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Posted: 13 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: memyselfandrshi


@bold Hey buddy Buaji deserves a bigger slap yaar. See buaji knows khushi for years unlike Raizada's she has seen her struggle for their family, take a job with a rakshas, suffer but still persist so tat she can earn money for them. Yet when she was being humiliated she first tried to slap her then said lets go home. Both cases she is not standing and saying if my niece who believes in traditions rituals has taken this step their shud be a reason... she just jumped to the conclusion it is sanka devi's sanak...hate her for this. As this is not support it is making khushi look guilty. also why did u think she asked khushi to go home so tat nthg in payaliya's sasural gets disrupted...

Anjali I dont know her expression spoke different than her words...she knows khushi and she knows her brother too. She knows wen her brother wants something his way no one can stop him, plus he has confessed y he and khushi married. The woman shud have some shame...


hmmm u should have read my convo with rima
i think i have to edit my post now
Buaji doesnt know the circumstances of the marriages or the fact that shyam got kicked out

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Posted: 13 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: Harshitha


hmmm u should have read my convo with rima
i think i have to edit my post now
Buaji doesnt know the circumstances of the marriages or the fact that shyam got kicked out


Yeah I agree to tat re...but family is about trust. Even if she does not know the circumstances she knows her niece that is my point.. if payal had done this Buaji would have paused to think for a minute right...My point is just bcos Khushi is an orphan does that mean she will go out of her way to humiliate their family? No na so y this lack of trust about khushi?? when khushi has again and again shows she can go to any lengths for the gupta's
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Posted: 13 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: memyselfandrshi


Yeah I agree to tat re...but family is about trust. Even if she does not know the circumstances she knows her niece that is my point.. if payal had done this Buaji would have paused to think for a minute right...My point is just bcos Khushi is an orphan does that mean she will go out of her way to humiliate their family? No na so y this lack of trust about khushi?? when khushi has again and again shows she can go to any lengths for the gupta's


she went with the flow of the situation, but going by her expressions she seemed to have felt at the accusations

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Posted: 13 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: Harshitha


she went with the flow of the situation, but going by her expressions she seemed to have felt at the accusations


That is why i felt hurt for Khushi today yaar.. I mean she has no one who will trust her or take a stand for her...what ever reasons she is always left alone...always an orphan Gupta is just a surname in her life nothing more...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: memyselfandrshi


That is why i felt hurt for Khushi today yaar.. I mean she has no one who will trust her or take a stand for her...what ever reasons she is always left alone...always an orphan Gupta is just a surname in her life nothing more...


i know me too per my post in the beginning i was pissed at her but badmein she seemed to be supporting
i'll watch epi again & sort the confusion out now
i dont want to be on different page about this

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Posted: 13 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: JohnySolomonRaj

Nice post Di.Arnav never opens his mouth when it comes to Khushi's forced marriage thing😆 Sad but we have to accept it, By the way loved the episode seeing all the happy faces i am sure there is going to be a huge dhamaka, Why do i feel that the re-marriage wont happen that soon and Shyam might plan a thing along with Poojali and Dadi which will make Arnav hate Khushi again(May be their past) hope it does not happen and about Arnav revealing the truth i think we have to wait as usual or we have to take it as CV's have forgotten that again. But i am sure with Shyam's entry and Anjali suspicious nature and with Dadi there is going to be a great drama ahead. I just hope Khushi will not be hurt again, why she should be hurt again, Let some one else in RM get hurt instead. By the way missed Shyam so much, waiting to see his master plan again ASR.


But i am so happy Arnav defended her and is with her, Khushi always needed this and hence the confession

johnny if remarriage did not happen CVs would be dead meat.
arnnav stood up for khushi but kept mum about truth. that was sad
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Posted: 13 years ago
#87
"Why is it never defended by anyone including Arnav? Wouldn't it have been perfect time to tell the truth about their marriage?"

Today, I am too happy to sulk...so I'll give you a reason, maybe a not good enough but a reason nonetheless as to why Arnav didn't disclose about the contract marriage.

Maybe because he knew that with his stupid witch of a Dadi around, he wouldn't be able to keep Khushi with himself had they gotten to know about the 'contract' thing. They created such a huge issue just because there were no pheras, imagine the disaster if the word 'contract' would have come up. And maybe because he didn't want to hurt his family members more?

Yes. The reason is not good enough...but then, its still one!

I wanted to strangle the Dadi too. How easily she chucked Khushi out of the house. She didn't even ONCE think about her won grandson's happiness. She simply didn't want her in the house...because? Well because she is demented.

Though, I'd like differ here Rima. See that scene once again when Dadi orders Buaji to take her back home, you'd see the horrified expressions of Nani, Anjali AND mamiji. Arnav toh horrified tha hi, par Nani ji and others were also shocked. AND before anyone could've said anything, Arnav already jumped in. That's why you didn't see anyone else protecting Khushi. He was there. Already. And the Raizadas,except that old witch, didn't want Khushi to go. It was evident.

