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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: meera30

I know what you are saying and I want to agree


But even if I forget everything else, what bothers me is that

Arnav / ASR - call him what you want...saw Khushi risk her life to protect his. He almost lost her then.

And yet, he feels nothing except this idea that he loves her. No regret at having judged her, hurt her, maligned her.

I don't buy it. And Arnav may be cynical and callous to people. Never to the ones he loves - his Di, his Nani, his Mami..then why Khushi?

When does the Tom and Jerry game end?


i admt he goofs up here. but you see basic human traits are the same. he just hasn't, take my word for it, hasn't realized her wiorth or suffering. he has the god syndrome. i judege, i condemn and i forgive. till he realizes that it is not him but her who matters
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Posted: 13 years ago
I guess this is who he IS! To expect better is to be dissapointed! Therefore I have NO expectations of him now!
Khushi needs to get a grip and just TELL her family the truth! WHY she still cares about those awful Raizadas I dont know! They dont care about HER!
She needs to give it up! She owes nothing to them, and the sooner she realizes this the better! I want her to cut ALL ties with them! This situation is getting VERY toxic!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Maverick29

Actually guys, he was being playful. Here is my understanding -- that shukla is already paid. He is messing with Khushi -- just to spend time with her. His thinking is, the more time he spends with her, the better his chances of making her his.


So, I wouldnt look at what he did today as something weird or sinister.

I think this is fundamentally the way the writers have trained people -- he has been so mean to her for so long, when he is making this attempt to get cozy with her, we think he is using his "power". NOPE Shukla is in on the game.

I for one like what is happening.

Cheers.

me too maverick. he is manipulating her and playing with her the way he did with payash doivorce contract. i feel shukla is in it too
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Posted: 13 years ago
BINGO. Couldn't have said that any better.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Maverick29

Actually guys, he was being playful. Here is my understanding -- that shukla is already paid. He is messing with Khushi -- just to spend time with her. His thinking is, the more time he spends with her, the better his chances of making her his.


So, I wouldnt look at what he did today as something weird or sinister.

I think this is fundamentally the way the writers have trained people -- he has been so mean to her for so long, when he is making this attempt to get cozy with her, we think he is using his "power". NOPE Shukla is in on the game.

I for one like what is happening.

Cheers.

Oh! I never thought of it that way! You may be right!
Let's see how this unfolds... 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
thanks God some one with a positive post ...i agree totally...thts exactly my pov too
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rima

yeah let's send them reminders for teej and block out rakkhi

I'm all for it! Not going to give them rakhi plans in any way! 😆
This serial has become such an integral part of my life now! I was actually using PooJhali, Arnav and Khushi to explain something in biology! And that too contraction of muscle fibres!
Mera kuch nahi ho sakta! 😆
(And btw this is funny- The person I explained it to almost wrote it in their exam! 😲 But got a reality check before writing! 😆)
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Posted: 13 years ago
he just wants khushi to confess why she left RM???? Thats why he is doing all this...because he said to her " mein hun tumhare saath khuhsi...koi baat hai to mujhe bolo""...

khushi said to him not to give the money..but again asked why u have taken it back...i dont get khushi!!!!!!

Arnav wants to be with her..so doing all these things perhaps!!!!!!!!!!

Just think logically...if the CVs continue ASR with this wooing thing with money, how remarriage will happen...???? ASR will realise at the end of the day that Khushi wants proper remarriage, her self respect!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rima

me too maverick. he is manipulating her and playing with her the way he did with payash doivorce contract. i feel shukla is in it too


Hey Rima, there were quite a few people who were upset and I really was a bit confused because the first thing that hit me when he was smirking and the way he was constantly telling Khushi that he was with her -- I just could not believe that he would actually hurt her again. Here are two things I posted on a thread created by Pricessunara and NapsterMonster:

First the post on Princess' thread -- her post was very emotional actually:

Oye Oye Oye! Aap to bahut sensitive nikli bhai! Princess just take a deep breath and read what I think is happening -- he is NOT, I repeat NOT going to make her feel like crap about the finance thing. He is only finding a way to spend the next 12 days with her -- if she is at the Gupta House, he has no chance of convincing her.

As for the apology we are all seeking, I think it is coming and coming with a bang. See this is part of Nok Jhok -- he is playing with her and pushing her -- we know khushi, that is the only way to get close to her -- push her and challenge her. He did nothing with Shukla -- that check was not stopped -- he is just pulling her leg and shukla is in on the whole thing.

