I sincerely believe these type of Posts "putting words in an actors mouth and projecting our feelings of hurt as his hurt" does more damage to the actor than any sort of negative criticism can.
He has in many interviews mentioned he is jarred when he sees famel fans wanting to touch him etc. But has that stopped any of the feamles here writing absoultely anything about what they want to do to him. They are considered positive posts and you think, he gets happy seeing how teenagers and mature ladies are describing his ass, his muscles and writing in as sexual as possible what they want to do to him? How come there is no uproar from you to stop that kind of posts.
Many a stars including the great Amitabh have been panned mercilessly by fans and critics for acting in some of his recent movies. Do you think he is sitting and crying and sad. Tomorrow when Baruns movie comes out, people including critics, some will pan him and lot of them may praise him. Do you think he will stop acting, because he sees negative reviews about his acting and his movie debut.
When you take up a public profession and you are putting yourself out there to be objectifies, written about, praised and skewered, you do it with full knowledge of what you are getting into.
Fans telling others he is feeling sad reading about him, makes him look like someone who cannot handle all the benefits and brick bats that come with stardom.
So if one is a true fan, they should stop making posts saying things which he never said out loud to any media or never mentioned any of his feelings out to the media.
Even if he did say it to someone on the sets, he told that in confidence, not to get it published on forums and make him look like someone who cannot handle negative things and only want positive things.
I just wish, so called fans, stop and think and see how these type of sorry post will be more embarassing to him, far more than any negative posts will ever do.
I am not going to post this anywhere else, as I dont think anyone else other than my friends will understand or appreciate this.
Edited by stafhtad - 13 years ago
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