Perfect Title Priya: 👏
Read a poem in school ...it was about this rain drop..which set out of the clouds in search of home.. was not sure of her belonging..when wind blew her towards the Sea..This rain drop fell in an open shell..and turned into a pearl..found home..found identity...Jyon nikal kar badlon ki god se
thi abhi ik boond kuchh aage badhi
sochne phir phir yahi jee men lagiaah ghar chhod kar main kyon yoon kadhibaeh gayi us waqat ik aisi hawa
voh samander oor aayi anmani
ek sunder seep ka moohn tha khula
vah usi mein jaa giri moti bani
ANSWERED MY QUESTION OF HER BELONGING!!! (another loop closed.. at least for me!! 😊)"Before, I wanted to say: "I found love!" But now, I want to say: "I found a person. And he belongs to me and I belong to him." ? C. JoyBell C.
We are home..we are each others identity..we found love.. dictating norms in name of marriage will not make us more married.. I believe in institution of marriage personally..but I believe marriage is about love..two people in temple..in front of god.. solemnized their togetherness ...
In marriage rituals and vidhi's ..we plegde to God that we will keep love..faith..sanity of our bond..n tht bond we name marriage..that promise is what both of them are keeping ever since..Bhagwan uss din bhi shkashi tha..abhi bhi hai..what samaj is trying to do is the same..Bhagwan ko sakhshi mano..kitni bar !!!
Vidhi...Mantra...Pandit..Faerae..Temple..God..Sindoor..Mangalsutr-OK STOP IT..we will do .. for significant and insignificant (read dadi) others.. Mai Apni Patni sae fir shaadi kernae ko taiyar hoon.. Also for the women ..i will give her ,her wish and if it comes through your process,then so be it '
mujhae pyar kae liaye rasmae chaiye..usko rasmon sae pyar chaiye..PS: For me they were married..yesterday..today and will be tomorrow with or without Faerae..She is true ardhangni in every sense..vows we take during our wedding
1. I am responsible for the home and all household responsibilities.
2. I will be by your side as your courage and strength.
3. I will love you solely for the rest of my life, as you are my husband. Every other man in my life will be secondary. I vow to remain chaste.
4. I will strive to please you in every way I can.
5. Your happiness is my happiness, and your sorrow is my sorrow. I will trust and honor you, and will strive to fulfill all your wishes.
6. I will always be by your side.
7. As God is witness, I am now your wife. We will love, honor and cherish each other forever.
In past 6 months she lived and by standards of marriage fulfilled all her vows .. God stayed & stays witness..But barat'firework..celebration of union' huff !!! Dii kae liyae'humare choate ki shaadi 'Lets celebrate!!! Rishtaedari ki duniya mai they will be Pati-Patni now..
Tarae hai barati ,chandani hai yeh barat
saaton faere hongae aab hanthon mai lae kae haanth
Jeevan sathi hum..Diya aur baati hum!!
(TRP's ka demand hai ..abhi banana hi padega... innhae bhi Lamp & Wick...😉 )..there is something about Rasmae..reminds me of wrong ppl...wrong times..aap sab jaantae hai mujhae in rasmon mai vishwas anhin haiYet again..why they jumped to marriage and rituals..why no one asked about their rushed wedding- kaun sae halat, what circumstances..!! dii toh dhol bajane hi baith gayi..chotey ki shaadi....care people..for once TALK!!😲
Once again it came full circle with living room playing raizada court room and khushi ' The Accused'????
--- aap ke gehr ki beti humare potae kae sath awaidh tareekae 😡 sae reh rahi hai
---kya aap kae gher mai bin byahi bahoo ka chalan hai
---humare khandan mai aise halkae sanskar wali bahoo ko manyata nahin di jati
---aisi kaun si ladki hai jisae rishate kae naam per aisa samjhauta pasand ho
--ladkae toh kuch bhi keh sakate hai..betiyon ko yeh sanskar diyae jate hai 😡🥱
---app jane aur aap ki beti jane..woo iss gher mai nahi reh sakti 😲In all this where is your grand son..!! Dadi's life stopped 14 years back..and she is picking up threads..her continuity is from where she left ..14 years in between are non existant..She was talking about khushi..trying to visualise and enforce some one else on her..!! Shrugg responsibility.."Tumhari maa ek kamjor street thi' "app jane aur aap ki beti jane..woo iss gher mai nahi reh sakti"- DISOWN '..live happily ever after..'mera beta..mera pota!!
History repeats because we dont learn from our mistakes..Your grand son learned his lessons well..SO not again..not this time..
👏SIMBA (my Lion heart)..A husband in loves..brave heart..and dadi did you really think your Grand son is like your son..You will say "aap ki beti iss gher mai nahin reh sakti hai"..and he will shrugg..disown ...he is Raizada..BROUGHT UP BY MUCH STRONGER AND RESPONSIBLE WOMEN (Nani -full marks)--apni patni ko haath lagane ki izzazat maine kisi ko nahin di..marna toh door ki baat hai
--Mere samaj mai khusi "Khushi Kumari Gupta Singh Raizada" kae naam sae jani jati hai
--Mai yeh rasmae nahin manta lekin iss rishtae ko shaadi ka naam daene kae liyae mai APNI PATNI SAE DOOBARA SHAADI KERNAE KAE LIAYE TAIYAR HOON
-- Hum dono shaadi kernae kae liyae taiyar hai poori vidhi kae sath-OWNERSHIP..His timings 'her questioning eyes..his replies ..her tears..his assurance- MAI HOON NAA..👏
He stood tall and strong..her defence was unbeatable this time..but the names she was called..allegations..after shyam fiasco..Khushi again in line of fire..
IT DID HURT..Awaedh..samjhuata..aap ki beti..aap ke sansakar ..bin byahi bahoo..😕..THUDD and the PAIN...so yes wedding..rasmae..fire work..I'll celebrate only their togetherness & love!!Nani: "dono bachon nae jo kiya hai..sharmnak hai" ..i loved how you included your baccha in the process..'teach something to your Ashram returned bull headed best friend
HP tumhara hissab toh sach mai kerae kae padi..camera laga rahe thae sab.. toh kya sooch rahe thae..bedwa vey ka live telcast daekhogae..Not Vigilant at all..😲
Khushi : Only you can do it ..say such heavy .. life changing lines ... with such ease and conviction..'make them sound like cutest lines one ever herd..and get away with it.. "hum bhi aap sae I love you dammit"..😊
I repeat my words: Smile because he loves you and laugh sometimes because he cannot do anything about it'..MY Smitten Kitten!!
You made your I Love U sound like "hi..how are you".. hormonally imbalanced people..you both deserved a bear trap hug..a kisss (making it sound like a smooch) and much more on that confession from each other'...grow up!! 😳
That Killer smile'delight on his face'for once I thought abhi bolega "thank god..iss ki batti toh jail" 😆
527