Respect the relationship - Page 12

such a beautiful n a much needed post in this forum👏. bro-sis relation is the most beautiful n purest relation in this world. both can sacrifice one's life for the other. i've a bro elder to me by 8 yrs. n he's the sweetest, dearest person i've ever known in the world till date ryt frm my birth. he's more protective than even my dad. fiercely protective. the best father figure to me. since m too younger to him n really pampered, i can't say that m a mother figure to him😳. but he always sees me as the little one who always needs to be taken care of n loved. i can proudly say my bro is just like asr. he can't ever see me in pain n if m in some extreme hurt mode than he's the one who sheds tears. no one has ever shed tears for me... not even my mom n dad. my parents love me to death n care abt me but my bro's feelings for me is something which is inexplicable. truly!! a mother's relation with her children or a father's wid his children can be explained. but a brother sister relationship is the most difficult one to understand. its so pure that only a lucky few cud comprehend its nature. lucky those who have a brother elder or younger👍🏼 really its a relationship to be cherished. god's most wonderful gift to us...

that's the main reason why i've always understood arnav n anjali's relation till date. what people see as possesiveness n kabab mein haddi from anjali towards arnav, is nothing else but purity n care at its best. these two have lost their parents at a early age, so its all the more different for them . anjali has remained a mother to him n even though he's grown up, established n backbone of the family, she still sees him as her little boy who needs care at all times n also yearns for the same from him. they have been each other's support since childhood during all bad times. so now when anjali is without her husband with a baby inside her, its natural that she wud look towards him for support. its not jealousy wen she's sees him being intimate wid his wife. its only a longing for his full care n emotional support during this hard time.

Originally posted by: riti4u

I just could nt understand what you were trying to say actually - u are justifying those people who call bro-sis bond with disgusting name if brother carries a weak sister in his arms to her room or if she hugs her brother when needed support.In real life also when you have age difference of many years between them one take position of parent in other's life and it is very common..
Anjali is weak person and is an emotionally handicapped person too ..If such a person needs a support in her life what wrong in that...and there have been times when she has been support and mother figure too for arnav but at this moment when she needs his brother support,why cant she ask for it...

Originally posted by: poojasidd123

such a beautiful n a much needed post in this forum👏. bro-sis relation is the
most beautiful n purest relation in this world. both can sacrifice one's life
for the other. i've a bro elder to me by 8 yrs. n he's the sweetest, dearest
person i've ever known in the world till date ryt frm my birth. he's more protective
than even my dad. fiercely protective. the best father figure to me. since m
too younger to him n really pampered, i can't say that m a mother figure to
him😳. but he always sees
me as the little one who always needs to be taken care of n loved. i can
proudly say my bro is just like asr. he can't ever see me in pain n if m in
some extreme hurt mode than he's the one who sheds tears. no one has ever shed
tears for me... not even my mom n dad. my parents love me to death n care abt
me but my bro's feelings for me is something which is inexplicable. truly!! a
mother's relation with her children or a father's wid his children can be
explained. but a brother sister relationship is the most difficult one to
understand. its so pure that only a lucky few cud comprehend its nature. lucky
those who have a brother elder or younger👍🏼 really its a
relationship to be cherished. god's most wonderful gift to us...



that's the main reason why i've always understood arnav n anjali's relation
till date. what people see as possesiveness n kabab mein haddi from anjali
towards arnav, is nothing else but purity n care at its best. these two have
lost their parents at a early age, so its all the more different for them .
anjali has remained a mother to him n even though he's grown up, established n
backbone of the family, she still sees him as her little boy who needs care at
all times n also yearns for the same from him. they have been each other's
support since childhood during all bad times. so now when anjali is without her
husband with a baby inside her, its natural that she wud look towards him for
support. its not jealousy wen she's sees him being intimate wid his wife. its
only a longing for his full care n emotional support during this hard time.

Originally posted by: cindrella255

Exactly ! I was like "What the" over tum pyaar main ho, tum mujhe bhool gaye ho...Seriously, that chap was kidnapped, was almost killed along with his wife, she faced some reality about "duniya main sabse accha pati" and her reaction is this...come, weep with me for I was betrayed by a lech 😕

She is self absorbed, dwell in bubble, clingy lady

Originally posted by: payasa

hey sharmi n barun x...

few cents from me here..

do you really see selfishness her girls? right from the beggining, anjali was showcased as a sweet person trying to be happy and good to all. if she is manipulative, or smetimes stubbern, it is always for the good and out of love for the family members...

now that she is in a critical situation, it does make sense to be sad..

if she says to arnav that, you are in love and you have forgotten..thinking that he lied to her,.then it is a sinking feeling that she is not wanted by him like before,after all sharing such close bond, if she finds him at home, that is natural reaction. it does not mean that she doesnot like him to be in love...

what made it cringy is a dear sister suffering on one side and a dear brother romancing on the other side with his ever annoyed wife in open...it should have been private considering the gloomy situation at RM...can this be believable.? considering the bond bro-sis share.

just to bring out all that wooing..the situation was made messy..

edited..

all forum members say that anjali is weak/ handicapped emotionally and physically...

everybody in the world are weak in some or the other aspect...

if anjali believes in god n performs pooja's, it her way of assurance to herself..if people believe in god , then it a kind of moral support that boosts their life.