In fact, I liked Anjali today. The way she is willing to welcome and warmly accept Khushi again because of her chottey, and that cute smile making a comeback again, made me happy.


Yes, I seriously hated Buaji's reaction, but then...Arnav did stop her.

Plus, I'd say that before Arshi's marriage, there had been MANY episodes which had highlighted about Khushi's virtues. In fact, episodes when Anjali and Nani were always admiring Khushi's virtues had only made Arnav realize what a gem of a person Khushi is. In fact, even after marriage, there were instances where her virtues were appreciated. Its not like it was ignored.

I know why Khushi and others were quiet. It was because 'elders' were speaking. Had it been for Arnav questioning her dignity, Khushi would have lashed out...like she did when he had called characterless.


And Rima, its an Indian soap. Heroine WOULD need a hero to protect herself against such accusations. If not the real hero, then some proof in the form of hero. Its really sad, but its the truth.

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Posted: 13 years ago
#88

Originally posted by: memyselfandrshi


@bold Hey buddy Buaji deserves a bigger slap yaar. See buaji knows khushi for years unlike Raizada's she has seen her struggle for their family, take a job with a rakshas, suffer but still persist so tat she can earn money for them. Yet when she was being humiliated buaji first tried to slap her then said lets go home. Both cases she is not standing and saying if my niece who believes in traditions rituals has taken this step their shud be a reason... she just jumped to the conclusion it is sanka devi's sanak...hate her for this. As this is not support it is making khushi look guilty. also why did u think she asked khushi to go home so tat nthg in payaliya's sasural gets disrupted...

Anjali I dont know her expression spoke different than her words...she knows khushi and she knows her brother too. She knows wen her brother wants something his way no one can stop him, plus he has confessed y he and khushi married. The woman shud have some shame...



today i think me and Harshu share the same views on buaji..
cz she didn't know about the contract marriage + she doesn't know all the waves that is rippling through the Raizada mansion including the shyam being kicked out parts...

but there is one more thing we all overlooked today..
dadi(think it was she or was it nani?) actually said to buaji that Arnav and Khsuhi had gone to the mandir and worn a varmala around their necks and come home telling they r married!!!😲
do u realize the implications? she was not told of the sindhur, mangalsutra, nothing!! as far as she was told they faked marriage and lived together!! she was told that there was NO marriage instead of telling her about halfway done rituals!!
and khushi the idiot looked down at her feet as if she was guilty!!
buaji didn't even take the raizada's word for it!! she actually held khushi's chin softly and with trust and asked her for an explanation!n the idiot girl didn't explain!! didn't even try!

well honestly throw away the orphan part, my own mom would slap me then and there if she realized this such a thing!!🥱

we r looking at this as the overall picture...but consider only the few facts buaji has...then i think her behavior today was pretty justified...
don't forget she doesn't link her own hand in forcing Khushi shyam engagement to any of the things that took place... so how will she know she is at fault?

honestly as far as she is concerned, (as she doesn't know shyam's truth is revealed or about shyam abusing khushi inside RM or about Arnav marrying her cz of it) that engagement was a past happening that has been dead and buried and she thinks it had NO repercussions on anyone once the alliance was broken...

so in her position of ignorance, well can we blame her?

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Posted: 13 years ago
#89

Originally posted by: RickyBahl

YOU asked WHY??

Because when a person walks on the wrong path, he always thinks he is correct, doesnt listen to others advice, and finally meets with disaster and falls in a ditch or borewell. here the person referred is creative Team.

The most bad part of today : Khushi being asked to leave,
The attitude changes only after arnav talks about marrying. But if he was not in home that time or if idea of marrying wudnt click then??

I was awaiting if that moment of contract revealation comes but no.Let me tell the reasons

HATE MARRIAGE AFTEREFFECTS BEING EXTENDED.


Khushi has to suffer more , as she said to arnav i will keep waiting, but the wait wont get over as on the wedding day past will be revealed and baarat will return that moment..
If contract comes out sympathy will be with Khushi, and how can sympathy be with Khushi in IPK.?common sense yaar.

The Cv's are having a recession of ideas it seems. No ideas to to built intersting track if they wud hv showed redemption then it bcomes difficult for them. They are streching by not revealing contract thing. is it fair?Now it seems they want to make a redemption after bruising Khushi again .

People were demanding an intense redemption. Shyam's end dialogues hints differently that again separation will come.And following a redemption (might be iam not sure).

What cv's are thinking.

The beautiful and original love story was interrupted on Payash wedding. Hoping that this pain track of Khushi wud be last in their blooming love relation. No suddenly the Cv's thought why should we show redemption now, lets strech this unconfessed relation. Lets keep an unhappy atmosphere in background and in front lets show some Rabba veys, Arnav caring Khushi scenes. some lovey dovey scenes but no need to show any repentance, redemption.

