Originally posted by: cutebarun
I watch the Show only for Barun...n he never disappoints me... Since my point of focus is only him... I'm always a 'happy Viewer'...
Coming to the episode,
I have always disliked Rituals... Disliked Crowd... Felt not talking to anyone for hours and days... And kept on talking with not even one word reaching to my heart... Thats why, when I see Arnav, I relate to each and every emotion he goes through...
I was So happy to see the 'tumhi dekho naa' being played out today... No...not because I Love the Romance, bt, i'm restless to see the past...
But, why do I feel, the scenes we saw today, hav a crucial Flash back tomorrow, frm Arnav's POV... I dont know...!
I watch the Show frm My Pov... And frm there, 'Arnav's feelings' hav the depth of an Ocean... And its far more precious than any Ritual...
'Feelings...' bt, whose? ARNAV's... Sorry, that are just 'fleetings'... He doesnt hav a ritualistic heart and a 'bhawanofied' feeling...? Right..?
'No Ritual is greater than the acceptance of
a 'true feeling' in your heart...
I have always believd 'HATE' is a much stronger emotion than 'LOVE', Bcoz... 'Love' needs a lot of things like 'care, affection, attraction, infatuation, crush, protective instinct, possesiveness, adoration, understanding, jealousy, sacrifice' etc to hold it Together... Bt 'HATE' needs only 'hate' to thrive for years...
Thats why a 'MARRIAGE' always needs Rituals... Becoz it is weak... It needs every other 'supporting' thread to 'hold it together' and prevent u frm Falling out...'
where as 'LOVE' never has any Rituals... And it remains even after 'marriages are Broken'...
Why is 'DIVORCE' just a legal paper... And hav no 'rituals'...? Becoz there, it can stand n fight against, without any 'supporting' thread.
Why do people married for a 'lifetime' with all rituals, get ' seperated' even aftr the strong hold of 'ritual n social threads' on them?
Why do people after a 'divorce'... Never go back into that Marriage, Even when there are no 'rituals' holding them back?
There comes the 'Acceptance'... The 'acceptance' of 'being each others'...which Arnav n Kushi has... N which unfortunatly, Arnav has in a greater Degree.
Once he 'accepts' there is nothing that Questions him. His Love Isnt 'acidic'. Its his 'base'... N if His Lover wants a Marriage to accept her 'Love' wholeheartedly, then There is nothing wrong...
"Acceptance Comes From Heart, and Heartless Arnav has 'accepted' it..." if a few circles, can complete his love n get him the 'trust of his Lover'... Then, so be it...
I'm not good at analysing... Bt Sathya, if u remember, i had earlier told you... 'Arnav will get a 'rapist' tag' by the end of d episode... And I was right... Though i wanted to be wrong...
'Kushi ya Kudhkushi'... If thats the choice I have to make in the forum... Then it will be 'KHUD KUSHI',... Anytime,... anyday. ofcourse 'khudkushi' of my 'user Id'...😉