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Posted: 12 years ago
Rashmi di I'm sorry but I disagree.

I know he cares for khushi. I know he loves her but he has failed to save the dignity of his wife. We saw Shyam revelation 2 times on the show..didn't we? Now here is what he did for his Di & his wife both the times:

1. /When shyam was exposed first time, Arnav gave blank expressions as if he didn't understand anything, as if he didn't know about anything. He allowed khushi to speak & reveal everything, didn't even support her while she was shouting her lungs out. He didn't say anything when Shyam accused khushi saying that she was hitting on him. I don't think it was justified..was it? You tell me.

2. He supported his Di throughout the second revelation, he held he, hugged her, felt her pain, cried for her. But when shyam said bad things about khushi, he said nothing. He just gave blank expressions. Why? Loving you sister is one thing, I know Anjali is his first priority but what about khushi? He never says anything in defense of khushi when people call her characterless & cheap. No wife would want such a treatment from her husband. Would she?

Just my POV, no offence to anybody. I'm a diehard ASR fan but I can't support him for this :(
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ...Doctor...

Rashmi di I'm sorry but I disagree.


I know he cares for khushi. I know he loves her but he has failed to save the dignity of his wife. We saw Shyam revelation 2 times on the show..didn't we? Now here is what he did for his Di & his wife both the times:

1. /When shyam was exposed first time, he gave blank expressions as if he didn't understand anything, as if he didn't know about anything. He allowed khushi to speak & reveal everything, didn't even support her while she was shouting her lungs out. He didn't say anything when Shyam accused khushi saying that she was hitting on him. I don't think it was justified..was it? You tell me.

2. He supported his Di throughout the second revelation, he held he, hugged her, felt her pain, cried for her. But when shyam said bad things about khushi, he said nothing. He just gave blank expressions. Why? Loving you sister is one thing, I know Anjali is his first priority but what about khushi? He never says anything in defense of khushi when people call her characterless & cheap. No wife would want such a treatment from her husband. Would she?

Just my POV, no offence to anybody. I'm a diehard ASR fan but I can't support him for this :(



Just one answer to all he wanted his di to stand against shyam. If he wud have done, what will be his di's reaction...exactly the opposite. Sometimes silence is done just to prove ur pov. That is the situation.

Regarding last time when she was crying her heart out wasn't he come and slapped him at the end. Ye meri di ke liye aur ye meri patni ke liya. Spineless is a big word dear which totally misfits ASR.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rushshri



Just one answer to all he wanted his di to stand against shyam. If he wud have done, what will be his di's reaction...exactly the opposite. Sometimes silence is done just to prove ur pov. That is the situation.

Regarding last time when she was crying her heart out wasn't he come and slapped him at the end. Ye meri di ke liye aur ye meri patni ke liya. Spineless is a big word dear which totally misfits ASR.

Well answered..👏
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Sunshine80

Rashmi..hope I can call u this😳

Thanks for ur post and me too in love with spineless ASR and I am proud to be his so called phangal😃


No matter what all say he stood by Khushi alwayzz and he will in future too. 😳

There was some issue with editing I believe yesterday as same clip of ASR had been shown again and again and there was also BD too...as most of the time ASR expressions remained same 😕and all others were changing. So when there was no change in expression of him when Shyam was saying abt Khushi, I also felt something was a miss...but I feel it was more an editing issue and CVs not catching the same😳

How much we go and say we cannot change others POV abt ASR..so saying that I am resting my case and I love my spineless ASR




@ red loved ur lines
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rushshri



Just one answer to all he wanted his di to stand against shyam. If he wud have done, what will be his di's reaction...exactly the opposite. Sometimes silence is done just to prove ur pov. That is the situation.

Regarding last time when she was crying her heart out wasn't he come and slapped him at the end. Ye meri di ke liye aur ye meri patni ke liya. Spineless is a big word dear which totally misfits ASR.


