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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: indi52



hi dear issk,

you down too? i was waiting for a clear space in the head or home to get going... guests, work, funny house shifting dirama shirama, and in the middle of all that... these incredibly exhausting and gorgeous ipk days.

oh i might have done far worse than he did. i can quite see myself slapping and yelling and getting chaotic
... i never forget barun sayng that he liked asr and in fact he had to like asr, no question of not doing that, and if asr did something not likable, he had to make it so... it's easy to empathise with khushi, but it was wonderful to see how many of us felt all sorts of things for a guy who was coercing a woman to marry him and then throwing her out of the room on to a cold hard floor. okay, that one i really did not like and was mighty pleased when he slept on the floor too and got a crick in his neck... that's how much of a score settling type i am... have done enough things in my life that were downright mean and terrible... at 27 i was busy driving my whole family up the wall and my husband completely crazy with my sweet chaotic behaviour... to resolve it, i finally had to go right back to my shrink and say kuchh karo.

this man is 27, the girl is 19 and a bit... if we won't make our mistakes now, then when.



Powerful thoughts above, Indus! And so strangely validating your first post above that i found myself responding before i knew it. I had this mad urge to write one thesis type post earlier today on "mistakes"😳. But so down i was, i had to look away. I've been extra chirpy this week on the thread hiding behind the beauty of the brown suit! The loop factory was working overtime to avoid focusing on anything else!! How superficial am i, i've been thinking, for everyone else is writing deep beauties on life and relationships and i can't get past the man's sartorials!🤔

In truth, i've been all over the place... Cos i see these dear soapsters of ours make mistakes, and our talking about it daily, that makes me unknowingly flashback to my own...have made some pretty big ones myself. Sure... he coerced her into it. Then went a step further and put her out in the cold, a very bad thing indeed. Would i have done it? It's a no brainer - Yes. In fact have. done. not. very. different. So if i even try to make it a gender thing, who am i kidding?? He followed it up with the quilt upon realizing. That's who he really is here for me... am damn sure for ALL of us actually.

Yes the episodes are beautiful, throbbing with life and feeling, gorgeously performed - but they are painful. Love is really putting them through the wringer here...but am already so crazy and twisted myself that i find it tough tough tough to bear! Which is why i was holding that placard labelled "avoidance" when we hit this thread!!


Anyway. Sounds like you have a lot on your plate right now. Everything happens at the same time, doesn't it? The Law of "diminishing energy" i call it!
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LOVELY!!

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: cinthiann1758

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Episode 180

Tick...Tick...

A worried man paces back and forth and his sister asks if he is okay. You see he doesn't usually attend these poojas without complaint. She tells him he should go and rest she won't mind but he says he is fine and will stay. Anjali walks away from Arnav with a smile on her face. He is waiting for her, the one he gave bangles to. Khushi comes down and he looks away not letting her see he is waiting for her. Her arms covered by her dupatta. He is straining to see and Khushi finally looks up at him and he quickly looks away. The pooja begins and he is straining to see beyond Khushi's dupatta bundled wrists. Is she wearing his gift?

Shyam notices that something is going on between Arnav and Khushi and his jealous self, looks annoyed.

Khushi also sees Arnav's curiosity and tightens her dupatta around her hands. There is no way that she will give him the satisfaction of knowing that she is wearing those bangles. Anjali is giving the offering and gives to Shyam and then to Chote. He has an idea; he takes the thali from Anjali and goes to Khusi to give her the offering. He stands there holding it out to her. His eyes boring into her; daring her to bare her wrists to him. She tries to take it with a covered hand and is scolded by Buaji. She finally shows him her adorned wrists and he places the offering in to her hand wih a satisfied smirkish grin on his face. My heart thumped a bit at this Rabba Ve moment, so cute. He handed back the tray to Di. She continues giving everyone the offering and when she gets to Nani they are both snickering and smiling about the situation. Aakash asks his brother for the car keys to take Payal and her family home. His preoccupation with Khushi and his happiness upon seeing her wearing the same banges cannot be interrupted by a question so easily. He is proud that she is wearing his gift.


He turns to go and she asks him if he bought the bangles and he answers her as if he doesn't know what she is asking. She is determined to have him tell her the truth.

The family picture is being taken by NK and he keeps moving Khushi near Arnav. She decides to aggravate him and plays with her bangles.

NK comes up and apologizes for the bangles not fitting and asks where these bangles came from and her answer is Arnav and then she adds he doesn't even know where they came from. They must have fallen from the sky!

