during his staying in GH he was getting closer to Khushi, but that gift wrap in shyam's name made him acrimonious again. Really the cvs stretched the MU too much. I became frustrated. I think if Barun wouldn't take leave for movie they would continue the MU more.


~"The greatest conflicts are not between two people but between one person and himself."~ Garth Brooks

Anjali is the one who binds their accord as always and today she tells him how Khushi took care of him all night and the moment Anjali mentioned - "Humain khushi hai ke tumne apne liye eik aisa jeevan saathi chuna hai jiske liye tumhari sehat aur tumhara khayal rakhna sabse ziada zaroori hai", Arnav couldn't match his eyes with Anjali's.A lot of emotions like bewilderment, confusion, confliction, anger and slyness were lingering in these seconds on his face over Khushi's acts .He was amazed to know that his Di has not only accepted Khushi but also approved too.But He knows the girl ,his Di loves is after her husband.He also has seen Khushi and Shyaam's encounter twice, he is aware of her taking care of his family and Anjali, now he knows she has taken care of him and he also has experienced that Khushi knows deeply the meaning of his silence and managed to convey the message he wanted to. All these factors are enough to challenge his intelligence as Khushi said"baazi tou palat gayei kyuonkeh fadak tou aapko pdta hai, pyar,mohabbat,ishq se..." and now he has to change the game plan to come out of this confused circle and keep her on her toes to justify his actions.

Anjali always loved Khushi. Remember after Shyam's revelation, nani said to Khushi that Anjali always wanted her as Arnav's wife.


1st Triquetra Arnav -Anjali-Khushi is getting over shadowed by 2nd Triquetra Arnav-Khushi- Shyam here. I am going to join couple of scenes here to get the bottom of this.Anjali's words," humare Chote apno ki pareshani ko door karne keh liye jhoot bhi bol sakte hain." [our Chote can lie for the ppl he cares for] ... are showing her sister's concerns to him without knowing the reality of Arnav's relation with Khushi or his own equation with Khushi from which he is very much unaware of too.His interaction with his Di is totally different than his Khushi.Anjali is his sister and Khushi is the one who is after his Di's marriage.He can't forget the Shyam and Khushi's created image in his mind"Chup gaya hai..."[It has been printed] ...But still he can't hide showing his Right , Command, Dominance, and Control over Khushi.

Pondering connected Dots: Payesh Mehndi when he comes late and became ecstatic seeing Khushi worried for him and turns the table to relieve her from that worrisome avatar"Tou tumhain kya fadak padta hai."[Why does it matter to you]..and her abruptly confessing her concerns makes the luckiest man of this planet.."Fadak padta hai..."[It matters.]...But he answers his Di in a totally different way by keeping his hawking eyes at his prey "waise acha hua main gaya, pata toh chala mujhe kitna miss kiya jata hai"[It's good to know how much I've been missed by going away]...His approach towards different people and situation is totally different.

good observation.


We can see this in future too when his anger remembering Shyam's words and Anjali's stubbornness to bring him back makes him to break vase but when Khushi comes he calms down just by her presence.Even connect this with his interaction as a child to his mother by breaking the Rose plant and all.He reacts according to his situation with different emotions and with his pure heart.Right now Khushi is not standing at that purity pledge for him and he will react differently and that exactly happened but Anjali is the foundation of their relation and today again her advice is making him not only confused and but also conflicted with his unaccepted emotions which only can see her purity from all sides.

Anjali is too important for him. He ponders her words, her wishes, her POV tremendously. No wonder why he was bearing that nefarious fellow; just because of his sister.

When Khushi came with the tea, Arnav remembered Anjali's praised words ""Humain khushi hai ke tumne apne liye eik aisa jeevan saathi chuna hai jiske liye tumhari sehat aur tumhara khayal rakhna sabse ziada zaroori hai" [I am happy you have selected the perfect partner for yourself for whom your health and care is the upmost duty]...He hated to see his Di approval for this gal who asked her hubby to leave her.His emotions change right away and I loved seeing him gulping , folding the paper like he is folding his vulnerability in his shrewdness by gulping his slightest guilt.👏He has to keep playing with these two ppl who are after his Di.But he is making Khushi confused more than ever ,YES he wants to keep her sparring with him forever so she has a chance to make mistake "kitte dinno se janti ho mujhe"[since how long you've known me]... and he can take over this whole situation and honestly I felt for this poor soul here who is sinking in this shallow sand without any straw to hold on to.

Symbolism and connection:Here comes his slip, his fall this morning right after waking up... He knew and observed her care and concern for him but he dejected himself from that and kept her at the same spot that she is a betrayal and actor and that's all.I absolutely don't blame him.He is 200% right in his way of thinking.