I never said Arnav is spineless coz no he's not. I'm just saying that he is far too caring for his di.
Yes yesterday was Anjali's day but he could have said something in defense of khushi, anjali could deal with the rest. And a single slap doesn't justify his behavior with khushi. We all know how he treated khushi after marriage.

Honestly tell me if your husband does this to you wouldn't you feel bad about it? Khushi is a strong girl, she doesn't say anything but it's not fair to treat her like that, to take her for granted.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: riti4u

😊 It is the way to look at things from perspective of what appeals to us...I relate more to Arnav honestly so my views are from that perspective...Indeed no one is perfect dear and this fiction is totally love story of real people...- real flawed individuals...😊
You can call me riti...


Honestly I don't relate to any of these fictional characters at all 😆 I just watch this show cuz I love Sobti, Karan and Sanaya. More towards the two lads

As much as I love Nannav and despite my sadistic pleasure in watching him in ASR mode, I believe that men who ill-treat women regardless to their reasons are spineless creatures. It's just my belief and I don't expect anybody to agree with me on this one

Anyways it's nice to meet you Riti!! Call me Nadz
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ...Doctor...


I never said Arnav is spineless coz no he's not. I'm just saying that he is far too caring for his di.
Yes yesterday was Anjali's day but he could have said something in defense of khushi, anjali could deal with the rest. And a single slap doesn't justify his behavior with khushi. We all know how he treated khushi after marriage.

Honestly tell me if your husband does this to you wouldn't you feel bad about it? Khushi is a strong girl, she doesn't say anything but it's not fair to treat her like that, to take her for granted.



Tell me darling, if ur marriage is happened because of some circumstantial hatred, how will u treat ur spouse. He didn't physically tortured her yeah emotional, I agree. But at the same time cv's have shown him going through the same pain. U remember he used to see shyam with Khushi how he used to feel.

He has married her forgiving her mother, was it not a gesture of him giving her importance above everythg when his whole family is ready to accept any decisions. What more king of love gesture a man show. Have u forgotten the incidence when he grabbed shyam's neck when he just uttered word khushi. Was it a spineless act???? His di confidence was more imp. He stopped nani yesterday "Di ko karne dijiye". he just want Anjali to come out of it and he was successful. Regarding Khushi, he knows nobody will believe him in the family so he just stood there.

Just try to understand the depth of the seriousness of the issue of yesterday's epi ignoring all thgs which is just bubbling up to distract you, u'll understand what I want to say.



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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rushshri



Nadz bade din baad darshan diye tune, monsi se shadi kar li hai kya. 😆

Chal nothg from my side on ur pov. I know you love the character as I do. Yes!!!! at the end of the day it's fiction. Glad u are taking it that way. 😳 Btw jalebiyan banayi kya???? 😆


Sorry my Hindi language skills aren't that great Rush so I didn't quite catch what you said in Hindi

Like I told Riti, despite my love for Nannav's character I find men as spineless weirdos who ill-treat women. For me Nannav is one imperfect guy. That's why I disagree with your post this time and stated my pov here
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Posted: 12 years ago
I love IPK because of the brilliant acting of Barun and Sanaya.
I'm not a ASR or khushi fan. They're just fictional characters for me who talk , act according to the story , CVs , directors...

But yes yesterday I was disappointed. They should have shown atleast some changes in his expressions when once again Shyam was telling her characterless. Atleast anger on his face. He had just single expression thru out the whole scene. Normally I love Baruns acting because of his expressions. I didn't see that range of expressions yesterday which he's capable of. I don't know if that's the actors fault, directors fault, or editing or the script ...

For khushi's character I was disappointed that they again had her beg di not to believe that creep. Why ? When she ran up I thought she will slap him or atleast push him away and confront him.

They left so many loop holes open in Shyam revelation. What about khushi's father and what he did to khushi ... he should have said all that too ...

So overall I wouldn't defend or accuse any of the fictional characters but the Cvs haven't done a good job all together for the whole track. It felt like they just wanted to get it over with...
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Posted: 12 years ago
The problem is that in every episode he has to show his spine

Anyways, good post

Good Pictorial analysis

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