Lets not reveal the contract thing now, no need to show arnav as sensible lover .In the name of ASR character we will make him do 5 hateful behaviours and acts and compensate that with 2 Rabba Veys and i flirty scenes in a week for the public to remain cool.

lets show another show off betwee arnav and Khushi , even if it means to spoil khushi's character who had self respect. Forget Khushi's self respect, lets try to strech another hate relation between arshi love relation. We will try to sell the public that at the cost of Khushi crying more n more tears.Let her suffer.

what i feel

Everything has a timing. Do we have patience to see another unnecessary hate track extended by tactics of not revealing this contract thing. Cv's do you have some ethics??
Why Cv's think by extending the effects of hate marriage the viewers will love the show?

  • They are trying desperate to be a saas-bahu serial which they are unable to be, A saas-Bahu serial behavioural chateristics are diffrent, A bahu suffers from inlaws but here Khushi suffers from all.In saas bahu, shows they keep on reinventing bahu with strong determination and power. E.g Pratigya, But IPK thinks they can try that here. Sorry even in saas-bahu shows the lead is not made to suffer so much, atleast not from husband. In IPK we feel bad bcoz arnav shows outwardly love, not deeper love by apologising, So if they think they can be like them ,than they are wrong. Even kairee on colors has a spunk bahu,
I thought shyam was sent off so that Guilt track would come in focus and love cud bloom. hell did i know that its their tactics to extendthe storyline by continuing Khushi's woes. I didnt know their writers have been out of stock of ideas. I observe since 4 years yeh rishta kya kehlata hai, bringing new concepts . not streching with gimmicks and they r still ruling.

FINAL THING TO 4 LIONS

Will u wear a jeans that has weared off or out of fashion?? so how can u expect us to continue with this hope of guilt track till u decide to show ARNAV as guilty in december?? or in 2013?
PUT A CLOSURE TO THIS HATE MARRIAGE BY REVEALING CONTRACT MARRIAGE AND SHOWING ARNAV'S GUILT TRACK ATLEAST FOR TWO EPISODES, NOTHING MORE.
KHUSHI IS NOT IN HOME, OPEN OUT ENTIRE TRUTH TO FAMILY ARNAV.

SEPARATION IS SWEET WHEN ITS BACKED LATER BY REDEMPTION NOT BY ANOTHER MARRIAGE.

PLEASE DONT EXTEND THIS HATE MARRIAGE EFFECTS ANYMORE.
People will stop watching it more. I guranteee. My experience on observation over Tv serials over last 10 years says that .


ricky from the morning you and i have been shouting ourselves hoarse
we have ranted and raged
you make such valid points
and your anguish is so heartfelt
every point is correct
wht is the point of guilt when all seems over already
and i hope they don't bring guilt through another problem
that is not acceptable
but all our anguish won't help
because the writers of the show do not write with a heart in mind
just their warped idea of trps
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Posted: 13 years ago
#90

Originally posted by: princessunara



today i think me and Harshu share the same views on buaji..
cz she didn't know about the contract marriage + she doesn't know all the waves that is rippling through the Raizada mansion including the shyam being kicked out parts...

but there is one more thing we all overlooked today..
dadi(think it was she or was it nani?) actually said to buaji that Arnav and Khsuhi had gone to the mandir and worn a varmala around their necks and come home telling they r married!!!😲
do u realize the implications? she was not told of the sindhur, mangalsutra, nothing!! as far as she was told they faked marriage and lived together!! she was told that there was NO marriage instead of telling her about halfway done rituals!!
and khushi the idiot looked down at her feet as if she was guilty!!
buaji didn't even take the raizada's word for it!! she actually held khushi's chin softly and with trust and asked her for an explanation!n the idiot girl didn't explain!! didn't even try!

well honestly throw away the orphan part, my own mom would slap me then and there if she realized this such a thing!!🥱

we r looking at this as the overall picture...but consider only the few facts buaji has...then i think her behavior today was pretty justified...
don't forget she doesn't link her own hand in forcing Khushi shyam engagement to any of the things that took place... so how will she know she is at fault?

honestly as far as she is concerned, (as she doesn't know shyam's truth is revealed or about shyam abusing khushi inside RM or about Arnav marrying her cz of it) that engagement was a past happening that has been dead and buried and she thinks it had NO repercussions on anyone once the alliance was broken...

so in her position of ignorance, well can we blame her?

no
if i knew a person
if i trusted a person
if i knew this girl would die for others than hurt them
if i knew that she will always sacrifice for her family
i wud never doubt her
basic thing lacking in Bua: trust
basic attitude: khushi is a trouble maker
so i do not and never will forgive buaji. sorry sunara and harshu
first time i am disagreeing
that woman has always treated khushi like dirt no less than mami
it buds into affection sometimes but lets her down in moments of anguish like today

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