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Episode 9

It's all About Phatti Sari

So Khushi took her first step into Raizada Mansion - as always, guided by Anjali, who tells her, her first step must be with her right foot. It will always be Anjali who will be guiding Khushi towards her rightful place in the house.



Both Anjali and Naniji find her cute. Lakshmi has no problems with her. And Mamiji?

Mamiji, the self-professed bootiful lady, narcissistic, insecure, vicious and petty. Her anger at being regarded as a mere servant girl gives Khushi a name that will last her for the rest of her life. 'Phatti Sari'. It is Mamiji who tore the sari, and decided to give her the derisive nickname.

Mamiji's relationship with Nani is a complex one. Neither one seems able to stand each other. Nani - autocratic, haughty, and bitingly aware of her daughter-in-law's shortcomings. Yet, she never holds it against her son. Nor does she ever let it get down to petty bickering.

Both Nani and Anjali are totally entranced by Khushi. She is a force of nature. Innocent, bubbly, exuberant, naive and yet wise beyond her years. This is the first impression that both nani and Anjali have of Khushi, which is why the "betrayal" of the first marriage is so hard for them.

There is something so alive, so vibrant about Khushi. She is always looking for a solution. Always trying to make the solution work. She will try anything that seems to have the remotest chance of success. With the cancellation of the sari orders, she is ready to think of every option she can to salvage the situation.

Which brings me to Buaji's rather unfair criticism of her.

"Jo ladkhi apni bahan ki saadi tudwa sakti hai, woh kauno kaand kar sakath hai"

Why did Buaji make such a statement? Did she truly in her heart believe that Khushi was capable of breaking Payal's wedding deliberately? This is an extremely cynical thing to say - given that she sees how close these girls are to each other. Is it just the fact that Khushi is adopted, while Payal is her brother's only child?

But this only highlights the reason why Khushi ends up marrying Arnav Singh Raizada. To save her sister's marriage - at least, that is her reason. Unknowingly, she was trying to save his sister's marriage, too. A marriage that was sadly, already at the breaking point.

As Ruby pointed out, by this point in the story, Khushi is focused solely on Arnav. His name 'rings' in her ears. When she hears about the Arnav - Chotey - Chotu - that Nani talks about, one who has diabetes - she cannot help but think about Mr. Kadwa Karela!

And then she dreams about him.

Ah! Khushi's famous dreams! And all of them revolve around Mr. Arnav Singh Raizada! This time, she imagines herself tossing money at him. Lots and lots of money. She is blissfully happy thinking about that.

As Payal rightly says: "Matlab woh ab tumhare sapnon mein aa hi gaya"

To borrow a phrase from Ruby - please to Pause here.

How is it Payal never saw the slippery slope that Khushi was on? Was she also as naive as Khushi? When a sibling constantly brings every conversation back to the one person that she supposedly has an enmity with - and then declares to have dreams of them. The two sisters often talk about their dreams - of a prince who will come and take them away. Payal never suspected - that her sister had already met her prince.

But then we wouldn't have a story if things were so neatly wrapped up, now would we?

ps - Ruby - just a wee correction. I mentioned that both Shyam and Arnav try to destroy Khushi. Not that they destroyed her. They tried. Arnav tried to break her spirit. Shyam tried to break her spirituality. Neither succeeded. And you have explained why beautifully as usual

Enjoy the Episode
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UhRPPBtQTgI[/YOUTUBE]

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Posted: 12 years ago
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The first step is you have to say that you can - Will Smith

I am not to sure about reflections over all, but I would try to connect the dots as much as possible. It's been a long time since I myself have analyzed an episode and written it.

Episode starts with Khushi and nani meeting for the first time. Khushi, thrown into an abyss is happy with the challenges on her way but little does she know that this is all the beginning of a storm that she's about to clash with. One of the funny things if you guys notice is the temperate of the situations. Khushi is put in a brief period of training first, she's been given supporters; "ram shri", from what I know defines 'peace' and her supporters along with her until the end want nothing more than peace. After Khushi is given the people who are there for her, she's put in the lions den.

