There Is a difference between selfless and DUMB - Page 12

I don't think khushi is trying to be Mahan ... that's how she is and she thinks for others before thinking about herself. That doesn't make her stupid or dumb.
As for Arnav he knows the khushi he married to ... he knew her how selfless she is even from before he fell in love with her... same way khushi knows the ASR she fell in love with and married to ... he might love her to death but unlike her he more of a practical person and sometimes hurts loved ones by being insensitive too even if he doesn't mean to ...

So they both are gonna be the same always ...the other one knows that and they'll always understand each other as to why he or she took that step ... eventually they'll come to a point where there will be no more MU ahead as they both understand their love and trust in each other and that's what love and marraige is all about ...

Originally posted by: pmgsk

I pity him too !!

Kushi is still not over the loss of her parents and thus always seeking to make life better for others. She is still a lost soul looking to belong and Arnav is the one who understands this and is slowly helping her overcome her insecurity. She doesn't want Arav to be without love of parents, she is not devious like Sheetal.

Originally posted by: Drmsnap

I don't think this is related to the topic. It's rude and neither do I find it funny.
I'm not a khushi fan , sanaya fan , ASR fan or Barun fan.
I am an IPK fan just because ...
I believe both Barun and sanaya are brilliant actors and they deserve respect for their talents.

I wish you also post this on bashers thread where they call ASR chaddi and many disgusting names.. They don't even spare Barun, commenting on his personal life..

Originally posted by: -SmileAway-

I like your approach on this, however I still am unable to digest how Khushi is handling the present situation.
If she decides to forcefully bring Aarav and Arnav - maybe even Sheetal - together in this process, I'll actually lose a lot of respect for her, because clearly she does not value her marriage that much to discuss such a big problem with her husband.
I hate how Indian serials never show communication between a married couple.

I don't have a problem with her being suspicious and hurt- that's natural - but the way she has decided to make decisions which affect Arnav and Aarav is something I do not agree with.

I'll agree with you on that. I would hate it if khushi wants to give up Arnav for Arav. That would be stupid then yes. But first of all she hasn't made any decision yet, second before she does I'm sure she will have to involve Arnav in it ...just by her stepping out Arnav is not gonna accept Arav and Sheetal ...and unlike other Indian shows ( which I do watch 😆 and I hate when they show women sacrificing ) here I'm hoping we will see some discussion.

There's a fine line between sacrifice and being selfless. Now if she wants Arnav to adopt Arav or even fulfill duty of a father just as a separated couple would do , in this case Arnav and Sheetal then that's being selfless ( she's thinking about the little boy who's not at fault ) but yes if she tells Arnav to accept Sheetal and Arav and she will go away then that's a sacrifice and that would be plain stupid ...

Originally posted by: saalu1

I wish you also post this on bashers thread where they call ASR chaddi and many disgusting names.. They don't even spare Barun, commenting on his personal life..

I'm not gonna discuss this further but I was referring to the award thing ... Name calling though I hate but that's related to fictional characters but when you talk about awards it is related to a real person. And just as I'm happy for Barun receiving all the awards I equally believe sanaya is a talented actress , deserves the award and whatever the reason be for her not receiving any awards shouldn't be turned into mockery. That's total disrespect to someone's talent. And as I said I'm not gonna discuss this further because there is no end to it... And yes I say the same wether it's for sanaya or Barun.