.then why do you think khushi every now n then speaks to DM. becoz it gives strength n build up confidence that there is somebody up there who can support you n protect you..it is psychology.

i saw lot of discussion on dependency of anjali on arnav...

it is not unnatural for a person to depend on their loved ones. infact you expect more from your loved ones...if that is called dependency, then evrybody are dependent on every body in their tough times..

Originally posted by: poojasidd123

such a beautiful n a much needed post in this forum👏. bro-sis relation is the most beautiful n purest relation in this world. both can sacrifice one's life for the other. i've a bro elder to me by 8 yrs. n he's the sweetest, dearest person i've ever known in the world till date ryt frm my birth. he's more protective than even my dad. fiercely protective. the best father figure to me. since m too younger to him n really pampered, i can't say that m a mother figure to him😳. but he always sees me as the little one who always needs to be taken care of n loved. i can proudly say my bro is just like asr. he can't ever see me in pain n if m in some extreme hurt mode than he's the one who sheds tears. no one has ever shed tears for me... not even my mom n dad. my parents love me to death n care abt me but my bro's feelings for me is something which is inexplicable. truly!! a mother's relation with her children or a father's wid his children can be explained. but a brother sister relationship is the most difficult one to understand. its so pure that only a lucky few cud comprehend its nature. lucky those who have a brother elder or younger👍🏼 really its a relationship to be cherished. god's most wonderful gift to us...

that's the main reason why i've always understood arnav n anjali's relation till date. what people see as possesiveness n kabab mein haddi from anjali towards arnav, is nothing else but purity n care at its best. these two have lost their parents at a early age, so its all the more different for them . anjali has remained a mother to him n even though he's grown up, established n backbone of the family, she still sees him as her little boy who needs care at all times n also yearns for the same from him. they have been each other's support since childhood during all bad times. so now when anjali is without her husband with a baby inside her, its natural that she wud look towards him for support. its not jealousy wen she's sees him being intimate wid his wife. its only a longing for his full care n emotional support during this hard time.

Originally posted by: dmgloverforever

I've mentioned again and again that I strictly oppose calling a brother-sister relationship lewd & Please don't get the wrong message, I'm not against a brother saying " I love you to his sister" or a sister "kissing her brother" , I have a brother myself and I'm familiar with a bro-sis bond. Nor am I against a brother supporting a sister, in fact coming from a desi family-oriented household I more then appreciate a brother being there for his sister. I've seen it in real life and such emotions only evoke respect & fascination within me.

I'm sorry if i came across as a defendant of such behavior but you'll understand the purpose of my message if you read the highlighted part again.

I'm a psychology student and studying people's behavior is what i do. I'm conditioned to think impartially and I merely wanted to give an insight as to why people might revert to such behavior. My purpose was to give an hypothesis and not to justify anyone. If people react a certain way, its because of emotions induced within them. So i'll say it in a more elaborate way again.

Anjali's and Arnav's relationship is out of the norm. When things are out of the ordinary ppl react.

Is that reaction always the most righteous one? NO. But that's just the way some of the humans are conditioned to behave. I'm just stating a fact rather then justifying anyone. So if people are targeting Arnav and Anjali's bond its merely due to how they've been conditioned to react to something that come as foreign to them. So relax, the conflict you see on this forum is solely the result of different conditioning of human brains.

Whatever the TM mentioned in her post is correct to a great extent, but I feel the way she mentioned it is only going to instigate rather then making people realize they're at wrong. See, When you tell someone they're wrong while they're cheesed off and hopping mad , they're only going to retaliate and say stuff in order to justify themselves which they might not even mean. So, the smarter thing to do under such circumstances is condemn the behavior once, if the person doesn't listen then leave it. There's no use of making non-stop threads about, its only going to provoke them more.

And I know this thread isn't about Arnav and Anjali's relationship but the uproar against their bond is because of the relation portrayed on screen and if we are discussing how wrong some people's approach is we CANT overlook the reason causing the uproar. Get my drift?

Anyways you guys seem like a smart bunch, why are you letting such comments get in your head?

thank you for making this wonderful post. I completely agree with you.