i wana an answer mods edited [MOD:P4,5,13,37,60] - Page 36

if mods are nt doing anythink against them
then we should do something against basherz.
Acctually prblm is that that we are nt united.

Puja, your views meet mine too. I used to ignore these guys. Never tried to interact with these people because it leaves a bitter taste in my mouth. So, don't want that.

I feel the IPK DTs are doing their jobs as best as they could. In fact hats off to them for handling such a volatile forum. Yes, we do get hyper even at the smallest things. May be this is where our happiness lies :)


And, I for one will be very sad if this forum ever gets closed. I made a lot of friends here and I am sure, I will make some more in the future :)


As far as the timings are concerned, I understand that the DTs have their personal lives too and they get nothing out of keeping threads against the rules of the forum to go beyond 50 pages :)


And to those who are against a particular actor/fan group and these fan groups are in turn against the non-fan groups, you all have reached a level where you love each other so much that you all can't keep yourselves away from each other, hence you all always find ways and places to come closer ;)


Ab Iss pyaar ko kya naam doon?


P.S. There is a difference between criticism and being nasty. I really don't know who started being nasty first, but now what is done is done :) Ab bhukto :D

Also, the DTs of different forums are different and they handle situations differently. Some forum DTs might not always come online as their forum is not that active but each of our DTs do come online every day.

And there is an option of Global Moderators always :)

My two cents.

I have no problem with ignoring posts but honestly there is a limit. The reason the forum is a powder keg is because the reason 'criticism' posts are not really any such thing. I can take someone saying an actor is unprofessional, liar etc.., I can take them saying he doesn't act well, but there is a civil and minimal level of decorum required to have a debate, which is not what those posts aim to do. That is the reason set forward by those who make them as to why their freedom of speech is hindered, but that is not the intention.

I am all for your rules mods,as long as the posts are not posted with the sole intent to be MALICIOUS, and those are what those posts are about. And because this forum has run out of goodwill, justifiably, any poster with criticism faces the wrath of those burned one too many times.

Any type of civil response is answered with the word fanbot, fangirl, hormonal whatever, and questioning intelligence and sexuality. How exactly then was the intent to be constructive then? The sole purpose of the posters is to use Barun as an excuse to demean his fandom. That intent is cyberbullying, isn't it?

So fine, we can be the bigger more mature people and not respond. But a person who screams, taunts and mocks, hurls insults daily and is heard is still a bully even if he doesn't ilicit a response because he contributes to a hostile environment.

People will have a problem if we are asked to tolerate without seeing any reciprocity from the other side of the equation. As I said, the goodwill and tolerance in this forum has run dry.

Sorry, 2 cents turned into 2 dollars.

@minnu - I know you know what I feel on this, so it shouldn't be a surprise 😆

Strong people started to cry for justice is really a good sign, why can't they attack and grab the respect from others? Their style is unique na?

As said here, BS is used as a tool to rile up his fans. I will ignore such people, i may answer them in my own way, but will not react to them as they expect me to do. So, they should not ever dream to get that reaction from me.

Originally posted by: Puja..

saalu, I totally understand where you're coming from, but think of it this way... In essence, what do these bashers REALLY want? In the name of "criticism", most actually just want to get under your skin, elicit a response and have their thread cross 150 pages. I just see it as counterproductive to not ignore. You're giving them exactly what they were out for in the first place - your precious time.

If we were talking business here, it's a huge loss of profit😆

I think keeping quite shows immense resilience and maturity on our part. Not to mention, it sorely hurts the egos of those so-called "critics". If you have enough faith in the actor Barun Sobti, then these trivial things should be of little concern. And Barun's reaction to his bashers was - Who are these people? 😆Now why should they have so much credibility that we feel it necessary to level the playing field w/them? I don't see a playing field to begin with.

And hell, if we're called weak for this, then I wonder how such weak fans were able to shut down a certain show for a certain actor... a certain 6 months ago 😉

Originally posted by: momma1128

My two cents.

I have no problem with ignoring posts but honestly there is a limit. The reason the forum is a powder keg is because the reason 'criticism' posts are not really any such thing. I can take someone saying an actor is unprofessional, liar etc.., I can take them saying he doesn't act well, but there is a civil and minimal level of decorum required to have a debate, which is not what those posts aim to do. That is the reason set forward by those who make them as to why can't we have them, but that is not the intention.

I am all for your rules mods,as long as the posts are not posted with the sole intent to be MALICIOUS, and those are what those posts are about. And because this forum has run out of goodwill, justifiably, any poster with criticism faces the wrath of those burned one too many times.

Any type of civil response is answered with the word fanbot, fangirl, hormonal whatever, and questioning intelligence and sexuality. How exactly then was the intent to be constructive then? The sole purpose of the posters is to use Barun as an excuse to demean his fandom. That intent is cyberbullying, isn't it?

So fine, we can be the bigger more mature people and not respond. But a person who screams, taunts and mocks, hurls insults daily and is heard is still a bully even if he doesn't ilicit a response because he contributes to a hostile environment.

People will have a problem if we are asked to tolerate without seeing any reciprocity from the other side of the equation. As I said, the goodwill and tolerance in this forum has run dry.

Sorry, 2 cents turned into 2 dollars.

lovely post

classic example of modz not doing anything, even though they were online, but still didn't close this post, while they closed some non-offensive posts about a person asking about sbs video

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3583221

Modz if you are reading plz clarify, why no action? n biased-ness towards ppl making this forum negative n preaching to change the forum to get peace? Who can't get over the past for heaves sake