While packing up Anjali asks Khushi about the bangles while Arnav is talking with NK. She says they are very nice and Khushi answers they are unattractive and the wrong size. Arnav's eyes nearly fall out from his face. Anjali is playing the game and egging Khushi on. So why not take them off? Khushi answers these useless bangles at least keep my wrists from being bare but the moment she gets home she will definitely remove them. Absolutely, Anjali agrees. She is looking at her brother and now she has thrown fuel on the fire. She asks Khushi to go to poolside and get something for her. Khushi agrees and then Anjali starts the countdown. She already knows her brother will follow.


"Tick, Tick 1...

Tick, Tick 2..."

He's off to poolside.

She laughs, now the real fun will begin!

Khushi is looking around for the platter when Arnav comes and asks her if she doesn't like the bangles why doesn't she throw them away.

She asks him why he likes bangles bought by someone else? Anyway they don't fit she says. He answers her, perfect fit.

With crossed arms, she tells him he has to answer her question because she won the bet at Sangeet. He crosses his arms in response and says ask him the question.

Buaji is looking for Khushi, NK says he will go look for her but Anjali says she sent her for work she will be back shortly and she looks at Nani. Nani understands. Anjali tells Payal that she is looking forward to having her come back to the house tomorrow as a family member. Aakash says he can't wait!

Arnav tells her to ask her question.

"Did you buy these bangles for me?"

"Haan, I bought those bangles for you."


Eyes go wide as if she is shocked. She releases her arms and asks softly, "Why?"

He takes a breath, there is no way he is answering her that question. He turns around to walk away. She runs after him. He turns back to tell her that according to the terms of their bet he only had to do one task and he has already answered her one question. If you don't like them take them off. She says she only said that so he would admit that he bought them. So wear them, he says. She says, she has!

Everything has changed. He sees his bangles, the bangles bought by him on her wrist.

The feeling awesome, overcome by his emotions of seeing his Khushi wear them so intimately, just beautiful. Maybe a little too intimate for them right now, they turn away from each other.

Meanwhile Mami is making a scene as always, not being nice to her future in laws and making them feel bad that the wedding is at the RM house instead of the bride's house. But wasn't it the Raizada's idea that the wedding be at the groom's house? Wasn't it she who would be embarrassed?

It's a terrible thing Mami. Mamaji tells the Guptas not to worry all will be well.

She quietly asks him, why did he buy bangles for her. He is looking at her. In his head I am sure he wants to scream out how much he really cares about her but something stops him. He answers he doesn't have to answer every question of hers because if he did she would know how much he cares for her.

She is angry with him but she holds and looks at those bangles with such feelings. Love is absolutely in the air!


He is rushing out from poolside only to bang into Shyam who has been spying on them.

Tick...Tick...Tick... the clock is ticking what will happen next?

Nice take Cynthia.
loved Khushi's naughtiness in the episode. And sexy Raizada's new avatar.
you are so right about mami. I think she got amnesia. She forgot that her nephew wanted all the wedding rituals to be held in Raizada house. Though it really looked weird, that bride came to groom's house for the wedding.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: IssPKaur



Powerful thoughts above, Indus! And so strangely validating your first post above that i found myself responding before i knew it.
I had this mad urge to write one thesis type post earlier today on "mistakes"😳. But so down i was, i had to look away. I've been extra chirpy this week on the thread hiding behind the beauty of the brown suit! The loop factory was working overtime to avoid focusing on anything else!! How superficial am i, i've been thinking, for everyone else is writing deep beauties on life and relationships and i can't get past the man's sartorials!🤔

In truth, i've been all over the place... Cos i see these dear soapsters of ours make mistakes, and our talking about it daily, that makes me unknowingly flashback to my own...have made some pretty big ones myself. Sure... he coerced her into it. Then went a step further and put her out in the cold, a very bad thing indeed.
Would i have done it? It's a no brainer - Yes. In fact have. done. not. very. different. So if i even try to make it a gender thing, who am i kidding?? He followed it up with the quilt upon realizing. That's who he really is here for me... am damn sure for ALL of us actually.

Yes the episodes are beautiful, throbbing with life and feeling, gorgeously performed - but they are painful. Love is really putting them through the wringer here...
but am already so crazy and twisted myself that i find it tough tough tough to bear! Which is why i was holding that placard labelled "avoidance" when we hit this thread!!

