An Answer to those who still seek Redemption!! - Page 4

Originally posted by: Omoraboti

My husband has never said sorry to me in 6 years .. and i do not bother ..

It is easy to say "sorry" than prove you are sorry through your action .. i prefer it that way.

@ riti,

Thanks for the post. Thats what we have been harping. I am not looking for a cliched redemption. Been there done that in numerous soaps which I don't even watch. I love sorry in actions rather than words which carry no meaning.

it is just my view that arnav has already redeemed himself for every wrong he has done it till now and yes sometimes word "Sorry" is not able to do what our actions can do specially for our loved ones...------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Absolutely agree.

Originally posted by: mpk2011

@ riti,

hey dear, what prompted u to write this post 😊, nevertheless it is a very nice and well written post.

As far as my views r concerned, well u know it very well, don't u ?

If we actually start up with 'redemptionwa' then definitely ASR won't be the only one standing at the windows of 'redemption counter', there would be many more.😉

What I want or u want or anybody else other than the cvs and ph wants is immaterial coz we can't control the storyline !! And yeah even for the cvs or ph it is practically impossible to cater the choices and wishes of each and every viewer!!

Originally posted by: Omoraboti

My husband has never said sorry to me in 6 years .. and i do not bother ..

It is easy to say "sorry" than prove you are sorry through your action .. i prefer it that way.

here 15 years ...and my husband is not tht romantic...and he has anger too...never said sorry...but his action after tht make things work...so i dont ask him to cry for tht ...
i do understand whn some person angry and they think they right they do say words which hurts other but they dont mean it...and how can v forget tht his life was like tht but now after Khushi came.. u see the diff..and u cant expect things change over night...

wowww Riti...lovely post...👏⭐️👏

Well i have gotten so allergic to this "R" word...i guess itz the most abused/over-used word in the forum...🥱...but i belong to the small group of people here who DON'T want to see the cliched REDEMPTION.

For me, actions speak louder than words and of course REALIZATION is very imp. - and he has DONE both the things. For me, his realization came when he never questioned or doubted for a second Khushi's love & innocence after what all she did to save him and did also accept that he was WRONG and misunderstood Khushi all along in-front of naani. Arnav, we all know is neither good at words nor at expressing his feelings, so what he does- speaks for the Unspoken & Unexpressed.

He is not the typical "Majnu" kind of lover, still he TRIED lot of things that could make Khushi happy- whether it be paying up for the rent without informing anybody, or planning a b'day surprise- for a guy, who never wishes anybody on b'day...did TRY his level best to make his wife happy on her bday- give the guy some credit atleast. When he realized, that a genuine lovely bday wish holds more importance to Khushi than those gifts- he DID that too- the guy is still "learning" man. He has confessed his love verbally, has accepted her as his legally wedded wife in front of the whole family, stands by her whenever somebody points fingers at her, demands the "respect" that a badi bahu shud get...what else should he do now??????

i certainly dont want the "contract issue" to come infront of everybody. Y shud it come in the first place?? It is very personal husband-wife issue, that shud remain inside the bedroom and not bought out in full public. It shud be sorted out between them- n it has also- he has ACCEPTED in front of her that it was his mistake...he forced her into this marriage and that she was and is innocent all through. What more do people want??? For me..all this is repentance, the word "SORRY" holds no importance unless it is felt and said from the heart. Just bcoz he hasn't uttered that word...does everything...every action of his that shows his repentance...his apology and true love go unnoticed?!!!

For me He has "redeemed".

Originally posted by: --Anna--

Baby!! Love you more for making this post!!

First of all - let me state this is a considerable difference between the word Redemption and Repentance. Redemption is needed for people who are criminals and who need to change themselves inside and out - while repentance is sought by people who need to correct what they did wrong and apologize for the grave mistakes they committed.

Two cases here - Shyam is the one - who would need to do redemption and redeem himself - though I think he is way beyond that! Arnav needs to only seek repentance and he has been repenting since the day he entered into RM after his kidnap. Every single day was his repentance and his apologies to the woman he knew he had hurt. And no always cryling and howling and crawling is not required to seek repentance - its the actions that speak - and it has been speaking left right and center! Otherwise a man like him would never agree to get married just for the sake of a woman! He has been repenting and if anyone doubts that - then I guess they are watching a completely different show.

And yes - at the end - Khushi herself has forgiven him. She understood his reasons and she has no problems with the past. I wish everyone would just grow up and accept that the more you get stuck in the past and complaint about them - your present and future also keep churning into past.

Loved your post Riti darling! Thanks for the PM :)

Lovd the entire post, dear... And today's episode truely told us what space Kushi holds in Arnav's heart... If there were anyone who didnt know it...

And there will be posts, which stil find Arnav 'inhuman' and i honestly feel a 'pride' in my heart that i'm an Arnav fan.