Anjali Vs Khushi: A study in Contrast

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Kookiemonster

@Kookiemonster

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Posted: 13 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: rima

My question is...ASR and Anjali..both are orphans..Anjali is older than ASR..As an older sis myself..I know that in tough situation..elders stand by younger siblings!!That's the norm..But it got reversed here..ASR became the protector..And Anjali the taker...!!😕

that is something i always wondered. i have an elder bro and he has always been the one who has taken the lead

Sampin, I quite agree with you.

Rima and you have reflected my sentiments.

I have three brothers.

Two of them are older and the other one is my Twin.

My Twin and I share a lovely bond with each other because we really cant help it, We are twins.

Despite being the youngest of all , my siblings never babied me.

I was treated like a equal and they taught me to be tough and focused in my life.

We always learn from our elder siblings ,they are always our rock.

But in Anjali's case, I fail to understand how a grown women can behave like this?

She had a moral obligation and responsibility as a sister to guide her brother and always be a support system for her.

But what has she done?

All she does is clinging.

She clings to her god.

She clings to her husband.

She clings to her brother.

No man likes a woman like that.

Clinging women are pathetic and spineless.

Arnav has always been the one to protect Anjali from all , For once I would have liked Anjali to be the protector, but I don't think so that is going to happen ever on this show.

Anjali is weak and a wimp and I dislike women like her who cant face the reality in life and stand up for their own life.

ASR will be crushed when he will get to know what his holier than thou Di has been doing behind his back.

She is such a stigma in the name of a sibling.

My words might be harsh but they are not false.

It just makes me so mad when I see women like her who are so happy living in their own LaLa land that they refuse to see what is the reality of their life.

I think a rift between siblings is on our way, but I really can't say much.

IPKKND is unpredictable.

We have to keep watching.

Edited by kookie2020 - 13 years ago

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Fuj

@-ElmoFuj-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: rima

that is why asr's change feels so good.

khushi finally got her due in life

that is why it makes us tense if she will be hurt again, because this girl never complains

and anjali already received a reality check when her husband was revealed

but it did not work

So true. Fnally khushi is getting what she deserves.

Anjali on the other hand is just not dragging herself intro trouble but also everyone who loves her. And shes not least bothered to even TRY to find out the truth or suspect him.

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rima

@rima

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Posted: 13 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: kookie2020

that is something i always wondered. i have an elder bro and he has always been the one who has taken the lead

Sampin, I quite agree with you.

Rima and you have reflected my sentiments.

I have three brothers.

Two of them are older and the other one is my Twin.

My Twin and I share a lovely bond with each other because we really cant help it, We are twins.

Despite being the youngest of all , my siblings never babied me.

I was treated like a equal and they taught me to be tough and focused in my life.

We always learn from our elder siblings ,they are always our rock.

But in Anjali's case, I fail to understand how an a grown women behave like this?

She had a moral obligation and responsibility as a sister to guide her brother and always be a support system for her.

But what has she done?

All she does is clinging.

She clings to her god.

She clings to her husband.

She clings to her brother.

No man likes a woman like that.

Clinging women are pathetic and spineless.

Arnav has always been the one to protect Anjali from all , For once I would have liked Anjali to be the protector, but I don't think so that is going to happen ever on this show.

Anjali is weak and a wimp and I dislike women like her who cant face the reality in life and stand up for their own life.

ASR will be crushed when he will get to know what his holier than thou Di has been doing behind his back.

She is such a stigma in the name of a sibling.

My words might be harsh but they are not false.

It just makes me so mad when I see women like her who are so happy living in their own LaLa land that they refuse to see what is the reality of their life.

I think a rift between siblings is on our way, but I really can't say much.

IPKKND is unpredictable.

We have to keep watching.

kookie. precisely

like your family Ihave a close buddy's family

my buddies are twins (the guy s my NK type fiend) and they have 3 elder siblings all of whom give the guidance and never baby their younger siblings

here ASR is babying his elder sibling which is what made anji weak

she defenitely is being ruined as a character

how she can betray her brother, use his money and still grudge him his happiness is beyond my wildest dreams

a rift between the siblings is what I want to see. i want to see asr rise up to his di for once. why is it always khushi?

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rima

@rima

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Posted: 13 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: Fan_ipkknd1

So true. Fnally khushi is getting what she deserves.

Anjali on the other hand is just not dragging herself intro trouble but also everyone who loves her. And shes not least bothered to even TRY to find out the truth or suspect him.

her not trying is the saddest part

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vijji12

@vijji12

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Posted: 13 years ago

#45

rima gud post again.but i am late again.sachi mein forum is one spinning mechaine

coming to Anjali and khushi we cant even compare each other

i feel Anjali is not dumb she is selifish .she wants sympathy from everyone ,she wants everyone 's attention.where as khushi never entertains sympathy even the most difficult state of he life.she even never sympathised her situation.when she was married to Arnav in temple.
the first dailouge she said'whatever happend is happend we cant change it' that is khushi.she never tries to runaway from reality,she accepts it and finds some happyness in that situation and lives with it.

coming to Anjali she is spolit to the core by RM wasis.we dont know what happend to her in the past but i feel she is taking advantage of her past to blackmail everyone.she is capable of cheating that is very evident from yesterday episode.i would have appreciated her if she fights with Arnav for shyam.but again she is doing everything in that innocent mask again. unless and untill Arnav stops giving that Queen status to her and make her accept the reality by telling her full truth .she will live in that La La land. why doesnt she leave RM and stay with shyam if she really wants him back.she is not confident that she will be happy with him.