He wants Khushi to believe that he won this round because he was tired of her overdose of her LOVE. He knows Khushi's concern was real but the epicenter of his anger is Anjali who is unaware of Khushi's the fact that Anjali is unaware of Khushi astute nature. Barun's expressions and my Psychology boring classes paid off here to understand the real meaning of his actions . Love Love Love Barun today and that's why I said it was his epi.

PONDERING CONNECTED DOTS:Arnav's statement to Khushi -"Pehele yeh bataao, poori raat pareshaan hokar kaisa lagta hai? Kaisa laga bina galti kiye guilty feel karna", .[How does it feel to be at guilt without doing anything wrong ? ...how do you feel staying up all night being worried...haan] ...I love this dialogue of Arnav because this is what he was trying since yesterday, to make her feel that her actions always hurt him . He wanted her to realize how her actions since guest house incident were making him restless and at the top she never gave him a chance to justify himself.The resignation day Khushi's words "aap haarte bahut bure hain Mr. Raizada, kyunki haarne ke baad bhi aap yeh nehin manenge ki galti aapki thi". But did she ever let him explain.

But he also equivocated and prevaricated a lot. His incessant rebuttal made Khushi judgmental. every time he said, you meant nothing, koi phadak nahi padta, choti aukat larki, tumhare jaise larki, greedy and all, what i'm sure he never meant that way. so I can't blame Khushi as well. He was extremely bipolar and complex. and Khushi is too simple and straight.

Then Teej and the store room, all these places he tried to clear his side but she didn't let him.He has spent many nights up with guilt .Even the night his heart first time got his beat , or the night when she was being tortured being engaged with Shyam.But the most torturous on , their wedding night when she was in shattered state by the pool without guilt and he was on the recliner with the guilt.

She didn't let him say cause she couldn't trust him, who was none but a rakshas. Just see what he did to her since they met, he confined her without listening to her plea, he spread the video footage in whole area,compelled her to leave her home town, he made her fall from upstairs and put her life in stake in the guest house. How could she believe such monster.

I love Khushi who is more determined to continue "Swami, pyar , ishq,mohabbat " act. I don't blame this girl who was ready to be hungry and punish herself for her actions but ends up having biscuit talk with Lakhmiji 😆.How can any one blame her for her irritations over this confused and conflicted nature guy.At least not me...

already told lot about it above.

Now when Anjali took him to her room and explained him to meet the eye of his real action vs shrewd action.She took him to the ride which always makes him emotional.She reminded him how he lied to her for making her feel better and my grabber is his worry over Anjali's words " iss liye keh hum jante hain tum Khushiji ko iss tarah se" where he stopped her right in the middle with the fear that she might know about their marriage.Barun's expressions throughout that scene are mind blowing, simply fantabulous.

.Pondering connected dots:This scene took me straight to the night when Anjali met with an accident .He was totally shattered and devastated but that day Anjali's advice made him come out from his flirty shrewdness to embrace the courage to just follow the rhythm of his heart,towards his LOVE ""Hum jisse sabse ziada pyaar karte hain usey kabhi door jaane nahin dena chahiye, kisi bhi halaat main".[ We never let that person go away in any situation ,the one we love the most.] and that...

Today, the same way Anjali helps him to meet his own eye in front of the mirror"Isse pata chalta hai tumhein Khushiji ka kitna khayal hai aur kitna, yeh toh shayad tum bhi nahin jaante chote", Arnav couldn't meet his eyes in the mirror because he knows, he has hurt and crushed Khushi's innocent heart one more time. He knows her concerns for him are genuine and real and her eyes never lie to him , NEVER... Anjali one more time showed him the way towards her, towards his own heart to meet this confusion and confliction within and again one name slips through his concerned voice "Khushi" without whom he can't live.

so true

awesome connection.

Pause here: Loved the mirror use and reflections here. Especially the one where Arnav turns back to the mirror and remembers the FBs of Khushi's concern and how he buried her concerns in her fake acting to shatter her pure soul. Love when he lowers his eyes for being so ashamed of his actions. Now he will use "Shyam's words to dissect each situation to dilute his confusion and to solve his confliction and that will help him later when he will be away from Khushi in abducted hands.

wow, what a keen observation!👏

Symbolism and connection: The glass is broken on Arnav' side which refers broken accords in his life since from his past and that is so beautifully shown here.His past is full of it but he is trying hard to keep his Di's life intact but his own is still shattered as his own shadow is at the top of broken glass [Sohara this is for you],but Anjali's words"nahin jane daina chahiye" is going to mend his over time and he will never let her go no matter what.

thank you.😃

Other side on a light note, Mamiji is slowly slowly accepting her son's happiness and giving them space while these two are coming closer physically every time but how much by heart ,that is a different story.


Loved the kitchen scene for two reasons,

1-Anjali and Payal were both worried for their siblings and Anjali witnessed Khushi's genuine concern which remains always there even when she resents her later .

