hello hi arshians...😃
this post is for the true fans of ipkknd...
this show is totally different from other shows
want to know the reasons?
here it is...
first of all it's a love-hate romantic comdey! not a typical sp drama full of rona dhona!
second any normal person can put themselves in the shoes of the characters...
khushi- she is what any normal girl is...real people do goof up...they are funny...they are not the perfect daughter-in-laws that are depicted in other typical melodramatic serials!
Arnav- this character is unique but yet there are 100's out there who can relate to his character...
he loves as well as hates passionately!
arnav was bashed...why? because he hurt khushi...yes he did...but did everyone forget to see that it caused him even more pain hurting her?
as the saying goes " see it to believe it!" and what arnav witnessed on the terrace was not easy he was broken...anyone in his place would have thought the same thing!
just imagine your going to propose to your loved one and what do you see...that person being hugged by someone else who is telling him/her that he/she loves that person? what would you do in this situation? have the presence of mind to talk it out?????? wouldn't you be absolutely broken?
yes i agree arnav should have spoken to her...but he is human too...he was harsh but was it easy for him...
khushi was not the only one who suffered...he suffered too...
he is the same arnav who saved preetika's wedding and he doesn't respect women few say!
ipkknd is not just a typical show for housewives or aunties...it is a show with a youthful touch...its a show for all age groups...my one and a half year old niece watches ipk as well as my 80 yr old grandma!
ipkknd has also played a therapeutic role in the lives of many...(my icgians will agree to this one)
it has made a special place in all our hearts...
coming to the feminists on this forum...your not the only girl...most of us here are too...
ipkknd has never shown any gender biased...so why do people say khushi should keep her dignity!!
yes she should but have you all forgotten din't arnav help her with that?
khushi did not want to ask arnav for money, she wanted to earn it...why? because of her self respect...who helped her?
arnav!
he asked her to work for him for a day...he made sure she stayed up all night...he took out the cup from the gift packages and made her pack them again...why?
because he wanted khushi to feel she earned it...as a result din't she tell him in the morning when she collected the money that she had earned it herself with her hard work!!!
he hurt her yes but he was in equal pain...is it easy to hurt someone you love intentionally? well arnav wanted to love her and cherish her but he could not forget the terrace scene...
why aren't other characters in other shows bashed! those men who intentionally ill treat their wives...hate them...misbehave with them and hurt them!...then no one stands up for the girl...all just wish that the boy should have a change of heart and fall in love...
arnav was already in love damn it!
khushi is depicted as a strong and independent woman...she can earn a living herself...she endured all the hardships arnav put her through...she is a fighter...
in how many shows have you seen the lead working? in most of the serials we see a typical housewife and an ideal bahu...how many of you can relate to such a character?
well most of us aren't that perfect...in the same way khushi isn't perfect too...but her imperfections are perfect...at least she is human and not a goddess from heaven!
khushi even started her own business...her dabba service because she wanted to repay arnav...which lead actress has ever done that?
ipkknd is just mindless comedy some say...why is it harmful to laugh?
everyone needs to laugh...it's good for health!
is your life so perfect that you don't need to laugh?
laugh a little more...will it kill you?
ok so some don't want mindless comedy...then should we ask for melodrama?
when that happens...again people want it to end soon...its annoying, its getting on everyone's nerves...
yes sometimes it does! but if we don't want even a little bit of melodrama then what do we want?
perhaps some romance?
then we get the romance...and we also get to see posts like there is no story only romance...they shouldn't show this and they shouldn't show that!
all right guys then what exactly do we want to see????
no drama, no mindless comedy, no romance, no villian, etc then what exactly is left???????????
maybe the forum should decide that first!
one epi and arnav is bashed!
next epi khushi is bashed!
then it becomes team arnav and team khushi...ok who wins???????
well they are a couple in love who want to be by each other come what may!
we are supposed to be arshians damnit ! we want arnav and khushi together always!!!
khushi isn't perfect for arnav?? really then may i know who is?
arnav isn't perfect for khushi...shyam is better!
please may i know how?
both arnav and khushi have had tragic pasts...
khushi's past has turned her into an happy go lucky, fun loving girl...she hides her pain through her smiles...she makes sure everyone around is happy...
arnav's past had turned him into stone...he was restless and scared to accept his love for khushi...he had created a wall around himself and khushi dared to enter the forbidden territory...
khushi loves her laad governor just the way he is! she loved him even before he could realise his love for her...
they are made for each other!
her bubbly character and stupid, silly cute antics is what he finds amusing...he loves her for it because he hasn't lived his life to the fullest...he lives it through her...she makes him laugh with her craziness and thats what he loves...he loves the pagal but cute khushi!!!!!
khushi loves her khadoos laad governor! because she is so soft she needs a hard stone like him to be by her side...even through all the hate she always found her strength and comfort in his arms...
remember the hospital hug? remember when she cried on his shoulder when she learned shyams truth!
he is her strong pillar of strength...
she does not want him to change then who are we???????????????
khushi kumari gupta singh raizada and arnav singh raizada complement each other...
one is the life and the other is the breath!
their personalities complement each other and thats how it should be...
like the saying goes
do not expect your partner to be exactly like you as you cannot hold their right hand in your right hand to walk together...
its a small request please think twice before you posting a bashing post...it does make the negativity in the forum increase..and this is the case only with ipk forum...it is a public forum and you have all the rights to voice your opinions just like how i am voicing mine...but please just think twice...
stop bashing, stop cribbing, instead just enjoy the show...laugh at the comedy, drool over the romance, cry with the drama, and smile through the show...just have fun and enjoy the so called imperfections of the perfect show!
its an entertaining show not a reality check...so don't sit with a negative mindset...its after all just fiction...enjoy it like you enjoy your novels...
when reality bites, fiction heals!!
note: this is not a bashing post and i do not intend to hurt anybody...
no offence please...
Edited by ASRHOTNEZ - 12 years ago
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