Anyway. Sounds like you have a lot on your plate right now. Everything happens at the same time, doesn't it? The Law of "diminishing energy" i call it!
🤓


a la the man in brown suit, i shall dispense with all polite aaps and jis and brusquely ask... tum theek ho?

and please do not ever try to compete with me on the superficiality quotient... d'you understand? now i have asked that one with the delhi ji accentia, cannot decided if it's angrejjia or amrikiya loving.

just a while back, i told a bunch of fairly serious looking folk at work that we should consider suggesting an online forum for our next pitch to the government and showed them parts of our thread... on the big screen, all the while sighing and yelling every time the boy appeared. the most senior exec in the room asked me if i intended changing my name to indi53, now that i was that, giggle giggle.

curious thing about this show and our little huddles, we all start relating to things in it and connect with our own lives, our stories. sign of a good piece of work if you ask me. to identify with it, once a creator has got you to do that with something created, battle supremely won.

this tacky serial at times feels like it's all about my life.

bet you get that feeling at times too.

sir, we all make mistakes. bad ones at that. if we didn't we wouldn't be human, we'd be ants or table lamps, no disrespect to either.

we are those people who actually have the wherewithal to have something confounding called choice. we don't eat just because we're hungry, we don't mate because it's season, we don't follow submissively. unlike other creatures we seem to have a powerful streak of will... utterly individual. managing this, half my life goes, the other half not managing it, just letting it have its own way.

ponderings on crooner once led me to a very interesting word... "timshel" as interpreted by steinbeck in east of eden. instead of thou shalt, it is understood as thou mayest. you may. a biblical word that suggests that it is indeed our choice, god is not forcing but saying here is your true power... you may. we may choose to do right... that is the thing on offer to all of us. exciting, i tell ya.

i of course, veer toward folly like krishna toward cream... and asr toward jhalli.

please don't feel the burden of the things that made you realise, oh you do terrible things. i have heard many people on the forum rave and rant about the 27 year old man with a wild temper and a passionate heart. about his "manhandling," his utter unfairness to khushi and things. yet no one really quit watching... oh i have read plenty "this is my last post" kind of messages too. maybe because without our knowing even, he allows us to touch our insides... and with him, and through him, we experience a sot of catharsis of our own.

just rambling...

i hope you start feeling changa soon. i will absolutely write 182 today, whether the right words come or not.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: sohara


stupendous.
What a write up and what an episode! Enjoyed so much.
all the lined in bold stood out for me.
My comments are in blue.


thank you, sohara,

you are always so full of praise... thrills me. i hope sincerely you get something out of reading my huge rambles. i just love to go on.

loved your comments.

left three up there.

But do such kind of love exist in real life?
the first two are sort of related. you ask if this kind of a love exists. depends which kind you mean. the sort i wanted, and yes i was one of those woolly headed idiots who read romances, mills and boon, georgette heyer, onto the bestsellers, and i always wanted a love thingie. a big relationship. of my choice.

i feared it may not happen. went all out and had crushes lefty right and centre... oh the joys of unrequited love. forever in my fantasies these guys were lying around in injured in awful accidents, blood dripping and i the saviour came along to... ai ai yo... save them.

woman as saviour, major theme... how we all thrill when we believe khushi saved asr... while he did pretty much nothing for her... just loved her madly.

that sort of love saves us. really.

but this whole thing is not about saving, and stuff. it is a curious yearning of the heart. and it so seeks fulfillment. through it you touch other worlds and i am sounding completely lunatic here i know, but love really makes you grow and find things in you, outside of you. that is, if you are willing to walk the mad walk and believe in it.

baat really sach ya jhoot ki nahin hai... baat is of vishwaas.

of course, love demands much of us. and i had to relook at many things again and again. but for me, when something tells you this is the one... then no matter what it is worth holding on.

i was not easy to love or lkive with. i still am not. nor is he. but i can't imagine living without him. and i believe it's the same with him. we are so different you can't imagine... yet.

of course i don't mean therefore, hang around even if a guy is abusing you or having a million affairs, but i do mean, if you feel he loves you and you feel you love him too, then even if he doesn't love you in way you thought he would or should, it's still worth giving it a chance.

purely my personal view point and experience.

did some quick research on when exactly did the notion of romantic love exclusively between one man and one woman start.

the christian faith perhaps was the first among the current world religions to speak of a one man one woman marital relationship and somewhere along the way, "love" entered the vows. from what i understand, what we think of as love is a fairly recent idea in the history of humankind... maybe that is why it is so exciting... through this feeling we are really finding ourselves maybe.

whatever it is, sohara, it is somewhere damn well worth it. there's risk in it but the reward is hamesha...

some people get frazzled by that risk factor... we are all different personalities. but i was always excited by it... as are many who take the plunge.

and each love story is peculiarly its own, utterly different. i do hope you find yours.

somewhere the little prince's completely giving love for his cold and prickly rose... something key to love there. you love and that in itself somehow is enough. crazy, huh?

comment three... hehehehehehehe indeed. hum kitney lucky hain, and how we love our acidity.


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