I started watching IPK from the epi where Arnav's engagement broke with lavanya and nani asking her to dance and she dance with kushi.Then it become a habit ...then an addiction , as i watched all the epis from beginning(thanks to all uploaders) in YT,without a break and sleep.
Sometimes Kushi reminded me of myself and ASR of my hubby.Not the hate/love part,but the characterisation of both of them,as i'm talkative,always thinking abt others... eventhough they hurt me,i don't mind helping them.But My husband is very much like ASR ,always short tempered,throwing away things,always arrogant,and business man ... an engineer by profession. I want to share something spl with u all.
When Dadi said that there will be no shagun sending or any marriage,ASR went to kushi's home ...just like my hubby came to my home.
Ours was a love marriage with so many controversies as his parents is adamant to not accept me as their Bahu.They send some relatives to our house just to insult us ...exactly like Dadi did and in return my family also told them that they won't allow this marriage to happen( there was no caste barriers,no status difference).And i was crying like Kushi and then the most beautiful moment happened in my life .Until then he confessed his love to me only.that evening he came to my home and told my parents and relatives that he wants to talk to me & he got refusal frm everybody.Then he called me and when i came out frm my room,he told me looking into my eyes
that - "I don't care wat everybody thinks or wants,i don't care if our parents agree for this relation,but I do care abt u and only u.U R mine and if i'm going to marry any body thats U and if u r going to marry anybody thats me...becoz i luv u,don't be afraid and be positive .I will came for u.and he walked out.
And after two weeks i got married to him at our church..and it is going to be 15 years..since thn... he stands by me ...with me and for me...we r blessed with 2 kids...happy family..
I know this is my story..real one..and just want to share with u all How I was overwhelmed with joy ..sorrow..its was a mixd feeling...and i luved it..and has got tears in my eyes...when i saw the epi...😃
And I luv IPKKND... Hope Kushi and Arnav live happily ever after...😆👏
First I thank each one of u who congratulated me and be happy for me.Thanks yaar..👏
Some times I think I'm blessed with a perfect family and i know it is perfect.
But the life we started was so horrible and painful.
His parents eventhough they are now residing with us ,don't let any oppurtunity to waste to insult us both at each and every functions ...,No no..not by words but by deedsJust like IPKKND
.But when he asked me if i wud object to get them with us in our home,isaid as an only son it is his duty to look after them,and hence they are with us
I don't care as my hubby knows me very well and he protects me if my MIL makes some issues.
So when ASR said KUSHI meri pathni hain woh is ghar mein kuch bhi kar sakthe hain...He reminds me of my hubby.
.But just like IPKKND,every time my MIL accuses something,my hubby wiil be present.na jaane kahan se tapak the hein???
Our life has got more drama than a serial,with lot of tragedy,romance and emotional scenes.
I came to know the intensity of his luv when I 'm 5 months pregnant and had an attack of Brain fever,It was tragic situation for him(not for me as i'm unconscious for 10 days,don't know how he lived thru this) ...but doctor told him to talk to me eventhough i'm unconscious.He talked to me,i didn't hear it ...but when i gained conscious,duty nurse told me about this... how he cried ,and want me back,want to live with our child and how he begged me to come back so that he can have a peaceful life...with me...Then I know He loves me for sure and i"m blessed...eventhough he hurts me sometimes he luvs me more than anything in his life..and that is more than enough..
But i teases him saying -- " dear ,,,,u lost ur chance with a good sweet ,beautiful wife,when u saved ME from that damn brain fever..If i died thn u cud hav married again right???"now for this whole life I'm not going to spare U,,poor boy" He will be like ASR and glare at me ,,,trying to control his anger and i will wink at him.😆😉
Edited by deepterence - 13 years ago