So, I believe that the next few epis are going to be a lot of fun with him pushing her around and finally extracting what she actually needs to let him back into her life and he will give her that and more. That is my take on where this is going!

Afterall, in order to set things up as understanding in a couple, people need to know the other person inside and out. Remember Khushi said to to him on the Nainital Trip -- "aap to gusse mein pagal ho jaathe ho aur aap ko kuch bhi yaad nahin rehta" -- that was about his anger. Now this is about his understanding -- I believe the writers are trying this approach -- they want to tell us that this guy is completely "oblivious" to basic things and when Khushi yells at him about what he did -- he will do exactly what she wants him to do hence setting a pattern to their communication. He has to be told what he needs to do -- is their pattern of communication. That is what is coming.

They are doing it in a humorous way -- let us enjoy it. By about the end of next week, you will see that what I am saying is correct!

Khushi is finally getting what she deserves -- all the respect and love so just wait and watch -- if you read any of my posts, you will know what I think of Khushi by the way!

Now the one I posted on NapsterMonster and then a chat with SJ (she was hilarious again)

Commnnn!!! You are one of the less "emotional" and more mature than others on the forum -- this reaction is completely out of character!

The guy DID NOT STOP the check and NO this is not a control game -- he is playing with her and Shukla is in on it. He would never play with the family side of things ever. He is finding ways to spend the next 12 days with her -- if she is stuck at the Gupta house how on earth is he going to convince her.

This is my 4th post saying almost the same thing, You, Rima, Princess, AyireKhushi -- you are all reacting a bit prematurely and judging them a bit too early this time -- I think they are playing this game of making them spend the next 12 days together so he can realize exactly what he needs to do. This is not about his control -- he is just using that as an excuse -- he lost control on himself a long time ago.

Finally, he has brought it to a stage when he can convince Khushi the same -- believe me this is where this is headed. If this does not happen, I will stop watching for sure. But I think by the end of next week, Khushi will truly have him running around her like a angry puppy!

So, dont blow a gasket yet!!

Finally I struck a deal with SJ -- here is the deal:

Maverick29:
I cant believe I am disagreeing with my "friends" today. But I have a different take because I am a guy I guess. SJ I replied to you on the "NapsterMonster" post. Just a line from that here:

Khushi said "Agar aap hamare baare mein itni Ghatiya soonch rakh sakte hain to Hame aapko Koi Safai deneki Zaroorat Nahin hain"

Well think about it from this angle -- Why shouldnt ASR think "instead of asking "why did you cancel the check" why didnt she say "pay the damn money now"" Are zara haq jatake dekho!

Do the same in telling him that he owes her an apology -- tell him on his face what he screwed up on! Now why is that not legitimate? Let us suppose that the CVs made this character so damn dumb that he really does not know how to apologize or where he screwed up (all the instances) -- She is in love with him so she has the right to tell him that.

I think the CVs are driving this in that direction. That is my take -- so dont throw away the laptop yet -- I will wait for the end of next week. If this does not change we can do a "SHIT BOMB" attack on the Production House -- I will explain how if my prediction turns out to be wrong -- I am pretty confident it will not.

This is a legitimate way of showing the story is my take -- entertaining way -- because ASR ke paas (despite all the other claims) dimak kam hain!

SerialJunkie

ok, lets wait to unload our S-Bombs till the end of next week.. Friday, August 3rd, same time same place. Lets meet and dissect.

What do you say AyeReKhushi and others who think either ayes or nays? Lets give it one full week and meet here again for dissection (gosh! I have no life!!) We can look over the week and then decide how we feel about how they handled ASR's current handling of the situation with his wife.

And if the redemption track is anything but stellar - we will unload S-Bombs. Anticipatory Bail.

Actually maverick, from a girl's perspective, haq thub manga jaatha hai jub vishwas ho. ASR has given nothing for this girl to hold on to (other than what he wants her to hold and she dont want nothing 😆, pardon my ebonics!!)

Deal??

Well let us see if we are going to get what we thought we would.

Cheers.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Yes. This is the guy that stood apart from all other TV characters. ASR. THis is how he always was. if he's all sentimental and mushy and lover-boy like..well, he will be like every other forgettable character on TV.
Welcome back ASR !

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