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Kookiemonster

@Kookiemonster

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#46

kookie. precisely

like your family Ihave a close buddy's family

my buddies are twins (the guy s my NK type fiend) and they have 3 elder siblings all of whom give the guidance and never baby their younger siblings

here ASR is babying his elder sibling which is what made anji weak

she defenitely is being ruined as a character

how she can betray her brother, use his money and still grudge him his happiness is beyond my wildest dreams

a rift between the siblings is what I want to see. i want to see asr rise up to his di for once. why is it always khushi?

This is the worst part Rima.

She has been living off her brother for so long.

She has no job, she just lives like a queen in RM and throws her weight around.

Initially when Anjali was introduced in the show , the makers gave us a feeling that she lives with her brother's family temporarily when her husband goes off for his business trips.

But she never went back to live with her husband instead her husband also started living in the same house and the family has no issues because they babied her so much.

What kind of freeloading is that?

She has no qualms about spending her bro's money like that.

Her brother had full faith in her that she will trust his words against Shyam , but she threw caution to the wind and started meeting Shyam secretly.

Now where has that loyalty gone?

When ASR was trying to work up on his rocky marriage then she threw such a huge tantrum wailing and crying like a toddler that ASR does not loves her anymore and all.

Now what happened to all that crap talk of love between the siblings?

Why is Anjali cheating on Arnav?

The same man who has given up so much for his sister.

Now that same sister is betraying him in the worst way.

Anjali's character is now ruined beyond repair.

I demand a redemption from Anjali.

Edited by kookie2020 - 13 years ago

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Shweta

@Sunset90

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Posted: 13 years ago

#47

Nice study!!

Khushi is the epitome of optimism... I get inspired by her at times!

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bavaaa

@bavaaa

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Posted: 13 years ago

#48

wow its a lovely and inspiring post. got a lession from ipkknd and ur post tat attitude matters in life. tank u for the analysis

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Akanksha-

@Akanksha-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#49

Wow Rima what a wonderful post👍🏼 I just loved it😃
Harshita, Velangini, Kookie awesome posts yaar. You guys said everything so perfectly and there is nothing to add more😛
I want to share my experience here. We are three sisters and a youngest brother. Since he is the youngest he is pampered a lot by all of us😛 But I tell you, I will be always shocked by seeing the maturity, understanding nature of him from very young age.
Now I dont even want to start on Anjali, just the thought about her makes my blood boil. I can never stand such double standard, hypocrite, pathetic, selfish woman who sucks her brother for aash aur aaram😡
Khushi lives for others and finds happiness in making others happy. But Anjali, she lives for herself, she believes if Im not happy no one around should be happy.

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Akanksha-

@Akanksha-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: rima

Sampin, I quite agree with you.
Rima and you have reflected my sentiments.
I have three brothers.
Two of them are older and the other one is my Twin.
My Twin and I share a lovely bond with each other because we really cant help it, We are twins.
Despite being the youngest of all , my siblings never babied me.
I was treated like a equal and they taught me to be tough and focused in my life.
We always learn from our elder siblings ,they are always our rock.
But in Anjali's case, I fail to understand how an a grown women behave like this?
She had a moral obligation and responsibility as a sister to guide her brother and always be a support system for her.
But what has she done?
All she does is clinging.
She clings to her god.
She clings to her husband.
She clings to her brother.
No man likes a woman like that.
Clinging women are pathetic and spineless.
Arnav has always been the one to protect Anjali from all , For once I would have liked Anjali to be the protector, but I don't think so that is going to happen ever on this show.
Anjali is weak and a wimp and I dislike women like her who cant face the reality in life and stand up for their own life.
ASR will be crushed when he will get to know what his holier than thou Di has been doing behind his back.
She is such a stigma in the name of a sibling.
My words might be harsh but they are not false.
It just makes me so mad when I see women like her who are so happy living in their own LaLa land that they refuse to see what is the reality of their life.
I think a rift between siblings is on our way, but I really can't say much.
IPKKND is unpredictable.
We have to keep watching.

kookie. precisely

like your family Ihave a close buddy's family

my buddies are twins (the guy s my NK type fiend) and they have 3 elder siblings all of whom give the guidance and never baby their younger siblings

here ASR is babying his elder sibling which is what made anji weak

she defenitely is being ruined as a character

how she can betray her brother, use his money and still grudge him his happiness is beyond my wildest dreams

a rift between the siblings is what I want to see. i want to see asr rise up to his di for once. why is it always khushi?

@ bold, Rima even I want the same and I mentioned about the same in some post yesterday. At this point, I want Arnav to see the selfess love of Khushi and for once, atleast once want to hear Arnav saying Khushi is the most important in his life