Facts vs Emotions-Epilogue to IPK Journey VB:Pg 11

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Iss Pyaar ko Kya Naam Doon -- the last few days of the online vs offline frenzy can be captured aptly only by the Title of the show !!!
Have been two minds in making the post -- but doing these for all the friends who have been asking to say as the camps have been at wars...and at the state of the Forum...I have loved this Forum second to the show -- my friends used to laugh at me,coz even in the times of negativity -- I used to read each post -- I know most of the members who have been here for long -- and have made wonderful friends, some who'll last a lifetime...some whom I'll always remember...this journey of IPK got more exciting because of the "fun,laughter,madeness" at the Forum -- we fight amongst ourselves, but we fought with the world as a whole for what we all loved -- no one wanted the show to get closed -- most of us have shed tears and "isolations" -- today's SBS segments I am not sure of anyone but made me cry -- for loosing something which we all wanted to hold onto -- each one dealt it their way , so no grudges !!!
Some of us have been in IPK forum too long, before the traffic started, during the golden days of calmness and fun -- since then things have changed --- with the words "bashers" and "phann gurls" infiltrating this space -- its totally fine to have different likings and point of views - but there should at the same time be a balance and "respect" for each others' opinion -- that gives a healthy platform to discuss -- since few months IPK forum had lost it -- most of the older memebers hence moved on...
Today as we come so close to the end of the Journey -- enough has been said, done and written -- wont touch them -- people who followed and cared to know would have understood -- and people who chose to see the other side , thats again that person's opinion and totally understand that -- none of us wanted the show to close -- but then most of us didnt want another actor to replace ASR or the character's death (the only time I gave a spoilor to the forum in real sense 😆) ...I never defend or explain myself (too stubborn or rebellious) but just for few ppl who wanted to know -- https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3306448/uncovering-truths-floating-news-logic-4 clearly states DO NOT ASK for the show to be closed -- that was exactly what the main design was -- but sadly, fans (we) fell in that trap -- some people went overboard and actually gifted what was always the plan !!!!
Anyways,its all over now -- Industry is a very strange place ,as most of you all are outsiders and some unaware -- people move on fast here -- no one waits -- good work,good times are always cherished , credited -- but its a very practical world out there -- "bashing" anyone's professional choices wont make any difference -- rather respect each actor for what they gifted you with this show - beyond that no one is accountable !!
1) Don't be on the Guilt trip of taking away jobs of so many people -- A Corporate GEC has taken the decision - and its never done in a day or because of some "phann gurl's frantic phone calls -- the news was not out even to the TRP audience -- so if the show has closed down - its for the simple reason -- they knew the leads' grasp over the audience that made this show click -- for weeks they tried to sort it out with the PH -- the 3 parties couldnt come to an amicable solution -- hence the decision !!!
2) The actor has no movie in hand -- but now when he is off board -- as is the norms in this industry -- he would be getting lots of offers as he is the "toast of the town" now -- he will soon take up any thing that works feasible (it might be another TV show !!!) --- but that is no way related to the DEBACLE of IPK -- the issue there was completely different --- and the actor had given 2 months 's notice -- so if the Channel and PH were seriously in the plans of carrying the show ahead -- they should have worked the tracks accordingly to phase him out and introduce a new character - not a last week touch up shoots to make up when the news breaks out and uproar starts, In simple words -- there was NO PLANNING !!! And sadly for the Channel, they fell big time in studying their "Target Audience" and "Market nature" -- so revenue hit is their own doing !!!
3) BS IS NOT BLACKLISTED -- get that in bold and clear.. there wont be a US Trip in the plans by the channel if that was the case..also its a bigger business out there for the channel -- to let go of Sobti - if you cant get to the bottom of the mechanisms, atleast dont bash anyone with half-baked infos.
Rest , let the blame games be -- Sanaya didnt intend to sound otherwise with that comment -- they all are also going through further more emotions than people here -- BS's friends have stuck by him - the cast and crew -- if something else was the case -- none of them would have been vocal in their support -- better not to be judgemental when the main "person" is choosing to maintain his silence -- when he breaks it -- then form the "Conclusions" !!!
IPK -- has been the most beautiful journey with a fictional show I have had....same with this Forum -- I dont mind anyone labelling me as a BS fan -- I started watching the show for Sanaya -- love both of them equally -- landed on the Forums coz I wanted to know more about the show and the leads/characters -- have maintained that in my entire jounery here !!!
I am extremely emotional -- but I base my opinions on Facts - I can never "speculate" !!!
(would love if the Forum settles down calmer and "celebrate" the last episode of the show ,each member who is a part here loves in their own way -- give a fitting farewell to the show that brought all of us here together -- after that we anyways move on with heavy hearts -- some to another show, some to the "noise" of the Real world -- where we wont hear the Rabba Ves anymore...but just remember the "magic" that touched all of us for 1.5 years !!!)
"Well, here at last, dear friends, on the shores of the Sea comes the end of our fellowship in Middle-earth. Go in peace! I will not say: do not weep; for not all tears are an evil."
- J.R.R. Tolkien
The Return of the King
PS this is not my last post, I'll end the journey here with Closing Crooner.



