Hello and a lovely morning ladies! It is lovely here, a mix of sunshine and clouds!
Before I gallop off, I wanted to share a few thoughts I had yesterday when I watched and said to Lalita and Annie...I felt quite moved in a nice way, after a long time.You shouldn't look a gift horse in the mouth, so will not complain too much about Arnav's apology, although would have liked him to have a flash back of how he turned her out in the cold and made her sleep on the floor, how he said that her parents were better off dead...but at least we got something!I rarely speak in support of ASR in recent times, but watching yesterday, (and if we leave the issue of the contract on the side table, as both the CVs and the characters seem to have done), I find ASR genuinely believes that Mangal sutra and maang me sindoor are enough for marriage, that is THE reason he genuinely believes that he and Khushi are married and is struggling to accept that more rituals are needed to complete the process! In his heart he has accepted that Khushi is his wife...And come to think of it, even registered marriages with just a garland around the neck are legal and binding. But he is going through the whole procedure for Khushi and the families' sake. Certainly the personal apology is not enough and I hope he will have the decency and integrity to own up in front of every body, it will not diminish him, but rather elevate him in the eyes of the entire universe!As regards ASR's advances towards Khushi, we damned him that he had ice water in his veins when he was seemingly indifferent to get cosy with Khushi all this time, and now that he is giving us proof that there is indeed blood running in his veins, we are damning him again!! Of course I dont support him forcing himself on her but what is wrong if he finds her attractive enough to devour, she is attracted to him as well, and he did stop when she told him to. Although I personally much prefer watching a heart to heart like what we will hopefully get to watch today, compared to the ridiculous SR scenes on Monday. Once again I can only be impressed by the immense talent BS and SI have in emoting without words!My heart is full of trepidation though, as gauging from Garima's reaction upon seeing Arnav's daadi, she knows who the lady is and she was literally shaking from fear or some other extreme reaction and the way she hid herself until daadi was gone and the way she slapped Khushi when she was talking about Arnav's mum committing suicide, I feel there is some horrific horrendous issue that links Khushi and Arnav's past which is known to Garima and also to Daadi, and that is the actual reason for Daadi's objection to khushi, not because she is not rich or because she mistook Khushi for a servant, but she actually recognised Khushi!!! May be Arnav,s mum is not actually dead but that is the story he and Anjali have been told?So I have a feeling of immense dread that either this wedding will not happen, or even if it happens, their past will prevent them coming together any time soon.Lastlly, I noticed how 'hard' a certain someone was trying to prove herself an exceptional actress by being overjoyed that Buaji had agreed! She looked Exceptionally Constipated!Phew, a long post. But I needed to say it as I will be taking a break from the forum for the next several weeks, inundated with work for the next week and then I leave for my annual pilgrimage to India, on 24th where I will be travelling and will not have frequent access to internet but will still try and log in now and again and read and like all the wonderful discussions! I shall be back in dear old Blighty late on 16th September.So to all my hommies, cheerio! Love you all and shall miss you!🤗Keep having fun.In typical phan speak, Barun and Sanaya rock! And if they show ASR getting angry with Khushi again, let me warn them, I am in Mumbai on 14th and 15th September!
Strong women do not necessarily approach stridently. Some slip in silently, yet conquer utterly! And here is one such woman we all know as Manju.