Respect the relationship - Page 8

Loved ur sensible post!👏

Originally posted by: barunroxx7

I think what I dont like about Anjali is the she is super selfish..Always thinking about herself..Doesnt she want her brother to move on ? Why does she want her bro to do rona dhona for Shymoo like her ? 🥱

Exactly ! I was like "What the" over tum pyaar main ho, tum mujhe bhool gaye ho...Seriously, that chap was kidnapped, was almost killed along with his wife, she faced some reality about "duniya main sabse accha pati" and her reaction is this...come, weep with me for I was betrayed by a lech 😕

She is self absorbed, dwell in bubble, clingy lady

Originally posted by: cindrella255

Indeed it is the mindset

Arnav- buaji is one track that I adore very much(but I wish there is some consistency...she accuses Khushi, forces engagement with Shyam, shove Kh's orphan status in no time and conveniently forgets everything)

both of them have a great comic timing and that works for me... but consistency? high expectation my dear 😆 all I know is, someday Arnav will find a mom in Buaji and not Garima 😃

Originally posted by: cindrella255

Sanju, Advice is the cheapest thing , so one can give bhashan...after all,it's free...but in this same forum several labels were 2 given to those who like ASR... teeny boppers, hormonal teens,arselickers to name a few...people did not think that liking a character and supporting is their POV...funny dat no one thought it was passing judgement on others...none those who preach about moral policing raised voice then...but when things are other way around, automatically u become moral police... what ever floats their bloat...
@ TM - Glad u made this topic...I agree that the portrayal by CVs is not something excellent but making such comments won't make us any better...and honestly I don't find anything wrong in hugging or touching cheeks of brother...I do that and we are grown ups...we even pull other's hair for fun... but some people really amaze me

Edited to add-

I will not be surprised if this thread gets closed soon...sorry for saying this TM

yes dear.. I knw! I'm someone who gets 'constructivly criticisd' everyday!😉 n has a 'naamkaran' everyday..hehe. I knw i cant prevent such posts, bt there may be innocent souls who 'like' n 'encourage' such topics thinking its fun, without knwing, they r in a trap.. If we can collectivly reduce '1 Like' frm such posts, i wil be glad.. Its not to insult any member, dats y no names r said here.

Originally posted by: cindrella255

Exactly ! I was like "What the" over tum pyaar main ho, tum mujhe bhool gaye ho...Seriously, that chap was kidnapped, was almost killed along with his wife, she faced some reality about "duniya main sabse accha pati" and her reaction is this...come, weep with me for I was betrayed by a lech 😕

She is self absorbed, dwell in bubble, clingy lady

@BOLD Ditto ! 😊

Originally posted by: ranjitha

both of them have a great comic timing and that works for me... but consistency? high expectation my dear 😆 all I know is, someday Arnav will find a mom in Buaji and not Garima 😃

I know

But I love their scenes...ditto about the last part

Agree with u completely jachu 👍🏼 .. U said it all.👏

Originally posted by: dmgloverforever

I agree with what you said. A brother and sister share the most refined relations of all and its only immoral to point fingers at it. BUT , There's always a but! lol I wont necessarily blame the audience for not understanding Arnav and Anjali's relationship in particular because to be honest I don't really get it either.

For a regular audience, Who are use to seeing brothers and sisters as nok-jhok buddies, always pulling pranks but still caring. Anjali and Arnav's relationship is rather new. Here are two siblings who just have each other to depend on , to rely on. These two will definitely have a different bond then "normal" parented brothers & sisters. Its a whole new concept and if not introduced properly could lead to conflict. And CVs by all means failed to portray the pulchritude of this sacred bond.

My grandparents passed away when my mom was just in 10th grade and ever since their death My uncle, who was a college graduate at the time has been responsible for my mother. So, I know what an orphan sibling bond is like And its definitely not like the one we see in IPK. not as melodramatic at least. Yes there is interdependence and insecurity but NOT to this EXTENT, especially after you're married. And showing otherwise is just giving the wrong message.

Another thing that badgers me about their relationship is the mere portrayal of Anjali.She is the older sister , So considering the matter of course she should've been the more responsible one rather then the over depending one. The older sibling is usually the one that makes sacrifices and not the other way around but Just to give Arnav's character all the glory CVs besmirched Anjali's role, A role of an older sister.

So , I'll say it again, Yes its wrong to point fingers at a pure relationship but you cant really blame the viewers for doing so in this case as the sibling bond portrayed in the show is quite muddled up within itself to be honest. So don't take offence when people sometimes cross the line as its merely due to the confusion and frustration caused by CVs not because they are cavemen and don't understand the significance of a relationship as pure as that of a brother and sister.

I just could nt understand what you were trying to say actually - u are justifying those people who call bro-sis bond with disgusting name if brother carries a weak sister in his arms to her room or if she hugs her brother when needed support.In real life also when you have age difference of many years between them one take position of parent in other's life and it is very common..
Anjali is weak person and is an emotionally handicapped person too ..If such a person needs a support in her life what wrong in that...and there have been times when she has been support and mother figure too for arnav but at this moment when she needs his brother support,why cant she ask for it...