I hate it but I am MAD AT ARNAV - Page 2

Originally posted by: RamnVij

I agree.

And the funny part is how the CVs are not able to see the contradictions and inconsistencies they are creating in the characterizations.

Arnav was always professing that he did not like kids. Ok, it was hinted that this was a facade and actually he could be quite indulgent with children if he chose.

But there is a difference between being casually friendly or affectionate to an unrelated child on the one hand, and being extremely emotionally vested, to the extent of being a father figure, on the other.

Arnav KNOWS that Khushi is insecure about his past with Sheetal. He KNOWS that the alarming resemblance between him and Aarav is troubling his wife, to the extent that she even took a DNA test to clear her doubts regarding him being the Father.

And Yet, he has no qualms playing such a fatherly role to Aarav? Taking a day off from office to spend time teaching him basketball?? Has Arnav even taken some days off office to take his newly married (remarried) wife for a honeymoon yet?

Also, I thought he admitted, while playing the match with Sheetal, that she'd vastly improved? So why not let HER teach HER OWN son, how to play? Or is it that Arnav has now decided to resign as MD of AR Industries, to open a BB training camp? 😊

Being a Harvard educated, shaatir dimaag business tycoon, would he not understand that such 'fatherly' behavior would fuel Khushi's insecurities? He does not have to feel that these insecurities are justified. But still, he can, as a reasonable spouse, avoid fueling them??

Yesterday's interaction between Arnav and Khushi felt REALLY hollow. Here is a guy who has FINALLY been united with the woman of his dreams, after months and months of pain and misunderstanding. He had FINALLY realized just some weeks/ months back, that he LOVES her and cannot live/ breathe without her.

Does that emotion come through in any sense in the episodes these days? Arnav seems to be all "cool dude" reminiscing about his sporty, happening college fun days with Sheetal (where was the bitter, tormented soul with the dark memories? Split personality? Bipolar disorder?). And he seems all involved fatherly advice and camaraderie with Aarav.

Don't mistake me, the kid is REALLY cute. I don't say Arnav should be rude to his ex or Aarav-- after all, he's confident he can't be the father, so no need to be defensive. But it would be nice if he would just restrict the interactions to politeness and mild affection instead of all out teasing banter and emotional involvement.

Plus, its so odd that he's shown to be completely unaware of his wife's emotions and feelings. She made jalebies--a sure sign that she was stressed! But he swallows her half hearted explanation that she made them coz he won the match??

Then when she looks all disturbed after hearing his 'taking saturday off to teach Aarav Basketball' plans, he just asks her if she's really OK, and goes off to change his clothes?

This is not an anti--Arnav post or a Kushi-fanatic post. I am a fan of both characters. I am just so annoyed with the CVs for creating massive inconsistencies in the back story and character make up of the leads which makes the whole current track fall flat...

Cheers..