I'm not sure if I am explaining myself correctly but thats how it seems to me if you distinctly join the sari scene with Khushi entering Arnav's room after he leaves.

Khushi, naive yet mature. Bubbly and happy yet lives with fear and melancholy. As much as different Khushi might be from Arnav, there's one thing that's same between both. Their ability to contradict themselves not just because of their pasts but also because of their choices.

The scene is followed up Khushi entering the house with good news that not only budges Bua ji's perspective of what Khushi can do but in turn displaces the environment of gloom in the house. What really stands out during the whole conversation till the moment when Mami calls to cancel up the order is the one dialouge where Khushi's integrity is put on questions. her morals and values thats not been instilled by Garima but her own mother. Why not Garima you ask? While Khushi might be as young as eight at her parents death, the core values of interacting with people around her were given to her by her own parents. they were further developed by Garima who molded them in the right direction as she grew up.

Bua ji, the most hated character from the beginning till the Sangeet. Why? Well, her attitude towards Khushi has always been of less accepting. Even after her marriage, she takes her to be selfish and taking up her happiness before anyone's else.

The episode held a central point on characterization and the expectations. Khushi, now holding a place of respect in hearts of Anjali and Nani still struggles to make a place for herself in her own house where she has let every wound open to others just so they can be happy. Arnav, a man who gels well with his siblings, especially his sister and would do anything for the; Mami, a self obsessed person whose never been truly been able to open her mind to the class she belongs.

Few pointers to note;
  • Nani herself picks up that Mami is up with an agenda. While the sari's don't necessarily matter much to her, she does pick up that Khushi is a person in need and her DIL is sabotaging that. I don't understand why doesn't do anything about it.
  • Anjali lives away in her own room. It is this time that after stepping back in her brother's house, her role of a protective mother and elder sister is put to test. The storm is on it's way.
  • Arnav and Khushi are already connected to each other. Khushi is much more affected than Arnav but the realization strikes Arnav first. This is worth remembering as we move on since last time too everyone concluded that Arnav fell for Khushi first while it was the other way round.


Edited by areeba_blossom - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@GirlOfFire I always feel that after the contract marriage Nani and Anjali seem to be more angry to Khushi rather than their chote...after ur explanation it sounds reasonable enough...
At that time I didnt like buaji a little bit...the first time I like her is when Arnav brought Khushi back after guest-house incidence...
Khushi and her dream...uski tarah hi sanki hai...
loved ur post...will come back again to read the rest...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Girl of fire... Love it...Especially the bold parts below...

" Which brings me to Buaji's rather unfair criticism of her.

"Jo ladkhi apni bahan ki saadi tudwa sakti hai, woh kauno kaand kar sakath hai"

Why did Buaji make such a statement? Did she truly in her heart believe that Khushi was capable of breaking Payal's wedding deliberately? This is an extremely cynical thing to say - given that she sees how close these girls are to each other. Is it just the fact that Khushi is adopted, while Payal is her brother's only child?

But this only highlights the reason why Khushi ends up marrying Arnav Singh Raizada. To save her sister's marriage - at least, that is her reason. Unknowingly, she was trying to save his sister's marriage, too. A marriage that was sadly, already at the breaking point.

As Ruby pointed out, by this point in the story, Khushi is focused solely on Arnav. His name 'rings' in her ears. When she hears about the Arnav - Chotey - Chotu - that Nani talks about, one who has diabetes - she cannot help but think about Mr. Kadwa Karela!

And then she dreams about him.

Ah! Khushi's famous dreams! And all of them revolve around Mr. Arnav Singh Raizada! This time, she imagines herself tossing money at him. Lots and lots of money. She is blissfully happy thinking about that.

