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I saw few posts today which suggested about new girl being classy .😆
Now let me ask you...what is classy?
How can you judge someone in 2minutrs...
What makes her classy?😕
Because she wears a miniskirt & because she can speak English...
Or because she shouted at Khushi even before getting to know complete facts?
A lady who doesn't speak politely is classy...
I mean why???
Miniskirt ...
English speaking abilities ...
No mannerisms...
Is this what you call classy?😲
I can't judge that lady if she is classy or not.
I don't know yet...
But somehow some people are declaring her classy by first 2 minutes impression.
So it surprises me...
It saddens me too.
In our country we think people who speak English are somehow smarter than people who aren't good at it.
why?
English is just a foreign language...right?
Like Spanish,Chinese,French...etc...
Miniskirt,jeans are just clothing items.
So why this bias?
My Frds in here are surprised that when two Indians meet they even though know hindi...will conversate in English.
One day my frd said" both of you know Hindi" ...right?
You are both from north part of india...right?
Then I said in my mind " you won't get it buddy...speaking English in India is a status symbol."
I mean Speaking foreign languages,getting to know other cultures is a very productive thing.
After living abroad for so many years..this experience has certainly introduced me to new thought process,new foods,new cultures & new ideas.
I am always amazed at these biases we desi people harbour against our own people.
How can someone wearing a saree or a salwaar kameez be less classy than a girl in miniskirt?
When Indra nooyi goes to Pepsi office she might wear her suits.
But I have seen her pictures With mr.Buffet &articles of "ufff...Indra nooyi & her her pretty sarees"...
So just because she wears saree ...makes her traditional or somehow less smart ,less classy😲
I have no idea how new character wil lbe shown.
sorry judging someone by English speaking abilities or miniskirt is as childish as it can get.
A person wearing salwaar kameez can be very modern too.
A person wearing miniskirt might not easily accept live in relationships that easily...
In this forum people who call themselves modern,young & hip,educated ...are the first ones to question how can SI have so many girl fans?😲
Fans who call KKg classless,traditional are themselves harbouring bias against other fans. BEcause they adore an actress.
So this is the irony...it's shocking to say the least.
It all depends on your thoughts,your upbringing & how you change over the years.
How you evolve as a person or as a human being.
A person's class should be defined by how great a human he or she is..
Not by how the person looks,which language that person can speak or which brands the person uses...
It's that simple.
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