IP Adda - Oct 19' 2012 Second Thread - Page 41

Originally posted by: slmu

I am guessing if she decides to be mahaan... she will do it without telling anyone... everyone finds out at the last minute and Arnav says how can you do this... you are the only one etc. etc..

So been there done that track :-) kuch naya ho, u know what if its is trap, one epi kushi had said jasoos LG.also lets say asr had relation with that woman,y is he mind bells npt ringing about the child being his especaiily if he can see similarties himself nd y sud he offet woman job to work with him,if they had a past
Y is kushi seeing the similarties but not him nd y is child bumping to kushi nd asr.nd what was a woman in miniskirt doing in sabji bazar, too many questions

I have seen a real incident of this kind very recently in my family, a cousin of mine found out that her husband indeed had a daughter from his fling and was also supporting the second family. She came to know about the truth after 20 years of marriage. She was broken and shell shocked, but couldn't do anything bcoz her three children were dependent on the father. When the incident was brought infront the family, some of the elders were saying that she should not leave the marriage bcoz of the kids and also the husband is taking good care of her. In India these are very common, very rare cases that women take a stance and ask for divorce. Indian laws are also not too favourable to women and the biggest reason to stick on in the marriage is social stigma and financial dependency.

Originally posted by: tajygl

I have seen a real incident of this kind very recently in my family, a cousin of mine found out that her husband indeed had a daughter from his fling and was alsosupporting the second family. She came to know about the truth after 20 years of marriage. She was broken and shell shocked, but couldn't do anything bcoz herthree children were dependent on the father.

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When the incident was brought infront the family, some of the elders were saying that she should not leave the marriage bcoz of the kids and also the husband is taking good care of her. In India these are very common, very rare cases that women take a stance and ask for divorce. Indian laws are also not too favourable to women and the biggest reason to stick on in the marriage is social stigma and financial dependency.

I really feel very bad when I think of my cousin

Sorry to hear that but did her husband had the fling before he was married or after the marriage

Originally posted by: Hkrajan

Sorry to hear that but did her husband had the fling before he was married or after the marriage

before he married and manged keep it a secret for 20 years

Originally posted by: tajygl

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Hmm he should have been honest enough to own up, see fling before marraige is ok, but the fact he hid was wrong

Originally posted by: tajygl

<div></div>before he married and manged keep it a secret for 20 years

How can he do like that?it is very wrong na wat abou ur cousin? Wat about her future

K ladies time fpr me to sleep, gudnite

Originally posted by: Hkrajan

Hmm he should have been honest enough to own up, see fling before marraige is ok, but the fact he hid was wrong

referring to the above scenario, Khushi might become mahan and try to bring Sheetal and Arnav together, this is typical TRP audience kind of masala, may be ASR is the one who will get things in order.

Originally posted by: Marym

How can he do like that?it is very wrong na wat abou ur cousin? Wat about her future

Sorry to comment on ur personal matter.

Originally posted by: Marym

How can he do like that?it is very wrong na wat abou ur cousin? Wat about her future

She has grown up kids, studying and she is not highly qualified, so she comprimised iwth life and living with the same man who breached her trust.