2-If Khushi was in the middle of these pillars and is the pillar herself keeping these two safe , standing at their positions , married and happy and all 👏


MOMENT OF THE DAY

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/xtp4s5_arnav-khushi-love-scene-276-arnav-lies_shortfilms


It was an absolute delight to read your cognitive analysis.
You are so right, it was indeed Barun's episode. he was beyond excellent emoting his expressions. really such a fine actor he is!
Thanks for the interpretation of the broken glass thing. But contemplate keenly, whose life is shattered, anjali or arnav? Arnav's life was tough, but after Khushi's entry his life is rock solid with love. Now look at Anjali, she was ensconced by her brother since the day of their parent's demise, but her life is more fragile than Arnav.
All the blue lines I loved most.
my comments are in purple.
The edits are stupendous.
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Posted: 11 years ago
want to say something about the natak and mirror scene of 230.

bhoolbhulaiya.

it's in lucknow, but i am getting a sense of being pulled into a maze here, the writers are perhaps in it and want to pull me in.

the first time round i didn't understand what was really happening, i did think he had pretended, yet knowing asr, i could not believe it.

then he got "caught" by di and i was almost relieved. i decided this was a lovely way of showing us asr's nuances... and never wondered why it never became one of my favourite scenes...

this time round, again i felt a discomfort... ignored it... got busy thinking instead of feeling.

then sabi wrote that lovely take of hers. how she understood the scene. he was actually trying to get back at khushi... or so he thought, but his subconscious was acting here really, making sure his loved one did not feel guilt.

highly possible.

but to me the question is, is this asr at all? and haven't i seen much better writing to reveal asr's many facets.

he is a guy who acts swiftly once his mind is made up. minimum fuss is his way. the ruse with chacha ji, quick and deadly, just a couple of looks and two sentences... bas.

thappads to moolrajani (that his name?) and the "compensation" all in 20 seconds i think.

mami. what an absolutely beautiful, smart, asr like revelation of his tender heart... one line, one look, a necklace sent with di... i melted when i saw that, you knew of a deep large heart without much fuss, just a few telling shots.

bandagement, that compelling need to make sure she's ok... and he goes right ahead and acts on it.

when he realised he had this feeling for khushi, he was at her door, upstaging nk, in no time and flirting with her headily.

and on the terrace, he sees, feels, gets into thinking and action, all fast, no dithering and procrastinating... and when he tells her what she must do, it is so asr. direct, hard hitting, no nonsense.

he says during holi that their dhadkane have become one. he did not forget. he knows he loves her, but he fights it.

he also knew the hamesha hamesha of heer ranjha was not dialogue, it was how he felt... the shot of him picking up the earring said so so much. part of him she is, he loves her, but she is not true... the pain in him. which leads him to lie... not because he does not know.

it is a conflicted emotion, but there is awareness of this emotion.

i can quite understand why asr might want to put khushi's mind at rest regarding him being unwell. i think the man does not like fuss, does not like to bother people, especially those he loves, and he really can't handle all the feelings of that night in their dark, intimate space, plus khsuhi's feeling guilty, contrite... he really does not like to see her as anything but her sassy self, we have seen this before...

so yes, i can quite see him coming up with a plan to make her feel okay... it might even be pretending he was fine and she has fallen for his trick.

but i see him not doing so much drama... i see him simply throwing a line at her, like, "don't get taken in by the whole thing, i was fine... it was payback. look up the meaning in the dictionary," before leaving for work. di could have told khushi all about his way of making those he loves feel less guilty, feel ok.

there really was no need for so much natak. and he is in no need of being told "this shows how much you love khushi..." i wish writers remembered, this is asr, a guy who makes an assessment of a thing, understands it his own way and rarely forgets what he has assessed.

from the moment he has heard his dhadkane and connected it to khushi, you cannot run away from the fact that he knows faraq kyun padta hai. (when we come to him telling di that he did not love khushi when he married her, we will rave about this point 😆.)

yes, the wrong assessment of a situation puts the whole feeling into hell... but he does love kkgsr and does not need his sister to tell him that. and to reveal his nature, better methods have been used, they felt more asr. this felt very anjali to me. why it was done i don't know, but since i spend so much time here, felt the need to be honest about this.

anyway, ha ha, it was all a bit too sweet for diabetic me.

edit: and i confess, abjectly admit, i was quite enamoured of this scene when i saw it the first time and realised how anjali made him see things in front of a mirror... even this time, i was quite prepared to be delighted... i perhaps was too which is why my take was what it was... the issue of pehchaan remains valid for me, it's about knowing their inner drives and motivations, but there was this feeling back of mind... till suddenly i felt it was too forced, not really asr, nor ipk writing for asr. if you like the scene, just ignore my bakbak, it's a pov, that is all.

Edited by indi52 - 11 years ago

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