The last 5 mins!! OMG! Lol! - Page 8

Originally posted by: rozy

I believe its individuals like yourself that like jumping guns .. Shyam issue isnt closed yet .. there is yet alot more to happen .. your claims could have been deemed correct if the show had ended with shyam getting only a thappar from ASR ...

I believe you have very little idea of ASR's characterization .. I advise you to read the Crooner and the IP redux threads if you really wish to have an insight ... the day he was quietly backing up khushi when she had her face off with shyam , went into the favour of khushi , when its judgement time, the one who has been wronged speaks .. and thats exactly what happend ..

If you lot wanted him to slap shyam or kill him halfway in the faceoff then its quite immature of you all ..

And one more thing, both ASR and Khushi are two sides of the same coin .. if there was you or someone else in that situation, you woud have left ASR long time back , but just think, why is khushi still so much in love with ASR? because she knows he is her soulmate .. they have both wronged each other and they will both have to step forward to correct their mistakes ...

ASR made a higher degree of mistakes and hence his responsiblity is going to be a bit higher coz he is now responsible for bringing back happiness in khushi's life and he is doing exactly that ...

Akash and payal didnt suffer any blows in their relationship and you can clearly so how much Akash does for payal or for her family .. he is in direct contrast to ASR .. and he is portraying what 90% men and women of indian society are ... it is at the end of the day ASR who is keenly taking responsiblity to sort out his inlaws financial troubles to make his wife happy ... this is how much he is going out of his way to show gratitude to khushi ..

But ofcourse people like yourselves only like to see a husband slap someone dead or beat the hell out of someone who may have tried to hurt his wife ...

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

Okay so now you have obviouslly asked us "LOT" to answer your rethorical questions, I shall oblige:

1. Shyam issue is not closed yet?we know that...so let us be prepared for a repeat telecast of shyam's vile words and khushi's eyes pleading to the great and mighty Harvard and him instead of two slaps, slapping him 4 times and this time he gets a punch tooo...be still my heart...how will I survive???must make sure 111 is on speed dial..thank you for this clarification you just saved my life...

2. He was quietly backing up khushi by looking weirdly at everyone and then when she asked him he jumped in???and so if he was wronged then khushi was not wronged???judgement day???huh???world is coming to an end and I didnt even know???oh well, whatever...trust me if judgement day will be anything like the pre judgement day, we already know ET has come and gone...

3. I do not need to read some random thread to get insight on a mad man's mind...I have eyes and I can see that for myself, thank you very much...you read them and keep living in your bubble..looks like it is working out for you too

4. Khushi is classic case of victim's guilt person...she is so abused that she thinks she is guilty and he is right...she needs to walk away from it to gather her wits...dont put us in the same category...we will figure out men like Harvard in one meeting...khushi needs a counsellor to show her how horrible harvard is...

5. Harvard style until now is strangely very manipulative in correcting his mistakes...and what mistake did khushi do, please tell??? honestly it looks like I keep missing the episodes which you seem to see...hmmm need to recheck it once again...And yes the mighty Harvard keeps making the same mistake like a baby and doesnt even apologise...

6. Who cares about spineless boy and laundary queen?? i personally dont..you can write a thread on them if you want but those two are of no importance to me at all...so shant comment on them...

7. By making his wife homeless, waterless and electrivcityless he shows his love???by helping her out from the trouble that he himself created he is helping his wife???my threathing to ruin her family if she didnt come back he is helping his wife???wowww ...how can khushi not love him now...stupid khushi yeah??heck even I am loving him now...move over khushi harvard is mine ( and I am being sarcastic here if you dont know)

8. Fair enough you can be in the category where you can have a husband just watch whilst someone is harrassing and abusing his wife...i rather have my man protect me...you can be in the category of a man not protecting and blaming the wife...

If you dont agree with our views fair enough, but kindly dont force us to accept yours...you should have guessed by now that we wont accept it...

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

Brilliant Rebuttal👏

BUT

Vibha Dear

she is some one who must be suffering from severe self esteem and self worth issues and looking how she is very much in awe and defending the male character and the way he shows love I am thinking her conditioning and environment has taught her not to put a value on herself as a human being much less a woman and probably has been drilled into believing that men are God and she is not worthy of love and probably abuse is the only definition of love she knows

One can only pray that God be kind to them through their partners and life experiences Sometimes the only way to avoid fire is to get badly burnt

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

Swathi🤗

Lovie as usual coming from you it means a lot, you know that 😃

Darlin I find it sad that a woman has no dignity and condone this type of archiac behaviour of a man...it saddnes me honestly...call it crush, love or M&B effect but not to see flaws is just wrong...it is basic human decency that we each have...when we see wrong we speak up...thats how I was brought up atleast...I will not be quiet if I see a man hurting a female and vice versa...I will speak up...

To condone this behaviour shows how mentally unstable the person is...to be honest I rather they go through the reality of life and once they do they will understand the meaning of it...no point in us trying to show some sense to them

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

Swathi🤗

Lovie as usual coming from you it means a lot, you know that 😃

Darlin I find it sad that a woman has no dignity and condone this type of archiac behaviour of a man...it saddnes me honestly...call it crush, love or M&B effect but not to see flaws is just wrong...it is basic human decency that we each have...when we see wrong we speak up...thats how I was brought up atleast...I will not be quiet if I see a man hurting a female and vice versa...I will speak up...

To condone this behaviour shows how mentally unstable the person is...to be honest I rather they go through the reality of life and once they do they will understand the meaning of it...no point in us trying to show some sense to them

Originally posted by: -honeydew-

you know you are absolutely right! and the rest is what I will share when I post this write up I am almost getting ready 😃

Originally posted by: DMGFan-2b-not2b

Swathi, Vibha (am taking the liberty of addressing you by your names)

I guess you guys voiced my frustration way better! Not just the track (which irritates the hell out of me) it's the blind adoration of every and nothing that Arnav does that frustrates.

Young immature teenagers whose thought processes are so completely devoid of any thought or understanding that it's scary. I understand youngsters have raging hormones so They tend to get carried away but the vitriol and condemnation of one of their own for a man, and willingness to condone everything just because the man does it is fairly ludicrous ! That they have no ability to distinguish between right and wrong is obvious but to blatantly defend what is wrong & even more frightening, to believe it to be right!!

I just hope as they grow up and deal with real life, they get some sense or they are doomed to lead miserable lives. Or maybe this is whya huge percentage of women still suffer cos they believe it's the man's right & clearly this chunk believes and reinforces that school of thought!!

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

Vibha i think some people have to hit rock bottom before they are able to find out what the difference between hell and heaven Many of them thanks to this serial have such a skewered idea of love and romance that i wonder how much of them here are going to get translated into future statistics for abuse

They have defended each and every one of his actions remarkably and without a second thought to the rights and wrongs and what scares me even more is when i come across some seemingly quality posts that catch my attention for a second that seem on the surface to be written rather well and with brilliant prose only to find much to my dismay and disappointment the same ASR namah and justification the exception being the quality of the language used

they all think we are rabid feminists or something like that not realizing our anguish none of us are family wreckers or man haters we are human beings who have been blessed with mentors and guardians in our lives who showed us love worth respect and value and sadly maybe a couple of broken teeth broken bones bruised body and black eye just might jolt them into awareness but hopefully good sense should prevail before that happens

que sera sera

hoping to catch up with our usual tete a tate now😃