As Payal rightly says: "Matlab woh ab tumhare sapnon mein aa hi gaya"


Buaji's demeanor towards Khusi in the beginning of the show is extremely biased and step-motherly... As the story progressed, her attitude towards Khushi softens...Starting after the guesthouse incident... Prior to that... Her character was more or less a one liner... Loud, domineering, overbearing aunt who is completely biased towards the step child...and simperingly loving to the rest...

In ASR's character we saw a peeling back of layers to reveal a depth not seen immediately... But in case of Buaji's... We saw an adding of layers where she blossoms into a fiercely loving, devoted champion of these girls...

Mamiji... What can I say??? A character I had the toughest time with... The most caricatured and unreal of all... Don't get me wrong... I believe that there was a reason and a place for such a character... But maybe it could have been a little less over the top...like you said, dramatic, mean, narcissistic, petty... All can be done with a little less drama... But maybe where's the fun in that... Right???

Phatti hui sari and kroon bahri tang...again two phrase that scratched on my soul as nails on a black board...why didn't ASR say something ever???? Continues to irk me... I know he is indebted to Mamiji... But I also know that he would not have let a thing like that stand for very long... I think... Just a sternly issued warning..."Mamiji..." Would have been enough... But again... Where's the fun in that too?? I don't believe that ... But understand there is a place for such a character...

Really enjoyed your post!!!
Edited by Ipoona - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Phattisadi ka naamkaran hogaya. Gruhapravesh bhi hogaya ( unofficial of course )😳 . I remember hated Mamiji for tearing kushi's sarees , without earrings poor Kushi thought Mamiji is maid. 😆Love the scenes of Anjali, Naniji and Kushi. And Kushi " woh CHOTE " hai koi chotu nahi.. 😆

Ps.. Superb post as usual , love to read DC reflections, thanks for writing for us and PM 🤗
Edited by Arshig8 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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first of all thankyou for the pm...

and todays episode...

kushi dreamed about arnav...

yesterday she called him "rakshes" and today he is in her swapna..." sapnooka rajkumar"

and it took her all 200 episodes to ask herself what exactly is he?

and arnav is cracking jokes on anjali.. that doesnt happen in the later episodes...

enjoyed it!!!
Edited by mayukatta - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Lovely analyses, GirlofFire, Ipoona! Really enjoyed reading your takes on this epi.
Truly Buaji was a contradictory mix of sauteli and apni wrt her treatment of Khushi. You could never be quite sure of where she stood re Khushi. One minute showing arnav the way out after the guesthouse rescue, another moment abandoning her before the pag-phere ritual. In one beat forcing her to get engaged to Shyam, and in the next telling Shyam where he got off.
For me, Mamiji was the character closest to that of the 'silly Mrs Bennett' as interpreted by the P&P serials and movies with exaggerations, Indianisation and a strong streak of malice against (whom she considers) the socially inferior.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome 😊 Enjoying DC everyday 😊
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Loved your analysis Girl of fire. Buaji and mamaiji, two characters that were changed at the will of viewers acceptance. As some rightly said here, she was highly prejudiced against the step child Khushi initially (that makes me respect babuji even more for his most progressive brought up of these two girls). But her transition to a loudly affectionate some times over bearing aunt later on made some sense as perhaps before the girls came to Delhi, she never spent enough time with Khushi and didn't get a chance to now her well, but after coming to Delhi, she could peep into this innocent and warm spirit!
Mamiji and naniji, heard that there was supposed to be a FB of how Mamiji entered RM in the first place, as flashes of that were given when Babuji was hospitalized. But since her comic self could garner popularity, the makers didn't feel that need to disclose any further. Yes, she was quite unrealistic, but I would give her a pass for the entertainment she provided and her care at least for Arnav and Anjali was truly motherly and endearing at times!
Agree with Ipoona, would have loved ASR to condemn those name callings of Gupta sisters by her at least once!

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