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Edited by ~Saraa~ - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sorry...😭
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Thank u...🤗
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Posted: 12 years ago
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What a beatiful post Priya!

I agree completely, this show was cursed becuase it din't deserve this ending, even after being such a popular show its coming to an abrupr end, n the creator dint bother for the emotions of their viewers , 2 months of notice , n this could hav come to a beautiful closure!

A jodi who won so many accolades n award,,cannot be replaced at all! Viewers will not accept that easily,,this should have been a known fact

Now the Forum!! This is a cursed forum, sorry to say that!! When did we have all happy times here,,in recent past! Even when there was no actor leaving fiasco, with every little thing we had a problem!

Why Arnav did this, why khushi did that, how can CVs show that!! I am v emotional,,,but sometimes I get a thought probably we are punished for always pointing a finger on the show,the story the scrip, n ever green bashing!

I loved the ending of this article!




Edited by UltimateBarun - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thank you
What a beautiful journey
And Tolkein- so apt!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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lovely post di!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i seriously want the forum to calm down,enough of fights...
lets cherish our memories,the rabba ve
and if possible demand a season 2
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Posted: 12 years ago
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what do I say priya
this forum has become a mad place
a nightmare
some believe in media
some belive in sources
but none believe in logic which states
a show cannot shut down unless business demands it or business had planned it well
an actor cannot just suddenly create such a negative image wth fans unless he has his own compelling reasons
even if i disbeleive all the other theoriesno one can refute the logic that an actor who has been part of a role and a show for 18 months wont refuse to be a part of it for one more month
simple
neither do i refuse to believe
his character could not have been weaned away well and he cud not have been brought back for a last episode later
No way
no actor is that callous
and certainly not barun
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Posted: 12 years ago
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👍🏼 thank you for this post n Crooners always rock...😳
Edited by riyya6 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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What a beautifully mature and well balanced point of view. Thank you.

This show has had me in its spell since the last promo and the first episode. I am a SARUN fan and so pretty much in the middle of all the conflict now. I enjoyed the forum so much earlier on...now I just try to stay out of the way of the missiles😉 in the ongoing war of words.

I could not agree more regarding the 200 people who are jobless...I signed on to be entertained and bear no responsibility for corporate decisions. What the fans managed to do is to salvage the love story but no one is happy with the way it's ending...that too without BS.

I am glad Bs is not blacklisted and hope he has movies signed and if he does not, hopefully he soon will. He is a good actor and has entertained the audience with honesty. His choices are his own. It's interesting that cast is still in his corner!!

I have no idea how my world will be without this daily dose to feed my romantic soul but I will never forget the magic.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Priya 🤗 Sensible post loved it , why am I not surprised.👏 Tolkien quote perfect .







It's not where you end up that means as much
As the road that you travel along .
And it's not the result that counts as much
As the progress that makes you strong.
Since it's not a destination ...It's the journey

It's not meeting your aim that matters as much
As the course that you take day by day .
And it's not reaching your goal who you touch
As you share from your heart along the way .
Because it's not the destination ...It's the journey.

It's not the objective that's important to meet
As the trails challenge that you weather.
And it's not making the finish but who you greet
As on the highway you work together .
You see it's not the destination...It's the journey
Arlene Alpert


Can't wait for the Crooner sweetheart , I know it will be a treat .




Edited by beena14 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am going to miss your posts Priya, as much as the show itself.
I hope I get to see both Barun, Sanaya and everyone else who was part of IPK in another show soon, together or separately, does not matter; as long as we get to see them, since everyone needs to move on.
I am emotional yes, only because I am appalled at the lack of planning and attention to detail of such a global conglomerate - what kind of example is this setting? Ultimately, it is the channel that is to be held responsible - since they control what is on air, so actors, PHs apart, they should have tried better and harder. It is their loss monetarily, and unfortunate for us, we as the viewers are at the receiving end for being so attached to a show that was wonderful to say the least.


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