I don't know why, but I feel like what's happening just proves a few things to me.
a) It's a mans world, and everybody will always have to face the consequences of his (intentional or unintentional) actions, whether it's causing wars or leaving TV shows...
b) Men cause the worst kind of heartbreak. Whether it's the way Arnav married Khushi (the first time), Sanaya's heartbreak, or my heartbreak at the show ending, those blessed with the XY chromosome have potential to cause the worst kind of upset.
c) Women are each others enemies. Undeniably the forum is mainly women. Were you so deluded that you couldn't see your actions were ruining something great? Why did you feel you had the right to represent "everyone" when clearly not everyone agreed. Due to being called "bashers" and being victims of bullying, you made this "other" group succumb and forced them to agree with your authoritarian decisions pertaining to the show.
d) Men also have the ability to create calm. As women, we are socially adapted to rely on men emotionally, financially, physically etc. I was ok with Barun leaving, but I was not ok with the way he decided to leave. Even Ross and Rachel couldn't survive a "break", so how the hell would the God-like Arnav-ji? If he just came out with the truth and/or told fans he did not want them to carry on with their actions, his word would have been bible and they would have stopped. But no, apparently his eyes say more right?
What about the tears we ACTUALLY saw from Sanaya's eyes? I don't hate Barun. I don't hate men. I just hate how this situation was caused by one man (and it WAS, albeit unintentionally, so don't deny it), yet others face the worst consequences of it.